Opposite: Adversity is more favorable to human growth (Shih Hsin University)
Thesis Statement
Positive
Jun Zhang: Good times are good situations, and adversity is the opposite. Human growth refers to the process of human transformation from a natural person to a social person, as well as full socialization. The healthy development of body and mind and the maturation of social roles are two indicators that show that although good times and bad times are inevitable in the process of human growth, good times are more conducive to human growth in comparison.
First of all, from the point of view of human physical and mental development, on the one hand, scientific nutritional supply, sound public **** health system, compared with the lack of material security, lack of public **** health services, more conducive to human physiological growth. On the other hand, good times are more conducive to the growth of the human mind, the growth of the human mind includes the enhancement of cognitive ability, temperament cultivation, character development. In adversity, the learning environment is repressive to cognize things, but in good times, an encouraging educational atmosphere is provided, which is more conducive to the systematic development of cognition. Adversity allows us to recognize the hardships of life, but it also tends to produce anxiety and distress, and even a sense of alienation and mistrust of others. In good times, we can realize the warmth of family, the love of society and the value of friendship, and thus have a tolerant, open and healthy mind. In adversity, the cultivation of human character is conditional, it is easy to exceed the basic psychological pressure range, resulting in personality distortion. While in good times, the cultivation of human character, but is subtle, through positive educational means, and good temperament cultivation, forging a more sound personality.
Secondly, from the point of view of the socialization process, on the one hand, the good times are more conducive to meet the needs of the growth of all stages of life, when we are still children, the good times in the family's care so that we have the self-confidence and sense of autonomy, and in the broken in the family grew up in the children, easy to inferiority complex. When we are teenagers, a good education in good times will enable us to succeed in our studies and make a good living, while a lack of education will cause us to lose the support for our growth and the direction of our life. When we reach adulthood and even old age, the good times make people in self-affirmation, get lifelong growth momentum, while the impact of adversity, easy to make people depressed, self-denial. On the other hand, good times are more conducive to the maturity of social roles, because the growth of human beings is always marked by the independent assumption of appropriate social roles, and the hardship of adversity is likely to produce a sense of frustration, which interrupts the process of lifelong growth, whereas in good times the continuous social development, sound institutional arrangements, and harmonious daily life provide a more benign space for the maturity of human social roles.
With the good wind, we are helped to rise to the top. With the good wind of good times, we can spread our wings of growth and fly higher and farther in the sky of life. Thank you!
Opposing side
Liang Youcheng: After listening to the other side's remarks, the other side told us that the smooth situation is equal to the smooth situation, but she didn't tell us whether she was talking about the process of the smooth situation, or the result of the smooth situation, so obviously this point, we think that it is doubtful. Now let's clear up the basic concept of the topic of the debate. The adversity that we are referring to today is the fact that in the process of pursuing a goal, the efforts he makes and the difficulties he encounters are higher than what is generally expected. So if a person, who has to put in three minutes of effort to solve some problems, ends up putting in eight minutes, or even more effort, and is unable to accomplish it, we say that this person has faced a certain amount of adversity, but of course this kind of adversity can't threaten his life, and this kind of desperation is beyond the scope of what both sides of the issue should be discussing today.
We believe that the so-called growth refers to the enhancement of a person's knowledge, experience, ability and personality, so in simple terms, adversity is more conducive to the growth of a person. When a person's efforts, or difficulties, are greater than he or she expects, we can still achieve more intellectual development in the process.
We say that adversity is more conducive to human growth for three reasons. First, we believe that adversity grows one's ideas and knowledge, and when we realize that we're going down the wrong path, we know more about how to go down the wrong path, and so our insights in life as well as all kinds of experiences are richer. Edison spent 20 years and did more than 50,000 experiments before he was able to successfully invent this simple electric core, so he was asked, hey, how do you know the final result must be successful? Edison told him that success is not the only result, I have more than 50,000 results, because I have learned from more than 50,000 experiences. Secondly, we believe that adversity expands one's horizons and patterns, and when we realize that the road is more difficult than we thought it would be, the next time we do that kind of anticipation will be done higher, and we will do more preparation. A person who expects that he's going to finish a problem in three minutes, and he ends up taking eight minutes, the next time he's going to do eight minutes of preparation. Thirdly, we believe that adversity helps to stimulate our potential, and that it's the risks we take along the way, the challenges we have, that stimulate this ability that we couldn't have imagined for ourselves. Psychologically, a child who is challenged by a teacher in a higher-than-expected capacity as he learns, develops better.
