The first thought about love is about romance, but when it comes to marriage, it's usually a more practical matter. Not only are we looking for the right family, but we all need to have a house and a car when we get married. Some people feel that this is a sign of vulgarizing love, but that's not entirely true. Because two people who love each other to get married, is to go hand in hand *** with the life, life itself is made up of wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea. There is a Tsinghua schoolgirls do not care about the external conditions and other people's eyes, when the opportunity to enter into a marriage with an African boy
The Tsinghua schoolgirls named Wang Lihong, is a bit of a beautiful and lovely girl. Her family is not so good, but her parents love her extraordinarily. Wang Lihong was brought up under the care and attention of her parents. She herself is also very competitive, Wang Lihong since childhood, smart, more flexible than her peers. In addition to the talent of others, Wang Lihong also extraordinarily hard work. Therefore, she grew up with very good academic results, neighbors praised him. Wang Lihong can be called the name of his family's children.
In this way, Wang Lihong robust growth into a generous girl, but also triumphantly admitted to China's highest educational institutions - Tsinghua University. Wang Lihong is a high school student in the nineties, when the points of the college entrance examination is much more difficult than today, not to mention the admission to the Tsinghua University, such an excellent school. Wang Lihong's parents were especially proud of their daughter, and praised her. If nothing else, Wang Lihong's life should be full of good things. Will have a good career and happy family. Parents can also be no longer live a life of luxury, the family's life will be changed. But it did not occur to Wang Lihong did not follow the parents' imagination to march, this time she did a "rebellious" daughter.
In fact, parents should not force their will too much on their children. Many parents feel that their life experience is more abundant, and their children only need to listen to their layout in order to avoid detours. But life is really my own, it is difficult for others to constantly give guidance, even between parents and children is also so. It would be better to let the children do it themselves, even if they hit the south wall, the children will grow experience, and then go to find the right way. Tsinghua University is also very well known in the international arena, so it is able to recruit outstanding college students from all over the country. It also has a policy of helping students from some backward countries, and an African student, Suma, is one of them. And he met Wang Lihong on the Tsinghua campus. The two of them were solid in a campus activity, and both of them had a good feeling about each other. After some exchanges, thought each other very have **** the same topic, they often about to meet together.
Once and for all, they became a couple. Its true that there is nothing wrong with more love in college, and it is good for young people to experience more emotions. But Wang Lihong and Suma to fall in love is not simply enjoy the feelings only, she is extremely serious, she wants and this African boy into the marriage hall. This is the equivalent of a bolt from the blue for her parents. Initially learned that her daughter and an African man in love, Wang Lihong's parents are difficult enough to bear. In their conception, their daughter should form a family with a young and talented Chinese boy from a good family, so Suma is not really a son-in-law in their eyes. For this reason, Wang Lihong and her parents are often at odds. The two of them are not the same, but they are the same," she said, adding that the two of them are capable of transcending racial, economic, and nationality barriers.
Wang Lihong's advanced concept is really difficult for her parents to bear. In addition, she also wants to marry Suma, and her parents are strongly opposed to this. There was a long tug-of-war between the two, but eventually Wang Lihong's parents gave in. After all, parents love their children, and if their daughter is determined to do so, what can they do?
Thus Wang Lihong and Suma entered into marriage despite their parents' opposition. At the beginning of their marriage, they settled in China, and then moved to Suma's hometown of Uganda. This about Wang Lihong's parents more and more painful. But what can be done, the bird grows up in the end to separate the takeoff. Wang Lihong's parents can only bear the pain and daughter separate. Wang Lihong and Suma's marriage is still happy, Suma is very good to Wang Lihong. The two are senior academic molecules, very cultured, together **** with the operation of medical equipment and herbal medicine factory. Small life can be said to be full of happiness, the two people also have their own crystallization of love. If constantly so is not bad. But life has never been good.
When they ushered in their fourth child, something bad happened. Wang and Suma's fourth child, named Fahidi, was diagnosed with malaria when he was a year old and died shortly afterward. Such diseases are common in Africa, but no one thought it would be their turn. The couple was devastated, especially Wang Lihong who had a hard time getting over the loss of her son. Wang Lihong thought she could not sit back and wait for the dead child, should do something for the dead child. So she and her husband, Suma, bought a middle school and named it Lu Yangzi Middle School. Wang Lihong didn't want to open a school, she wanted to do charity work. Her school is also mostly for African children who cannot afford to go to school. Because the area is so poor, many of the children live in hardship.
As long as education can change the fate, Wang Lihong especially believe in this idea. She hoped to be able to go through this way to remember her dead children. Wang Lihong to do public welfare is not like some people as the appearance of kung fu, she is very dedicated. In the school encountered in the size of things are personally, trying to provide the best educational resources for children attending school. But in the work contribution, Wang Lihong also consumed myself. When her former classmates came to visit her in Uganda, she was too haggard to recognize her face. However, Wang Lihong did not think, and never thought of returning to China. She thought what she was doing was extremely meaningful and did not feel much hard work
Some people say there is nothing wrong with focusing on material things in a marriage, but we can't weigh our feelings with material things. If two people are true love, then perhaps the feelings can override the material conditions. Everyone's pursuit is different, some people want a rich life, while some people just want a meaningful life. What is happiness after all, everyone has their own words, can not use a ruler to weigh. Thus, there is no need to condemn those who choose differently from us, perhaps they think that the life they choose is the happiest.