1, live is to suffer
The movie master Chris Gardner, based on a financier, is the first to be a member of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences (AASA). The movie's main character, Chris Gardner, is based on a financier. He is a salesman who lives a dull life like millions of ordinary people. He buys a handheld bone density scanner with his entire savings, and then travels the streets of the city every day to sell it to hospitals. He needs to sell 2 units a month to pay for his rent and his son's childcare, and if he has to pay other fines, he needs to sell at least one more unit, but even though he works hard to sell them, it's hard to sell them because of the high price of this medical device.
When his wife, who works two jobs, leaves him because she can't stand living in poverty for so long, Chris Gardner has to deal with more than just his job. Gardner not only had to face the challenges of his job, but also had to take care of his son on his own. Because he hadn't been able to sell his products for a long time, he was evicted by his landlord because he was behind in his rent payments, and left to live on the streets with his son. The most bitter time he slept with his son to the public **** bathroom, every day 17:00 rushed to the shelter to live a night, the next day and then change another shelter to live, when the body of the money left, he even went to sell blood for money.
He worked as an unpaid intern during the day, and took his son with him to sell products in his spare time. In the end, he was one of 20 interns selected to become a full-time employee of a stock brokerage firm, and he not only got the job he wanted, but also founded his own company.
2, you talk to the child how to decide what he will become
Love children is the nature of parents, for children, parents love is the world's biggest magic, but love needs to use "good spell" to encapsulate. On the basketball court, the son was worried that he would not be able to become a professional ball player, the father said: "If you have a dream, you have to defend it. Those who have accomplished nothing are trying to tell you that you won't make it. If you have a vision, go out and try to realize it. That's all. You have to do everything you can to protect your dreams. Those who laugh at your dreams because they are bound to fail are trying to turn you into someone like them. I firmly believe that as long as I have a dream in my heart, I will be different, and so will you."
They were evicted because they couldn't pay their rent and were forced to try to live in a shelter, and to add insult to injury, he and his son didn't get a place in line and had to sleep in a subway station. Here, he and his son use a time machine to dress up as "savages" and sleep in a "cave". He tries to convince his son that all this difficulty is just a game.
Even though life is difficult, as a father, he has always been strong in the face of adversity, trying to cultivate the child's spirit of optimism in the face of adversity, father and son, although the days of hardship, he tried to make his son happy and happy life, he is a wise father.
3. Work hard with expectations, the days are extra meaningful
(1) Optimism: Chris is still optimistic to face life even though his life is down and out, with a smile on his face all the time, and he firmly believes that he will be happy.
(2) Humor: arrested for not paying a parking fine, the next day to go to the interview to face the examiner's question: "Suppose there is a man who does not wear formal dress to run over to the interview and then I hired him, what would you say?" "He must have been wearing a great pair of pants."
(3) Toughness: absolutely no knowledge of stocks Chris relied on perseverance in a stock company as an intern, in the six-month internship period, his hands do not leave the training materials, learned to work during the day, you can not drink water and not go to the toilet to shorten the work time, but also to find ways to improve efficiency and complete the work task, and then go to the kindergarten to pick up the children after school, so that after rushing to 17:00 in the Shelter waiting in line in front of the door to have a place to stay at night.
Chris in the movie is one of us ordinary people, it's you and me. Ordinary people live to make themselves and their families better and happier.
Happiness is something you have to create on your own. Like the main character in the movie, although his life has been at a low point, he is creating happiness all the time. Our life is also like this, because of the creation, so happy; because of the efforts, so harvest!