One of the common sense of civilized etiquette - basic etiquette
Personal etiquette is the basis of all other etiquette. It is the comprehensive expression of a person's appearance, appearance, speech and behavior. The external manifestation of personal character, quality, taste, literacy, spiritual world and living habits. The general standards are: neat, refreshing, dignified and generous.
1. Appearance, manners and etiquette
Keep your hair clean, well-groomed, and have a hairstyle that is suitable for your own conditions, identity, and nature of work. Men should shave every day. Women's makeup should be simple, elegant and elegant, avoid excessive use of aromatic cosmetics, and avoid applying makeup or touching up makeup in public. The expression is natural and calm, and the eyes are focused, steady and soft. Keep hands clean and avoid long nails on formal occasions.
Stand posture
Stand straight and stretched, with arms hanging naturally. In formal occasions, you should not put your hands in your pockets or cross your chest, and do not make any subconscious gestures. When a woman stands, her legs should be basically close together, and the position of her feet should match her clothing. When wearing a tight skirt, keep your heels close together and your toes apart in a "V" or "Y" shape; when wearing a dress or cheongsam, keep your feet slightly apart.
Sitting posture
When sitting, your movements should be light and slow, relaxed and natural. Do not drag the chair or stool at will. Sit from the left side of the chair and sit down calmly and quietly. When a woman is sitting in a skirt, she should gather the back part of the skirt, cross her knees or legs behind her, keep her upper body upright, relax her shoulders, and put her hands on her knees or the armrests of the chair. Men can spread their legs slightly (generally no more than shoulder width) and place their hands naturally on their knees or the armrests of a chair.
When leaving your seat, the person with higher status should be asked to leave first. When leaving your seat, make gentle movements without making any noise. Leave from the left side of the seat, stand up before walking, and keep your posture light and steady.
Walking posture
When walking, you should raise your head, lean your center of gravity slightly forward, hold your chest and abdomen straight, your upper body straight, your shoulders relaxed, your arms swinging back and forth naturally, and your steps light and steady. Look naturally and don't look around.
Abide by the rules of the road and be courteous to each other. Three people walked side by side, with the elderly, women and children walking in the middle. When men and women walk together, men usually walk on the outside. Avoid eating or smoking while walking. When you meet an acquaintance, you should take the initiative to say hello or say hello. If you need to talk, you should stand by the roadside and do not obstruct traffic.
2. Conversation etiquette
Be sincere in attitude, natural and generous in expression, kind and friendly in language, and express appropriately. When talking, do not use your fingers to point at people, and make gestures in a small range. The interlocutor should keep some distance. In public places, men and women should not rub their hair together, and avoid long conversations and whispers with non-relatives of the opposite sex.
Be respectful when speaking to elders, teachers, and superiors, and be approachable when speaking to subordinates, juniors, and students. Talk to several people at the same time. Don't focus on one or two people. Take care of everyone present and pay attention to what the other person says.
Do not speak harshly or use strong words. Don't talk about people's privacy or expose their shortcomings. Don't talk about others behind their backs or make trouble. Do not talk about absurd or sensational things, and do not engage in small broadcasts. When there are disagreements during the conversation, stay calm and tolerate your differences with an open-minded attitude or avoid the topic. Avoid making loud noises, arguing and fighting over non-principled issues in public places. If you encounter attacks or insulting words, you must express your stance, but you must control your scale.
3. Clothing etiquette
Clothing is a kind of culture, which reflects the cultural quality, spiritual outlook and material civilization development of a nation; dressing is an art, and correct and appropriate dressing , can reflect a person's good mental outlook, cultural accomplishment and aesthetic taste. Dressing should be dignified and elegant in official occasions; fashion and personality should be highlighted when attending banquets, dances and other social events; clothing should be comfortable and natural in casual occasions. There are generally no more than three colors of clothing for the whole body.
Men's Clothing
Men must be neat and neat when wearing a suit. For formal occasions, you should wear a suit of the same fabric and color, a solid-color shirt, a tie, and dark leather shoes. For a three-piece suit, you cannot take off your jacket on formal occasions.
According to national practice, woolen vests and sweaters are not worn with suits. In our country, at most, only a "V" neck sweater is added to keep the lines of the suit beautiful.
The collar of the shirt should be crisp and free of dirt and stains. The hem of the shirt should be tucked into the trousers, and the collar and cuffs should be fastened. The collar and cuffs of the shirt should be 1-2 cm longer than the collar and cuffs of the suit jacket to show a sense of layering. The collar and cuffs of the underwear inside the shirt should not be exposed.
