I think if the child really has no talent for learning, there is really no need to force, it is better to give the child a happy childhood. Prof. Ding is definitely one of the most talented students, having memorized the entire Xinhua dictionary at the age of 6. He attended Peking University for his undergraduate degree, and then went on to Columbia University, where he earned his doctorate in education. Prof. Ding's wife is also a graduate of Peking University, and their IQs are absolutely unmatched. But their daughter has been a headache for Prof. Ding, because she has not only failed to inherit their excellent genes, but has instead become a complete academic dud.
Professor Ding started to tutor his daughter's homework when it was simply painful, and then experienced doubts about life, until it finally turned into a mind like water. Originally thought that the ordinary family is so, I did not expect the school bully's family is equally bad. Prof. Ding bluntly said that he felt that his daughter becoming a scum is the way of heaven, and there is no way out of it, so what can you do if you don't accept it? After all, the daughter itself is this way. In fact, we can all understand the mood of looking forward to their daughters to become a dragon, looking forward to their daughters to become a phoenix, after all, which parents do not want their children to be able to live a better life?
But we might as well ask ourselves a rhetorical question, children even if they are unable to surpass themselves, can they not be happy? Could it be that the only way a child can be the best is if they surpass the children of other families? Although most parents want their children to be good, but the facts are on this side, some children are really not suitable for learning. As the saying goes, to spare the child is to spare oneself, parents themselves should not compare their children with other children, which not only makes the child feel pressurized, but also their own mood will not be good.
I think in this matter, parents may wish to maintain a Buddhist mentality, do not press the child too much. Instead of letting their children study hard, parents may want to learn more about how to educate their children, and maybe then the family will feel more comfortable.