I'm sure everyone here has read Journey to the West, and those who are familiar with it know that the most important thing is not the result of the journey, but the process of overcoming the difficulties along the way. That is why we say that the sky will be the limit. Thank you all!
Cross-examination
Opposite side cross-examined the positive side
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the defense, hello, the following we play a game, this game is very simple, is that now on our table, on top of which there are three cups, please guess, which cups, we have to put the throat candy inside.
Ma Weiwei: This really can not guess. Is it that the one with the throat lozenges is the good times and the one without is the bad times?
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the defense, you first guess will know, you can guess, guess wrong can be guessed again is also okay.
Ma Weiwei: I'll guess all three, okay?
Zhuang Zhikai: Yes, the other side of the defense. Let's see, the other side has throat lozenges in here, right?
Marvell: Uh-huh.
Zhuang Zhikai: If you guessed correctly, I would like to ask you, if you do not have the opportunity to guess the next time, how do you prove that there is no laryngeal mucus in these two?
Marvell: Why do I have to prove that there is no laryngitis in these two? I think if people live, if they really have candy and then have a better life, they can get development, it's enough. There is no need to try many wrong paths, there is no difficulty to create difficulties to go on, don't you think so?
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the defense, I want to tell you is that if you guessed correctly today, these two cups in the end what is put inside, you will never know, right?
Ma Weiwei: But life is not a guessing game, where I guessed correctly that there is sugar in the throat candy, and guessed wrongly that there is no sugar in the throat candy, it's very simple, and the loss is not great. But there are times when it is often a very influential and significant choice for my whole life, and if I choose the wrong one, it may really be too late to regret. So when we can take the right path, we still do not go to the detour.
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the debate, today you come to participate in the international tertiary debates, if you say that today you meet all the strength of the team are very strong, and their strength is beyond the strength of your side expected, this time, the next time you participate in this tournament, you will not be more fully prepared, more serious preparation, because of the fear of encountering a stronger opponent?
Ma Weiwei: But no matter how strong my opponent is, I have my coach, my teammates, and the audience under the court supporting me, I think this is a smooth situation for me to develop, and in the midst of this smooth situation, no matter how strong the opponent is, I will rise to the challenge and succeed, thank you.
Zhuang Zhikai: Does your opponent mean that next time when you meet a stronger opponent, your side is not going to prepare more seriously because you think that you can beat the stronger opponent at this level now?
Ma Weiwei: No, even if you are my opponent, you are not my predicament, I think you are the driving force in my growth, your concern and encouragement, I am very grateful.
Chuang Zhikai: Thank you.
Positive side cross-examined the negative side
Huang Lei: Well, we also talk about some small props, just now in the field, there are people for us to beat the drums and cheer, but sometimes playing debate, may be alone, alone, which is more conducive to your play?
Huang Jingwen: The other side of the debate, as long as you are willing to cheer for us, that's good.
Huang Lei: Yes, so just now there are people cheering for us, more conducive to our play, otherwise cold and quiet, can not be conducive to our growth. The second question, you put on the table should be the box of instant noodles, right, instant noodles can be saturated and instant noodles can be beneficial to people's health, is not a concept?
Huang Jingwen: the other side of the defense, instant noodles it is a kind of food, I really do not know, this question with the good and bad situation what kind of relationship ah?
Huang Lei: Actually, this is just a simple analogy. In the face of adversity, a person can be relieved of his or her fullness, and basic needs can be met, but is it not a different concept from that which is conducive to the growth of a person?
Huang Jingwen: the other side of the debate, the sky will come down to the people also, because of this, the pain, we can be more successful, because we have failed, because we have encountered adversity, we know, we should go up, we should work hard, we should be more towards the growth of the people ah.
Huang Lei: How is the descent of the great man? Can be the first to starve you, and then empty you yo, to labor you yo, in order to give you the responsibility. But the growth of each of us, is not such an experience? Then ask the other side of the debate, just now on the field, someone for each of us to send a bottle of water, so that we go on the field before moistening the throat, which can be said to help us, right, this is not more favorable?
Huang Jingwen: I certainly want to thank very much the gentleman who just gave us the water, he did let us wet our throats. Furthermore, the other side of the debate, just now the so-called good times can be satiated, however, the other side of the debate, when we are hungry, we will know that the original refugees in Africa, they are so hungry, when we have the ability to do so, we will be able to help these people because we have encountered such an adversity when we are hungry, we can help these people, can make us grow more in our life, isn't it?