The tie knot should be full and consistent with the shirt collar. The length of the tie should be such that the large arrow hangs down to the belt buckle after it is tied. When wearing a buttoned suit, the tie clip should be sandwiched between the third and fourth buttons of the shirt.
Be sure to wear leather shoes when wearing a suit, and the color of the shoes should not be lighter than the pants. Black leather shoes can be paired with black, gray, and navy suits, and dark brown shoes can be paired with tan or beige suits. The shoes should be oiled and polished. Socks should generally be black, brown or navy blue and match the color of the trousers at all times. Avoid wearing black leather shoes with white socks.
Women's clothing
The color of office clothing should not be too eye-catching. It should be harmonious with the color and atmosphere of the office and consistent with the specific occupational classification. Clothing should be comfortable and convenient to accommodate the intensity of the work throughout the day. Revealing, fancy and reflective clothing are taboo in the office. For more formal occasions, you should choose formal business suits for women; for more relaxed professional environments, you can choose clothing with stable styling, crisp lines, rich texture and stiffness. The texture of clothing should be as refined as possible and not prone to wrinkles.
When wearing a skirt, the color of the socks should be coordinated with the color of the skirt, and the top of the socks should not be exposed outside the skirt. The skirts of young women should reach 3-6 centimeters above the knees, and the skirts of middle-aged and elderly women should reach about 3 centimeters below the knees. Shoes should be comfortable, convenient, coordinated and elegant.
Accessories
When wearing accessories, you must consider the relationship between people, environment, mood, clothing style and many other factors, and strive to achieve overall coordination. Adhere to the principles of less is better, the same quality and color, and consistent with identity.
Men can only wear rings, neckwear, necklaces, etc., and pay attention to less but more to show their masculinity. There are many kinds of female accessories, and the range of choices is relatively wide. The wearing of accessories should be coordinated with the body shape, hairstyle, face shape, skin color, clothing and work nature. Only wedding rings, pearl necklaces and plain jewelry may be worn during condolences.
Second common sense of civilized etiquette - social etiquette
Social etiquette is a daily etiquette that is frequently used in social interactions. When a person lives in society, if he wants others to respect him, he must first learn to respect others. Mastering standardized social etiquette can create a harmonious and harmonious atmosphere for communication and establish, maintain and improve interpersonal relationships. The basic principles of social etiquette are respect, observance, moderation and self-discipline.
1. Greeting etiquette
Greetings are the first message conveyed to the other party when meeting. Use different greetings for people you meet in different environments. The most standard ways to greet someone you meet for the first time are: "Hello", "Nice to meet you", "It's an honor to meet you", etc. If the other person is a famous person, you can also say "I have known you for a long time" or "Nice to meet you"; if you want to meet an acquaintance, you can use more friendly and specific words, such as "I can see you now". For some friends who have gone into business, you can use some compliments: "You look good", "You are getting more beautiful as you grow" and wait.
2. Address etiquette
In social interactions, people have always been sensitive to addresses. Choosing the correct and appropriate address not only reflects their own upbringing, but also reflects the importance they attach to others.
Titles can generally be divided into job titles, name titles, professional titles, general titles, pronoun titles, age titles, etc. Job titles include manager, director, chairman, doctor, lawyer, professor, section chief, boss, etc.; name titles are usually the surname or given name plus "Mr., Madam, Miss"; professional titles are titles characterized by occupation, such as : Miss Secretary, Mr. Service, etc.; the pronouns are "you", "you", etc. instead of other titles; the age pronouns are mainly "uncle, aunt, uncle, aunt", etc. When using titles, you must pay attention to the primary and secondary relationships and age characteristics. If you address multiple people, you should address the oldest person first, the superior first, and the most distant person first.
3. Introduction etiquette
In terms of basic methods, introduction can be divided into: self-introduction, introduction to others, and being introduced. During the introduction process, both the introducer and the person being introduced should be enthusiastic, decent and generous, and should smile throughout the introduction process. Under normal circumstances, during the introduction, both parties should remain standing and respond enthusiastically to each other.
Introducing others
The principle of “let elders and guests know in advance” should be followed. That is, first introduce the person with lower status and younger age to the person with higher status and older age; first introduce the host to the guest; first introduce the gentleman to the lady.
