Ordinary people in the face of a sudden high moment of life, it is very difficult to keep the heart. Because they have had less and seen less since birth, they will be more easily lost. Of course, this does not mean that ordinary people do not have the meaning of trying to climb upward.
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Zhao Benshan had a girl who was only 22 years old when the girl was on fire all over the country. But after the fire, she chose to abandon her husband and son. Now after so many years, she has lived in the end how it? After abandoning her husband and son, does she still have no regrets and is still making a name for herself?
In 2009, Ya Dan sang "Tibetan Plateau" and became popular
2009 Spring Festival Gala, Zhao Benshan a **** brought fire to two, a small Shenyang, another is Ya Dan. Ya Dan sang "Tibetan Plateau" at the Spring Festival Gala, allowing many people to see the strength of the duet actor.
Ya Dan's real name is Lv Pin, but she later changed her name to Lv Shiyi. However, her real name was not memorable, so she used the stage name Mao Mao when she performed duet at that time. It wasn't until after the fire that she officially changed her stage name to Ya Dan. It's slightly earthy, but it's just so grounded that it's easy to catch fire.
In fact, Zhao Benshan is really very good to Ya Dan, after all, with Ya Dan's original appearance conditions, almost and the Spring Festival Gala without a chance. If she hadn't met Zhao Benshan, she might have been a talent for the rest of her life. Of course, after the popularity, Zhao Benshan also held Yayan nearly ten years, is also considered to be a real Bole and mentor.
After the popularity, the male is weak and the female is strong, the relationship between husband and wife is problematic
Ya Dan was popular in 2009, also in the same year, and Zhao Benshan's disciple married. This is also regarded as a good marriage under the witness of a benefactor. But unfortunately, Wang Jinlong, also known as Ya Dan's ex-husband, he has not been hot.
Born in 1984, Wang Jinlong is three years older than Ya Dan, and is still very tolerant of Ya Dan in his life. But unfortunately, in terms of career development, is not as good as Ya Dan. Wang Jinlong's masterpieces are only "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala" and "Superstar", in which it is just a mediocre role.
And Ya Dan? Although involved in a lot of film and television works, little effect, but at least the 2009 Spring Festival Gala opened her popularity, even if it is now talking about Yadayan, see the Northeast big flower jacket and ponytail, there will be a lot of people will think of. The Spring Festival Gala has been a great success.
8 years after the marriage, finally divorced, yadan now how to live
But yadan did not because of the red immediately abandon their husbands, she and Wang Jinlong's marriage to maintain the 8 years of time. Within such a long period of time, as people drink water and know their own warmth. If it is really because of the yawning red on the floating choice of divorce, I think Zhao Benshan will not agree, and will not hold yawning ten years of time is not it?
The word "abandonment" is still an exaggeration when used in the context of Ya Dan. After all, in married life, none of us can assert that the person next to us is the person for life, people change. As if Wang Jinlong and Ya egg, Ya egg's development has been far away from Wang Jinlong, not evenly matched, but also the lack of a long and solid emotional foundation, divorce is also obvious, is not it?
After the divorce, Ya egg, alone with children, their own company, the development is also very good. Although on the big screen is almost in a state of invisibility, but in real life, private time is still living a very good life, even the value of the face is higher than the year several grades, white rich beauty feeling and bottom is very obvious.
The audience always like to brainstorm the private life of the actor-entertainer
Ya egg divorce, there are two versions, one is that she became famous after the expansion, the couple's feelings are not and so choose to divorce, abandon their husbands, another version is that the ya egg is down-to-earth, but the ex-husband Wang Jinlong did not abide by the promise of marriage, betrayal of the marriage, so the ya egg chose to divorce. As for which of these two versions is true, it depends on which side the balance in everyone's heart favors more.
But there is no need to make up for the private life of the actor-entertainer, many people think that what the actor is like on the screen must be what he is like in private, and this idea is wrong.
It's as if Yadayan, who is a silly girl on stage, should be the same off stage? And Wang Jinlong is equally ugly on stage to make the audience laugh, does it have to be the same off stage? Instead of speculating about other people's marriages, it is better to live your own life at the moment, showbiz things, to put it bluntly, is entertainment, figure a fun enough.
Is it really important to be evenly matched in married life
If the truth of the divorce of the girl is really because it is more powerful than before, so choose to abandon their husbands, then does it prove that evenly matched in married life is really important? Is it that people who don't have the right door are not qualified to love and marry each other? In this matter, I believe that it must be a matter of public opinion and public reasoning. And neither side can convince the other.
While from the most rational point of view, it is true that the equalization of forces is the best, after all, the interests of the binding than the so-called love is more solid, which is like a black and white contract with the force of law is more effective than the verbal commitment is the same.
But supporting each other, helping each other, and even unilaterally pay can not be said to be the best state of marriage. But all of this presupposes that both sides have the **** with the will to spend their lives together, and are not willing to leave each other to do so. And Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong, can only say that under the arrangement of fate, gradually drift apart.
Marriage in the end how to balance the relationship between the two sides
In the marriage only learn to balance the relationship to do, I believe many people will ask, in the end, how to balance the relationship between each other? In fact, this is not any answer. Because everyone is a different individual, the experience of others has a reference value is very small.
The only way to have a balanced relationship in a marriage is to have gratitude on both sides, and to be willing to understand each other and think differently. Not to rely on each other, cherish the moment, but really everyone can do? I'm sorry, but I can't! Almost no one can do always fair and just look at the marriage, look at themselves.
When incomes, values, and hobbies start getting bigger, it doesn't make sense for either party to rely on the kindness of the other to keep the marriage going. It's more a matter of balancing your mind and trying to change yourself. If you try and fail, the marriage may not fail, but without effort, unless the other party is a saint on earth, it is difficult for the marriage not to fail.
If you don't believe me, please refer to Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong. And please don't think that a marriage where the woman is strong and the man is weak and ends in divorce must be because the woman resents it and the woman dumps her husband. Are you a worm in someone's stomach? What gives you the right to make such wild guesses?
From the family level, home is the shelter, money is not the most important thing in the shelter, so don't judge the woman's strength or the man's strength or the woman's weakness from the aspect of money. Please judge from the nature of life and marriage.
If you are Ya Dan, would you choose to divorce Wang Jinlong? The answer to this question must be different for those who are married and those who are not, I believe. Even people who are living happily and people who are living unhappily the answer must be different. If you don't believe me, let's discuss it together. Here you can definitely find the answer you want.