Huang Lei: But according to the other side's argument, the adversity of the people in Africa is conducive to their growth? If we want to help them, aren't we just curbing their growth?
Huang Jingwen: Precisely because they are in Africa, they are hungry, they want to work hard, they develop more. The other side of the defense, you can see now ......
(Time is up)
Refutation
The anti-party rebuttal to the positive side
Huang Jiazhong: Let's review, just now, in the defense of the interrogation, the other side of the debate, the other side of the defense in the guessing of our table of throat lozenges, she used a very subtle way, said I'm not sure if it's possible for me to guess all three. In this game, of course you can, but I would like to ask the audience here, in our life choices, can I say I want all of them? I don't think so. No matter we are scientists doing experiments, no matter we are students choosing life experiences and processes, no matter we are entrepreneurs choosing the direction of business investment, it seems that we have to choose one from them, of course, if we meet the good times, we all guessed correctly the first time, we get the fruit of success, I opened the first cup to know that there is something in it, but in the process, what have I lost? I lost the opportunity to see what was in the other cups. Isn't there a saying in Forrest Gump that life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what it tastes like until you eat it? One of the characteristics of a smooth person is that he always eats his favorite chocolate, but then, he never knows what the other chocolates taste like, and he never knows what kind of scenery will be on the other paths.
The other apologist told us today that the so-called good times have three standpoints, the first of which is development in physiology, but we have to know that physiology is really easier to bring about development in the midst of good times? We all know that the reason why the human body produces antibodies against germs is because we have been sick before we have antibodies. If you have never been sick before, and a single illness knocks you down, how can this be a development in good times? The other apologist also told us that it is only when there are good times that the body gets better, but this is not the same as our experience either. A rich man with a car, a house, and servants is a good time, right, and his body is better than a farmer's? Secondly, the other apologist told us that his mind would grow in good times, but let's think about it, if we go to college and meet two teachers, one is a strict teacher and the other is a lazy teacher, who lets you pass any course and gives you high grades for any assignment you turn in, it's always a good time, but will your mind grow? Finally, we also think about the issue of character, the other side of the debate, if I am in a smooth environment where parents are extremely spoiled, breaking vases, parents say it's okay, playing tricks on children, it's okay. Opponent, would such a spoiled character be normal? Thank you all!
Positive rebuttal to the negative
Huang Lei: Thank you, Mr. Zhizhong. Let's also briefly analyze what the other side's argument tells us. They say ah, good times bring people a kind of comfortable environment, while adversity brings people a mechanism, what mechanism, so that you know which way is wrong, there are 108 elements in the chemical elements, if you want to experiment, which element is poisonous, you can be one by one to taste, but when tasting the first poisonous, you have already been dead. Besides, what is human growth? The other side told me that human growth is the process of guessing the chocolate, which we do not agree, in fact, life, ah, like the growth of a tree, there is a need for a stable environment to ensure that the other side confuse what? In adversity, people can grow, and adversity is conducive to the growth of people, are two very different concepts, why do you say, Edison, through the experiment, can summarize their experience, have gained, I can tell yo, Edison has a first-class experimental equipment and a first-class laboratory, if these are in short supply, not to say that Edison experiments with 50,000 kinds of materials, I'm afraid that he is still wandering on the street, not be able to carry out scientific research.
That said, what is in adversity can grow, which is like saying Sima Qian's "Historical Records" it is made in adversity, but adversity is conducive to scientific research, is another concept, right? It is easy to understand, for example, drugs can play the role of medical paralysis, but to argue that drugs are conducive to people's health, these are two very different concepts, otherwise, we still need to anti-drug what. In fact, what adversity provides to people is the process of training certain individual characters, whereas good times are the process of comprehensive development of people. Is comprehensive development not a very different concept from the formation of certain extreme characters? In fact, the other side of the adversity, we do not deny that what he said is that adversity brings frustration, but good times bring you the ability to overcome frustration and conditions, is it more important?
On the defense
Xue Le: Thank you, maybe we need to talk about some of the heavy topics in growing up. According to a survey, children in violent families have an inferiority complex of 60 percent, compared with less than 10 percent in normal families, so is family care more conducive to children's growth?
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side just said this abusive family, this is a desperate situation ah, he is not the adversity ah, as the other side said, if according to your side of the smooth situation, lying over there every day, there will be food to eat, do not do anything at all, so there is the growth of?