When introducing, it should be concise and clear, not vague. You can briefly introduce the occupation, place of origin, etc. of both parties, so that two people who do not know each other can talk to each other. When introducing someone, you should not point your finger at the other person. You should politely gesture with your palms.
Being introduced
When being introduced, you should face the other person and show your sincerity in wanting to get to know the other person. After the introduction is completed, you can shake hands and say "Hello!" "Nice to meet you!" "Long time to see you!" and other polite words to express friendship.
When a man is introduced to a woman, he should take the initiative to nod and lean slightly, waiting for the woman's reaction. According to general rules, a man does not need to extend his hand first. If a woman extends her hand, the man should immediately reach out and nod slightly, which is polite. If he is willing to shake hands with the man, he can extend his hand first.
Introduce yourself
You can extend your hand to shake hands with the other person while introducing yourself, or you can take the initiative to say hello and say "Hello!" to attract the other person's attention. Keep your eyes on the other person. After receiving a response, state your name, identity, unit and other relevant information to the other party. Your tone should be warm and friendly, and your attitude should be courteous.
4. Handshake Etiquette
Handshake is a way to communicate ideas, exchange feelings, and enhance friendship. When shaking hands, be careful not to have wet or dirty hands, don't wear gloves and sunglasses, don't cross your hand, shake or push or pull, and don't shake hands while sitting.
The order of shaking hands is generally "decided by the venerable", that is, after women, elders, married people, and those with higher positions extend their hands, men, juniors, unmarried people, and those with lower positions can reach out to respond. . Between peers, one should take the initiative to shake hands. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, the order is: elders first, then juniors, masters first, guests first, superiors first, subordinates first, ladies first, gentlemen first. When shaking hands, use your right hand and look at the other person to show respect. When a man shakes hands with a woman, he usually only holds the other person's fingers lightly and should not hold them too tightly for too long. After holding the right hand, the left hand is placed on the other hand. This is a common etiquette in our country. It expresses more kindness and respect for the other person.
5. Business card etiquette
In social situations, business cards are a simple way to introduce yourself and a symbol of a person's identity. They have become an important tool in people's social activities.
Delivery of business cards
When delivering the business card, the front side of the business card should be facing the other party and presented with both hands. You should look at the other person, smile, and say generously: "This is my business card, please take care of me." The business card should be delivered after the introduction. Do not rush to deliver the business card before the identity of the other party is clear, let alone Business cards are distributed casually as flyers. When exchanging business cards with multiple people, you should do so in order of high or low position or from near to far. Do not do it in a jumpy manner to avoid giving people a feeling of favoring one over the other.
Accept business cards
When accepting business cards, you should stand up and look at the other person with a smile. When greeting a business card, say "thank you" and read the card with a smile. Then send back a business card of your own. If you don't have a business card with you, you should apologize to the other party. Don’t rush to collect the other person’s business card before they leave or before the topic ends.
Store business cards
Do not fiddle with or throw business cards on the table after receiving other people's business cards. Do not stuff them into your pocket or throw them into your bag. They should be placed on the left chest of your suit. in your underwear bag or business card holder to show respect.
6. Telephone Etiquette
Telephone Etiquette
The telephone is the most commonly used communication tool for people. When making a phone call, consider whether it is convenient for the other party.
Generally it should be after 8 am and before 10 pm. After making a call, you should first say hello to the other party, introduce your home address and confirm your identity. When talking on the phone, keep your language concise and clear. After everything is said, say "goodbye" and hang up the phone in time. When making calls in the office, you must take care of the incoming and outgoing calls of other phones, and do not allow the line to be busy for a long time.
Etiquette for answering the phone
After the phone rings, you should quickly pick up the phone and say "hello", introduce yourself to your home, and then ask the other party the reason for the call. You must carefully understand the other party's intentions and respond positively to the other party's conversation. A phone log should be kept to record important phone calls. After you finish talking on the phone, you should wait for the other party to put down the phone before gently putting it down to show respect.
Mobile phone etiquette
When using personalized mobile phone ringtones, you should pay attention to the occasion. The ringtones should match your identity, the volume should not be too loud, the content should be healthy, and the ringtones should not convey wrong information to the public. Turn off or mute your phone during meetings, classes, or other important gatherings. Without permission, you are not allowed to touch other people's mobile phones or answer mobile phones on behalf of others. Don't take secret photos with your cell phone.
