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01? Women don't go to work, you can stay young forever
Recently, there is a popular saying: women don't go to work, you can stay young forever.
It turned out to be a microblogging girl pig's trotters children sent a paragraph, said ten years later to see the former female classmates, just like a girl, the secret of maintenance, but since the graduation of a day after the class has not been. This statement was supported by the depth of the V pants, said he worked in the Internet for a few years, old enough to give someone a seat.
There is also the IT industry overtime panda eyes of that photo, once also popular network, I believe we are also impressed.
Is it really true that having money and leisure does not mean that you are young and beautiful?
NO, or netizens said well:
Youth and work not work a little joy? The core power behind youthful beauty is "money and time", which is the secret of a woman's eternal youth.
? The first thing you need to do is to look at the stars, such as Liu Xiaoqing, and think about it, and you'll be able to see the difference.
Some housewives, every morning gym, afternoon beauty salon, painting, planting flowers, baking, wine, have time to accompany their husbands, children, but also have time to take care of their own, have money and leisure, have a good mood, natural youth more long.
There are also many women who work full-time at home without work, too virtuous + thrifty, and do not seek personal growth and self-modification, fluffy reach out to the husband to take the cost of living, and finally be disliked, abandoned examples are also countless. So there is time without money, and may not be able to stay young forever oh.
Of course, there is no time for the rich and domineering female CEOs, dressed in designer labels, driving a luxury car, busy every day non-stop program of new projects, seminars, which are all kinds of customers ushered in and out of the headache problem solving, often busy until midnight home, a face of vegetables: starving, quickly pour me a cup of hot milk.
In making money and earning time, to find a delicate balance, just like in the breathing to find that tiny gap, that pause, that "empty" time, may be the secret of youth maintenance method. The first thing you need to do is to find the right balance between the two, and the right balance.
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02? Don't talk to me about dreams, my dream is not to go to work
A lot of people hate the nine-to-five working hours, hate the pressure of going to work, but in order to make money, and have to be raped by life.
So is there a life where you don't have to go to work to make money?
In fact, not going to work is not the same as not working.
Not to work, can make money, in fact, are some very thoughtful, extremely active, have a very strong exploration and time control, and can quickly accept new things.
They don't want to be constrained by the limitations of their work and the freedom of the constraints, but they also aspire to the fulfillment of working and earning money and the joy of self-growth.
They want to have the freedom and time to organize their lives, take care of their families and spend time with their children, but also have the income to work without leaving the society and keep up with the times.
As a result, a large number of micro-businesses and buyers around the world have emerged.
" Enough of those days when you can't manage your children at work, and enough of asking for money from your husband."
"To have a dignified income, but also to have the time to dispose of themselves."
The first time I saw this was when I was a child. "
Countless groups of full-time wives, supporting a huge micro-business industry, its rise, there must be its collective identity.
As a result, there is an increasing number of entrepreneurship, business as a boss, and freelancing.
Later you will find, oh, the boss is even worse ah, more pressure, the boss is still 24 hours a year round ah. Freelancing is also very bad, busy up by the party urged up, dark day. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product.
Later you will find that the micro-business is not for everyone.
Some people, at a glance, can see her empty, some people ask three do not know, some people have no self-discipline, some people only swear to start, there is no courage to go forward to insist.
So many people, not in the self-competence and temperament above the refinement, the one-track mind, seeking fast, seeking comfort, seeking good results, turn to business, to do micro-business, to become a boss, but is into a pit.
Whether a person has " not work realm ", whether can not go to work on the money and leisure, to be able to eternal youth, is not so easy. Then in the end how can you stay young forever? ?
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03? Do not worry about the three words, there is a deep meaning ?
My neighbor, Auntie Wang, told me that her method of staying young is "not to worry".
The first step in the process is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your life, and that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your life.
Not to worry, sounds very simple. But not just any woman can do it.
The three words "don't worry about it" have a lot of meaning. Do you think not going to work, or not working, or not going out, not minding your own business, is called not worrying?
People who don't go to work need most of all a kind of self-worth found in daily life and recognition from their families; and more than anything else, an ability to discover their own beauty and meaning in life.
TT, a female entrepreneurial elite, is in charge of several projects with her team, and is in charge of meetings and speeches constantly. She is a fierce and vigorous person, and once in a while, when her parents went on vacation for a week, she had to take a leave of absence from work to live the life of a family "cook".
Only the past two days, complained on Zhihu: full of grease hard to do the meal, the child is still disgusted; here after the health clean up, and over there by the bear child mess, a full of exhaustion and helplessness.
It was hard to wait until the parents came back from the trip, she was happy to go to work, glowing, and said that staying up late and working overtime is better than being a housewife and babysitter at home.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and you'll be able to get it to work. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night.
Some people naturally like to stand in the center of the stage, like thousands of attention, like other people's attention and praise, if there is no stage and attention, like a deflated ball, immediately drooped down.
Some people aspire to a slow life, feel idle is enjoyable; some people hate the slow life, a slow down feel at a loss, or fast-paced run up better.
For some people, idleness, can be at ease, for some people, idleness, is the biggest worry.
People who don't go to work and really don't worry about their livelihoods have an ageless elixir behind them that fights age - a firm love. ?
There is a relative, is a real sense of housewife, is all the population of lowly reach to the husband to get money housewife.
They are extremely tacit understanding between husband and wife, he is responsible for rushing outside to make money to support the family, she is responsible for the family financial plan to run the household, responsible for raising children to take care of the elderly to settle down the rear, to become a model of a happy family among relatives.
"The old man is out there to work hard to make money and you do not work."
"So soon and want money, you spend where."
"All day at home in a mess, even a child can not bring."
Unlike these kinds of husband complaints that we often hear from other housewives.
Their husband and wife's are "Wife you work hard!" "Wife cooking is delicious!" "Wife, you are so beautiful today!"
A word of praise and a hug is her daily youthful nutrients, and the recognition of her value as a housewife is her recipe for eternal youth.
04? Youth, not in the eyes of others, only in their own hearts
Looking around, you will find that, in fact, every woman will have a set of their own "youth forever" method.
Some people think that friendship and affection can be, so it is a friend party, family day, arranged full of a small gift, a hand-made dessert, so that the smile becomes an elixir.
Some people feel that maintenance can be, so the beauty salon card to do a one after another, new equipment, new products are the first batch of experiencers.
Some people feel that regular life and good diet can be, so it is early morning porridge, exercise, foot bath at night, go to bed early, strict reference to the implementation of the health law.
Some people think that fame and fortune can be, so it is hard to work, hard to camp, and endless all the way forward.
Later on, I also found that some people are more transcendent, living more transparent - Youth is not youthful what does it matter? The first thing you need to do is to get a good look at the color of your skin, and you'll be able to see the color of your skin.
Youth, not in the eyes of others, only in their own hearts.
Forever young, but they give an account of others, decades later, looking back, there is always a meaning of life, those people, those things are more memorable.
Youth, must be in our own opinion, "the most comfortable, the most at ease" way of life, to our best state, the best state of mind, we are not in the "eternal youth" as the goal of the struggle, and no longer on the youth with the fear of death.
And this state is probably what people call "youth".
This state is probably what people call "youth".