Xue Le: the other side of the defense first of all, please tell me, why the emergence of domestic violence, children face life is worse than death, or must die?
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the defense, because it is not yet an adult, can not be responsible for their own ability, and then ask the other side of the defense is, if the good times can make a person grow, may I ask how to explain the saying that the rich can not be three generations?
Xue Le: rich but three generations is a law of necessity, then today we all do not get rich, because if you get rich, your grandchildren may have to be unlucky ah.
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the defense, if the good times make people grow, but jade is not cut into a weapon, the other side of the defense, this sentence you explain a little more.
Xue Le: the other apologist, why do you keep asking us to explain some of our problems? I'd like to ask the other side of the debate, today we said that a study in criminal psychology shows that if a teenager is in a broken family, his crime rate is three times higher than that of a normal family, may I ask you whether a sound family is more conducive to the growth of the teenager?
Chuang Zhikai: The other side of the debate is again citing the desperate situation, we should be discussing, in the family told you to do something or not do something, which is better. Then ask the other side of the defense is, the sky will come down to the people also, hard work, let him get the grind, why can not grow? Does it mean that lying over there, he can become a great general or a great saint?
Xue Le: the other side of the defense, Mencius's words, this Shi Ren does not mean a great man, but refers to us as a person, to do so. Please ask the other side of the debate, if the broken family is equal to the desperate situation, then today I want to tell you ......
(the positive side of the time to)
Zhuang Zhikai: the other side of the debate has been said that the good times are conducive to the growth of the other side of the debate, I want to ask the other side of the debate, the Journey to the West, the whole story is about the passage of the scriptures that they have been through. According to the other side of the debate, according to the way, if it is very simple, then the Tang Sanzang directly ask the Monkey King to take him to the Western Heaven to get a scripture back, is not it a success to fetch the scripture?
Opposite Debate 2
Liang Youcheng: Continuing the topic from earlier, I would like to ask the opposing side, why doesn't the Monkey King just fly to the West and get the scripture right away?
Ma Weiwei: Because he is the Monkey King, he has 72 changes, but if I were to go to fetch the scriptures, there is no change, may be the first difficult time, has been eaten by the tiger, you still want to deliberately make me so difficult?
Leung Yau Ching: That's a very good point, so you see, it's because you're afraid of being eaten by a tiger, all these adversities have made you grow up, and if you haven't encountered this kind of adversity, then how are you going to face this kind of difficulty next time?
Marvell: The other side of the debate, aren't you afraid of being eaten by a tiger? Then you really know that there is a tiger in the mountain, but you are going towards the tiger mountain! May I ask the other apologist, is there any essential difference between what you call desperate situation and adversity?
Leung Yau Ching: Before that, may I ask the other side, what do you think is the difference between success and growth?
Ma Weiwei: All growth is not necessarily success, but growth includes success. Please answer my question positively, what is the essential difference between adversity and desperation?
Liang Youcheng: First of all, we do not think it is necessary to answer why, because the other side of the defense today is fundamentally in the premise of the wrong, they let us choose what, in the success and failure, you have to choose what, of course, all of us will choose to success. But the question, today we are talking about the process before the success, the other apologist please tell us, in the process, why the good times are more favorable.
Ma Weiwei: our first defense has said very clearly, the original opponent is a concept bomber, adversity failed, put forward the desperate situation, and then the desperate situation can not be explained, and then make the Lingbo Weiqibu. Please answer positively, what is the difference between desperate situation and adversity?
Liang Youcheng: If you can't explain yourself clearly, people can't listen to you, then whose fault is it, I think we all know. The other side of the defense has not been clearly told so far, you think the smooth situation what is its definition?
Ma Weiwei: From the physiological, psychosocial two levels of four points, we have argued very clearly, but the other side of the debate, never explain the difference between their adversity and desperation.
Leung Yau Ching: Then ask how to be more in these four points of physiology and psychology, to be considered "more".
Ma Weiwei: our first defense just said very clearly, do you still want me to repeat it to you, you never answer my question, is it because your adversity is not too adversity, a little bit of adversity, there is a little bit of material help, but also got the support of the people, this is a heaven on earth, right!
(Positive time)
Liang Youcheng: It is your side of the ability to speak of our side as "absolute", and then your side of the "smooth" to speak of as very upward, of course, we have no way to answer. The other side has no way to understand the premise of today's debate, so how can we go on debating? I'm sorry, but we don't agree with this attitude, thank you.