7. Internet Etiquette
Like any other form of communication, online communication also has moral norms and civilized etiquette. Internet etiquette should follow the principles of respecting each other, allowing dissent, being tolerant, staying calm, and sharing with others. Morals and laws online are the same as in real life.
Behave consistently online and offline. Remember that people exist, and don’t say things online that you can’t say in person; share your knowledge; respect other people’s time and bandwidth, and spend some time searching and researching on your own before asking questions; argue calmly and with reason Be convincing and do not attack people personally; when posting on forums, blogs, etc., you should be on the right topic, and express your gratitude to others for their replies; do not do things that are undignified, and do not participate in chain letter activities; respect the work of others and the right to privacy and not to plagiarize other works.
The third common sense of civilized etiquette - work etiquette
Work etiquette is the basic etiquette norm that grassroots civil servants must abide by in their daily work. Specifically, paying attention to the beauty of clothing, emphasizing the beauty of language, advocating the beauty of communication, and advocating the beauty of behavior are the basic contents of work etiquette that grassroots civil servants should abide by.
1. Reception Etiquette
Receiving Visitors
When receiving visits from superiors, you must be considerate and meticulous, and you must listen carefully and remember the work explained by the leaders. When leaders come to understand the situation, they must answer truthfully. If the leader comes to offer condolences, express sincere gratitude. When leaders say goodbye, they should stand up and say "goodbye" to each other. When receiving visits from subordinates or the masses, you must be cordial and enthusiastic. In addition to following the general visitor etiquette, you must listen carefully to the questions raised and explain politely if you cannot answer them at the moment. At the end of the visit, stand up and say goodbye.
Introduction
Guests who come to the office to meet with leaders are usually introduced and introduced by the office staff. When guiding guests to the leadership office, staff should walk a few steps ahead and to the left of the guests, and avoid leaving their backs to the guests. Before entering the leadership office, you must knock on the door gently and obtain permission before entering. After entering the room, you should first nod to the leader and then introduce the guest to the leader. If several guests come to visit at the same time, they should be introduced in order according to their positions. When you walk out of the room after the introduction, you should be natural, generous, and maintain a good posture. When you go out, turn around and gently close the door.
Traveling by car
When accompanying leaders and guests to go out by car, staff should take the initiative to open the car door and let the leaders and guests get out of the car. Wait until the leaders and guests are seated securely before proceeding. When getting in the car, be sure not to use too much force when closing the door. Generally, the right door of a car is up, first, and respected, so the right door should be opened first. When accompanying a guest, sit on the left side of the guest.
2. Colleague etiquette
Leader-to-subordinate etiquette
Being kind and peaceful to subordinates and respecting subordinates are the basic etiquette for leaders to treat subordinates.
You should say "thank you" when receiving services from your subordinates; you should nod or give necessary responses when your subordinates greet you; you should be tolerant when your subordinates are rude and patiently criticize and correct their mistakes; talk to your subordinates When speaking, one must be good at listening and guiding, the language and tone of questions should be cordial and peaceful, the suggestions and opinions of subordinates should be listened to with an open mind, and timely affirmation and praise should be given to what is reasonable.
Subordinates’ etiquette towards leaders
Respecting leaders and maintaining leadership prestige are the basic etiquette for subordinates towards leaders. When meeting a leader, take the initiative to say hello and be courteous when entering the door. When meeting with leaders, pay attention to the occasion and propriety when speaking, do not be rude or offensive, and do not discuss the rights and wrongs of leaders behind their backs. When reporting work to the leader, you must abide by the time. When entering the leader's office, you should knock on the door gently and enter only with permission. When reporting, you must be elegant, courteous, speak clearly, and have an appropriate tone and voice. After the report is over, if the leader is still interested in talking, he should wait until the leader indicates that he is finished before leaving.
Etiquette among colleagues
Colleagues must respect each other, take the initiative to clean up when they meet, and speak in a cordial and enthusiastic tone. When interacting and communicating with colleagues, do not appear to be too casual or absent-minded. Don't insist on your own opinions too much, but know how to support others politely. Don't talk about the shortcomings of colleagues casually, and be eager to help colleagues when they encounter difficulties.
3. Conference Etiquette
Venue Arrangement Etiquette
The venue must be arranged in advance and the necessary audio, lighting, air conditioning, projection, and camera equipment must be taken seriously. Prepare all necessary stationery and drinks. For any important meeting, a table sign with his or her name should be placed on the table in front of each person sitting on the rostrum.
