I think it is possible to put your parents in a nursing home if you don't have the time to take care of them yourself.
Some people say that I don't want to send my parents to a nursing home, but I just need a reason to go to a place that is not called a nursing home, but a home, where we can have dinner together in the evenings and have a chat. No one wants to go to a nursing home if they can have a happy home. The prerequisite is that your parents are healthy, don't need your care, and can give you a hand, you never fight, and your parents have enough retirement money.
But if your parents become incapacitated or demented in old age as above, when urinating and defecating anywhere becomes a common occurrence, when the faucet stays open, when the gas is left on, when you get up at three o'clock in the middle of the night to wake you up, when you forget the way home because you accidentally didn't pay attention to your parents' outings, and when the babysitter's salary exceeds yours, will you still insist on having a "complete home"?
Society is gradually aging, and we have to face the problems of our parents getting old, ourselves getting old in the future, and how to live when we get old. The one-child program has left many families with only one child, and in one-child families, the elderly are faced with the decision of whether to live on their own or with their children when they grow old.
So, from a certain point of view, I prefer the elderly and the elderly living together, there is a small compound, the elderly and the elderly *** with more topics, in life there are specialized caregivers to take care of, once the body of the problem will be more professional care. Life can live with their own people with *** the same topic, will not be like with their children together to produce too many conflicts, hurt each other's feelings.
On the other hand, when one is old, one needs to be taken care of more by one's children, and if one lives with one's children, it may increase the pressure of the children, so that they can't focus on their own work.