Questions
Yu Lei: I would like to invite the fourth defense, Xue Le.
Xue Le: Thank you.
Yu Lei: First of all, let me remind you that today's debate is a comparative proposition, comparing which one is more, if you understand adversity as a violent family, a criminal environment, then can't we also understand the good times as the clothes that come in handy, the food that comes in handy, and the pie that falls out of the sky? Is such an environment conducive to human growth, thank you!
Xue Le: Thank you for your question, first of all, we want to tell you that in fact, in the broken family and in the single-parent family is indeed in the adversity, but we also do not deny to tell you that there are people in such hardship in the midst of growth. Former U.S. President Bill Clinton and former British Prime Minister David Heath both came from single-parent families, but that doesn't mean that single-parent families or domestic violence is conducive to your growth, and in response to the guest's question, it's possible that in good times you can also be a little emperor with a handful of clothes and a mouthful of food. So, we should be vigilant in good times, we should also be in the good times, in the family care, make our adjustments, but please note that this is in the good times of the adjustment, there is no one because to see other families, someone because of the spoiled and become a little emperor, we as parents have to say to the child, ah, in order to avoid letting you become a little emperor, I'd rather not to care for You. Obviously this is not conducive to the physical and mental development of our children, so in good times, we have to make adjustments, and we can't argue that adversity is more favorable to human growth than good times, thank you.
Wang Xinqing: I'd like to ask the first defense of the opposite side, I just noticed that you never answered positively to the third defense of the positive side of the question, that is, what is the adversity, what is the desperate situation? In your definition, you consider unbearable adversity as extinction, so can I assume that the so-called adverse circumstances that are not conducive to the growth of human beings are all attributed to extinction, in which case I think that you have a suspicion of circularity in your argumentation. Then I would like to ask, since there will be people simply can not bear the existence of adversity, how he will be conducive to the growth of people, I hope you positive answer to my question, thank you.
Liang Youcheng: Thank you for your question, Mr. Wang, in fact, today our side said, in a competitive platform, we are comparing today between the two sides in the end who is more conducive to the development of this person, he is in the nature of the comparison, must be the same. And then the other side told us that they describe our adversity today as what they call a desperate situation, and of course that's hard to define. But I say, if I am faced with a desperate situation today, and then I die immediately, then of course this is a desperate situation for me, but if this adversity, itself, is something that I did not anticipate in the whole process, let's say, for example, today I intend to say that I have to put in three percent of the effort, but in the end I realize that I have to put in eight percent of the effort in order to solve this kind of problem, and that's adversity for me, but I have to put in ten percent of the effort, and in the end I can't do it. put in ten percent effort, and in the end I can't do it, and that's called a desperate situation. But the most important thing is that we must understand where the platform is today, because just now when the other side of the defense in the comparison, why can't answer such a question, because the other side of the defense's analogy is very strange, they are talking about their own good times, this person is very motivated and upward, he meets any problem, meets the even better times, he can be very hard work, but when it comes to us, meets But when it comes to us, when it comes to adversity, we have to give up on ourselves right away, so it's really hard for us to compare, so I hope this guest can understand, thank you!
Lu Yiming: I would like to ask the second contestant from the positive side.
Huang Lei: Thank you.
Lu Yiming: In your earlier statement, we heard that the good times can provide the conditions to overcome difficulties, but we know that overcoming difficulties is not just a condition, but also requires the ability of the individual, the growth of the person, is a continuous process, a sign of growth, I understand that this two aspects of the four points is more difficult to put it simply, a criterion is that, it is the ability to solve and face the problem of uncertainty One of the criteria is that the ability to solve and face uncertainty increases. If a person grows up in the midst of good times, where does his experience come from and what are the signs of his growth in the face of uncertainty?
Lei Huang: Thank you for the question, in fact, we frankly admit that everyone in life always have good times, always have adversity, the guest said that the uncertainty of the difficulties will appear in our life journey, this point we frankly admit. In fact, when difficulties arise, this is what the other side argues, facing difficulties, in fact, we say, the good times, it happens to provide a way to solve the difficulties, it is like saying, adversity brings us to face challenges, but facing challenges and solving challenges, is it a concept? Obviously not, the two are very different, because in adversity you face the difficulty of uncertainty, but in good times, to give you to overcome this difficulty to provide a favorable guarantee. For example, we have the guidance of good teachers and friends, usually for us to teach us, for us to remind us of the good words, to remind us of which omissions; such as good material conditions, good living environment, these, we overcome the difficulties provided by the favorable conditions. In fact, then again, facing difficulties, and overcoming difficulties, is exactly where the difference lies today, and overcoming difficulties is the standard of growth, thank you.
