Why were you willing to have children when your family was poor before? But now the conditions are better, but not willing to do so? In response to this question, we analyze the next.
Let's start by saying why were you willing to have children when your family was poor in the past?
First of all, the main reason is the social environment, we are in a different social environment in each era, for example, compared to the age of parents, our social environment has changed, so if we compare with the grandparents, our social environment is even more different. The social environment will create different thoughts and experiences.First, the social environment - the problem of food and clothing
Grandma's time, they all have seven or eight children, like now my uncle and aunt is especially many. Because Grandma told us that there was no way to solve the problem of food and clothing in those days, and no one knew whether the children could survive for a long time in the future. Then they would have more children to be able to continue their offspring, so they would have more children to maximize the survival rate.
The reason why people do this is because they want to keep their "flame" alive.
Second, the social environment - feudalism
I have a male student, his family a **** six children, and the first five are sisters, he is the smallest one. He said that feudalism (favoring sons over daughters) was particularly strong in their family.
So in order to have a boy, they would go out of their way to have a lot of children. The idea of son preference was very serious in those days, and of course the feudalism is very serious in some areas nowadays.
Third, the social environment - medical equipment
I believe that in the past mom and dad in that era of the people a lot of people are in the home delivery, and will not be like now as directly to the hospital, but also more afraid to deliver the baby at home.
Then in those days, medical equipment was relatively backward. So many people didn't have a great mindset to deliver babies in hospitals, and of course there were many people who couldn't afford to do so.
Of course there is more to the social environment. Then in such an environment, even if the family is poor, they do not think about how to educate the child, but to be able to raise the child to grow up, is already the greatest ability.
After finishing the past, then we now come back to the discussion, nowadays the social conditions of the family are already very good, why on the contrary, they are not willing to give birth to it?
With the development of the times, people's ideology is also constantly and rapidly developing, the past thinking has been slowly eliminated, so now we are facing what kind of problem?
First, the education factor
We now have children at home parents will find that the child's education is a very high-pressure "work". Not only do we have to work from nine to five every day, but we also have to "teach" our children in our spare time at work.
Nowadays, both kindergartens and elementary school will send some homework to parents, so that they can supervise their children to complete it. In this case, having a second child will add to the burden of the parents, as well as a great deal of pressure to educate.
Second, economic factors
Of course, the reason why many people no longer want to have a second child is also because of economic factors. In today's society, in order to want to create a good educational environment as well as a living environment for the child, it is necessary to pay a lot of costs, then this cost of payment is the need to pay money.
Nowadays, in the rapid development of society, many people give up the idea of having a second child because of economic factors. Just want to single-mindedly invest all the resources in one child, which may achieve good results.
Third, personal factors
We all may have gone to the hospital to see the pregnant woman who is about to give birth, and then there are many people who have experienced such a thing, and everyone remembers, are full of "bitter". The first painful experience, then many people are not willing to come back for a second time.
Because everyone's body is different, there are many factors that make this possible.
Fourth, the factors of late marriage
Nowadays, many people choose to get married late, then especially women in the choice of late marriage, her fertility will not be as young as so easy to be a high maternal age.
Then at this time, because of physical reasons will also discourage them from having children.
Fifth, Dinks
Now this society Dinks more and more, due to social pressure they do not want to have children, so they will choose Dinks.