The convention for arranging the seats on the rostrum is: the front row is higher than the back row, the center is higher than the two sides, and the left seat is higher than the right seat. When the number of leading comrades is an odd number, Chief No. 1 is in the middle, Chief No. 2 is on the left of Chief No. 1, Chief No. 3 is on the right, and the others are arranged in order; when the number of leading comrades is an even number, Chief No. 1 and Chief No. 2 are in the center at the same time. Chief No. 1 is on the left side of the center seat, Chief No. 2 is on the right, and the others are arranged in sequence. According to the seat arrangement, one is to sit uniformly in designated areas, and the other is to sit freely.
During the signing ceremony, the host is on the left and the guest is on the right. The number of other people on both sides is generally equal and arranged according to host and guest. The order of people during the group photo is the same as the arrangement on the rostrum.
Venue service etiquette
It is necessary to arrange the reception work for the attendees. Specific work in transportation, accommodation, medical care, security, etc. should be carefully and properly prepared. Outside the venue, dedicated personnel should be arranged to greet, guide, and accompany participants. Pay special attention to the elderly and infirm people attending the meeting. During the meeting, the organizer of the meeting has to perform routine service work.
Participant Etiquette
No matter what type of meeting you attend, neatly dressed and generous manners are necessary etiquette. Attendees must arrive on time and enter and exit in an orderly manner. During the meeting, listen carefully and avoid whispering or yawning. Whenever a speech is wonderful or ends, applaud. Be gentle when leaving the venue midway so as not to disturb others. Smoking is prohibited during the meeting, and mobile phones should be turned off or set to vibrate mode.
The main poet of the conference should pay attention to his own image, dress neatly and elegantly, and walk steadily and powerfully when walking to the podium. If you are standing to host, your legs should be close together and your back straight. When holding the manuscript, hold the bottom middle of the manuscript with your right hand, and let the five fingers of your left hand hang together naturally. When holding the manuscript with both hands, it should be at chest height. When presiding in a sitting position, the body should be straight, arms stretched forward, and hands lightly pressed on the edge of the table. During the hosting process, the atmosphere of the meeting should be adjusted according to the nature of the meeting, and various indecent actions should be avoided. During the meeting, the host cannot say hello to acquaintances at the meeting, let alone make small talk. Before the meeting starts or during breaks, the host can nod and smile.
There are two types of meeting speeches: formal speeches and free speeches. The former is usually a leadership report, and the latter is usually a discussion speech. Formal speakers should pay attention to their manners and etiquette, and their gait towards the podium should be natural, confident and graceful. You should speak clearly and logically when speaking.
If you are giving a written speech, always look up and look around the room instead of just immersing yourself in reading. After you have finished speaking, you should express your gratitude to the listeners. Speaking freely is more casual, but you must pay attention to order and order, and do not compete for the floor. When you have differences with others, you should be gentle and don't argue endlessly. If a participant asks a question, the spokesperson should answer politely. If the question cannot be answered, he should respond tactfully and not refuse rudely.
The fourth common sense of civilized etiquette - Etiquette in public places
Etiquette in public places embodies social morality. In social interactions, good public etiquette can make interpersonal interactions more harmonious and make people's living environment better. The general principles of etiquette in public places are: observing order, neat appearance, paying attention to hygiene, respecting the elderly and caring for the young.
1. Office Etiquette
When interacting with colleagues, you should use polite language and always maintain a humble and cooperative attitude. If a colleague comes to visit when he or she is out, he or she should receive them politely and pass on the details. Pay attention to personal appearance and take the initiative to clean the office. Do not touch items on other people's desks without their consent. Do not do private work or talk about private matters in the office, and do not make personal phone calls unless necessary.
2. Reading room etiquette
When going to the library or reading room to study, you must be neatly dressed, and you are not allowed to wear undershirts and slippers. When entering the library, communication tools should be turned off or set to vibrate, and when answering a mobile phone call, one should quietly step outside and talk softly. When seated, do not reserve your spot for others. When reading, read silently without making a sound or whisper. You are not allowed to talk, chat, or make loud noises in the reading room. In libraries and reading rooms, you should walk lightly and handle items with care without making any noise. You must take good care of the books. If you need help, don't shout loudly, but go to the staff.