Jiang Changjian: I'd like to ask the third person on the opposite side, Mr. Huang Zhizhong. My question is this: what is the purpose of the countless martyrs who have thrown their heads out and spilled their blood for the sake of the next generation to have a good situation? Related to this is the countless scientists like Mr. Chen-Ning Yang who, through their exhaustive research, try to minimize the uncertainties in the universe and our living environment to ensure the healthy and stable development of mankind, so is the environment created by him to overcome the uncertainties a good situation or a bad situation? I hope that your answer will not be in the format of: if Mr. Yang does not overcome all kinds of difficulties, how can he create science? My response to this is that if Mr. Yang does not believe that the good circumstances I left behind can create a more comfortable environment for the next generation, how can I have the motivation to do research? Can we leave this chicken and egg logic, you give me an answer, thank you.
Huang Jizhong: I understand, thanks to Mr. Jiang's question, our view is that basically I can know, if I let me choose, of course I hope to be able to live in a smooth environment, if the parents to choose, of course, he hopes that the children live in a smooth environment, why? Why? Because this is human nature, and we cannot criticize it. However, we have to understand that we want our next generation to live in a good environment because we cannot bear to see them suffer. However, we know that our ability to face difficulties and to solve them actually emerges from the difficulties, and if I, the parent, help him to solve the difficulties, if I create a favorable situation for him and help him to solve the difficulties, in fact, this little child is not solving the difficulties, it is me who helps him to solve the difficulties, and the favorable situation will not let people have such an ability. So we know that scientists and martyrs, whether they are scientists or martyrs, they have the same intention as their parents for other people, other people, or other people, that I hope that what I do will make everyone happier, happier. But growth, we don't want you to be satisfied with that, you have to look for the adversity in your life, so you can grow more, thank you!
Free debate
Zhang Jun (positive): May I ask if people go to the aid of children in war-stricken and famine-stricken areas in order to let them get rid of adversity and grow up better?
Huang Jingwen (the opposite side): The other side of the debate, people rescue the children in the middle of the desert, they do it for a pity, a love. Opponent, I would like to ask you, if it is possible to grow up in the midst of good times, why do armies need to march and why do monks need to go on austerities?
Xue Le: Why do we have to give our care? Isn't it precisely because we see that they are in the midst of adversity, which is not conducive to their growth, that we have to give our care? If adversity is more conducive to their growth, should we show envy to them, and let everyone go to the poor mountainous areas, which is more conducive to the growth of all of us?
Huang Jizhong: The other side of the debate, the starving people in Africa are starving to the point of life and death, and you show envy to them, this is not right. We go to save them, to help them, belongs to compassion, how can the other side of the debate can be compared.
Marvel: Isn't it a kind of moral hypocrisy if our compassion but hinders their growth in adversity? As for the question of monks, the ascetic monk in India, but can seven days and seven nights in the grave without eating or drinking, he grew up well, is it possible for us to grow up, we also have to not eat or drink to cultivate the Buddha?
Liang Youcheng: the other side of the defense, you told us that today if we have a choice, of course, we will not choose the adversity, but the question is, you just told us a lot of philosophies of life, when do we have a choice in life?
Huang Lei: In fact, when there is a choice in life, the other side of the defense has given us a choice, he has to deliberately try the wrong road to verify the road is wrong. I'd like to ask you now, which is more conducive to your growth, having a mentor to teach us the way or blindly trying to figure it out on your own?
Zhuang Zhikai: The other side of the debate, here are 100 stories of famous people, they all grew up in adversity, according to you, their stories should be written that he grew up in a rich family, lying there he grew up, right?
Huang Lei: There are 2 million viewers here telling us that there is a better environment to grow up in, what does that mean?
Huang Jizhong: the other side of the defense, we have already said, we generally people, we can not bear him to bear adversity, we generally people will only choose the good times. But a great man becomes a great man because when he makes a choice, he is willing to pick the difficult path to take, I don't have such self-confidence, so I won't become an ascetic monk in India ah.
Xue Le: The other side's No. 3 debater told us that we can actually choose our path in life, but the other side