Part 1: More space, less attention
Plum only through the baptism of wind and snow, to stand proudly on the branch to sprinkle pleasant fragrance.
Pearls can only be created through the grinding of the sea mussels, and emit a dazzling luster.
Swallows only through the bath of the storm, in order to lift the wings in the blue sky, release the life of the exhilaration.
All things in nature have learned to accept the challenges, meet the setbacks, so that life is more attractive, then as the animator of mankind, why not need to give the young generation more exercise and self-improvement opportunities, so that they have more self-space, less external attention and spoil it?
The young generation, as the hope of the motherland, does need to be properly cared for and loved, but it is more important to give them more space to grow, less excessive attention, so that they are in the care of the care and self-improvement in the course of healthy development. Only in this way is it more conducive to the growth and development of children.
As a parent, there must be a correct way to educate and care for children. Let the child be cared for, but not spoil the child; to cultivate the child's self-reliance and self-improvement qualities. Former South African President Nelson Mandela had lived in prison for decades, during which time he was unable to stay with his daughter to take care of her carefully. However, he insisted on keeping communication with his daughter by way of letters, not only warmly caring for his daughter's growth, but also kept teaching his daughter how to learn to be self-reliant and self-improvement, and ultimately his daughter became an outstanding journalist. Imagine the lack of education for the daughter, perhaps it will be another result! Many of the facts all confirm a truth: only moderate care and appropriate education methods can guide the child to grow up healthily.
On the other hand, if the parents are pampering their children, what will happen? Not long ago, there has been a boom in a moment of "Yang Lijuan chasing the star event" is not worthy of our deep thought? Her father was so obedient to her that in order to satisfy his daughter's wish, he finally risked his own life to fulfill his daughter's request of chasing after a star. Doesn't this also reflect the phenomenon of spoiling children and paying too much attention to them in the society? If we only spoil our children and lack proper education methods, we can only jeopardize the growth of our children and make them unable to move towards the path of healthy growth. Therefore, there must be more room for growth and less attention.
As the society and the school, we should also leave more opportunities for children to grow up and become self-reliant, so that they can develop and grow up healthily and perfectly.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes and a new set of shoes.
It is the dragon that should reign in the deep water and achieve the spirit of life.
It is a tiger that should leap over the mountains and show the vigor of life.
Then please give the children more space and less attention to them!
Part II: Learning to Let Go A complete song always has a bass response, a complete poem always has a love affair to show, a complete life always has a trough to appear, so things are always imperfect. Not to pray for a smooth sailing life, because that life is too monotonous and tasteless. When we walk on the road to fall as life on the road there is a pothole, please learn to let go, let me stand up and learn to be strong. Once upon a time, you were so spoiled me, love me, rely on me, hold me, let me. Like a star in the sky, you radiate my light many times over. In fact, I'm just a faint star. Your arrogance to me makes me not see myself, so that I can not estimate their own value, so that I lost themselves in the road of life. I know you are afraid that I have any failure, you have poured your life's work into me, just hope that I can have a good life. You don't want me to be sad, I'm sad, you always want to use your full power to make my life smooth sailing. You always try your best to keep me on the path of life as much as possible without falling down, all the way to the end of life. But have you thought about the future? In your lifetime, I can live a life of unparalleled ease and joy, but in a hundred years I will be like a newborn baby who does not know anything and does not understand anything, how can I go to the future of life? Please learn to let go, just like a mother eagle. The eagle should spread its wings in the blue sky above, so the eagle mother in their children small time let them keep learning to fly, learn to survive the technology. Because life is a long, long road, you can not be complete with me through the long and arduous journey of life. So when we are small let us learn to be independent, learn to deal with our own things in our own way, learn to use our own wisdom to solve their own problems. Please learn to let go, just like the dandelion mom. Dandelion seeds have their own wings, and dandelion moms don't leave their children behind, but let them drift with the wind to find a world that suits them, and then take root and thrive there. So you should let us find our own sky instead of following the path you set for us. We are not bonsai, we don't need to be carefully designed and arranged, we all have our own minds. Please learn to let go if you are really thinking about us. In order for us to have a complete life, please learn to let go and let us spread our wings and fly! Article 3: Please let go of your hands If I were a kite, if I were to fly up to the blue sky, please don't hold your hands tightly, don't pull tightly on the fine silk connecting you and my heart, gently and appropriately let go a little bit, and I would be able to fly higher and farther. If I am a grass, if you see me struggling in the storm, please do not use your loving hands to block the wind and rain on my blow. Letting go of your hands would mean one more test in my life, and it would be strong. If I were a clear spring, if I were to flow out of a mountain stream, please don't worry that I will be soiled by sludge, let go of your gentle hands and let me flow down your fingertips. Let go of your hands, let me send a mouthful of syrup for the thirsty deer, let me take away a dream for the fish that swims by, when I flow to the sea, I will see beautiful shells and gentle dolphins. Let go of your hands and make my life stronger; let go of your hands and make my life more full of *, vigor. Please don't worry about my fall; please don't hold on to me on the rough road; let go of your hands! I will walk well on my own. You gave me eyes on feet, you gave me life, what else do I need? I need the scorching of the sun, I need the blows of the wind and rain, I need the terror of the thunder and lightning, not your shaking, loving and gentle hands. Let go of your hands! Turn your loving hands into your words of blessing and glances of approval and let me fly free in your world of love. If you can't do all that, it's okay, just let go of your hands. Don't be afraid that the sun will scorch the flowers, don't be afraid that the wind and rain will attack the saplings, and don't wrap me tightly in your love. The sun will bring me nourishment, the wind and rain will bring strength, and your love will only stop me from growing. ┅ When a snowflake drifts down, do not wrap it tightly with your hands or it will turn into a tear; it is beyond your hands that it will be free. When I was born, please don't surround me with love, otherwise I will only turn into a pile of thoughtless meat, and it is outside your love that I ride the sands. I am on my own when I fall, please let go of your hands and let me get up on my own. And don't worry about my fall, for it will only make my steps steadier and my body stronger. Drop the seed to get the dream; let go of your hands to make a giant. Let go of your hands! Don't let me be your tears. Your love and your released hands fly together so that I can grow better! Please let go of your hands!