3. Theater Etiquette
When going to a theater to watch a performance, you should enter the theater about 15 minutes in advance and take your seat as early as possible. If your seat is in the middle, you should politely signal to those already seated to let you pass. When passing someone who is giving up your seat, face him or her head-on. Never let your buttocks face the other person's face.
When watching a performance, do not wear a hat, do not eat food with skin or noise, do not laugh and make noise, and do not put your feet on the seats in the front row. Applause must be given after the performance, and actors cannot leave early before the curtain call. After the performance ends and the lights are turned on, leave in an orderly manner.
4. Shopping mall etiquette
Don’t make loud noises when shopping in shopping malls, consciously maintain public hygiene and take care of public facilities. Male and female salespersons can be collectively referred to as "comrades", and do not use "hey" as a polite address. When shopping in self-selected shopping malls, you should take good care of the products. If you are not satisfied with the selected products, you should return them to their original places. When leaving the counter after purchasing, you should express your gratitude to the salesperson for his excellent service
5. Travel etiquette
When traveling, you must consciously abide by public order, purchase tickets in order, and enter the museum. Entering the park without crowding, blocking roads and entrances and exits. We must establish environmental awareness, consciously keep the environment clean and tidy, abide by railway and civil aviation regulations, and do not carry dangerous goods or prohibited items on board flights or ships.
Walk
Stay to the right and take the sidewalk. When crossing the road, you should pay attention to the traffic signals. When the light turns green, cross the zebra crossing at the crosswalk. Pedestrians must be courteous to each other. Don't run red lights or climb over barriers on the road. When walking, do not eat snacks, do not suck, do not hold hands, do not throw debris, and do not spit.
Accommodation
When completing the accommodation registration procedures, passengers should patiently answer the inquiries from the front desk staff and complete the registration procedures in accordance with the hotel's rules and regulations. After checking into the guest room, passengers should pay attention to hygiene and take good care of the equipment in the room. When hotel attendants enter the room to deliver boiling water or perform cleaning services, travelers should treat them with courtesy. Before leaving the hotel, passengers should keep the hotel clean and tidy, keep their belongings intact, and refrain from doing anything that would harm others or benefit themselves. Go to the front desk to check out promptly and say goodbye politely to the hotel staff.
Dine
Respect the work of the waiters and be courteous to them. When the waiter is overwhelmed, he should wait patiently and do not knock on the table or bowl or shout.
Regarding the mistakes made by the waiters at work, they should be pointed out in good faith and should not be sarcastic or sarcastic.
6. Stadium Etiquette
When going to a stadium or stadium to watch a sports match, you should enter in advance and take your seat. Some games are dangerous, so be sure to sit at the designated location in accordance with the requirements of the venue and do not walk around in the restricted area to avoid danger. We must abide by public ethics, consciously maintain order, and pay attention to our own words and deeds. Smoking is generally not allowed in stadiums. Do not use flash when taking photos.
When athletes compete, spectators must remain quiet and cannot move around at will. Applause and cheers should be chosen at the right time, usually after the contestants have completed difficult movements. Applause should be limited in duration. The home audience should reflect the host's demeanor and fair spirit, applaud both sides, and show fairness and friendliness.
7. Riding Etiquette
Passengers should line up in order when taking a bus or boat, and should be considerate and courteous to women, children, the weak and the sick. Do not carry flammable, explosive or dangerous goods on board the vehicle. Do not grab your seat after getting on the bus. Passengers who are elderly, weak, sick, pregnant or carrying babies should take the initiative to give up their seats. Don't eat, shout or stick your head out of the window while riding. Don't spit anywhere, throw paper scraps or peels, and don't let children urinate or defecate anywhere. When taking a plane, you must consciously accept and cooperate with the security inspection. After boarding, do not touch or use mobile phones, laptops and other items that may interfere with radio signals.
Getting on and off the bus
When getting on the bus, you should let the car drive in front of the guest, help the guest open the door, and stand behind the guest waiting for the guest to get on the car. If there are elders among the guests, they should be supported and caressed by them before entering. When getting off the bus, you should get off first, open the door, and wait for guests or elders to get off.
Seatings
As for the seats in the car, the seat in the back row should be for the senior to sit (for two people sitting in the back row, the senior is on the right; for three people sitting in the middle, the senior is the senior, followed by the right). (on the left again), the junior or person with a lower status, sits in the passenger seat. If the owner is driving the car for the first time, he should give up the passenger seat to his senior, and the rest of the people should sit in the back seat.