Many elderly people went to the nursing home to know: nursing home is actually not the same as imagined, how do you think?

Nursing homes are not "welfare" institutions, many nursing homes are actually profit-making institutions, to spend money to buy services, rich natural preferential treatment, no money can only barely survive ...... So those who think that the old live in a nursing home old age, really have to go first! The actual difference between the actual and the expected is too big, the psychological can't bear ......

Most of the nursing homes have to make profits, not pure public welfare.

Many people think that the nursing home is a welfare institution, the wage level is a little better to be able to stay, not to let their old age is too miserable. But this is not the case, the civil affairs department of the welfare institutions, nursing homes are generally not many, and now most of the use of the "government to buy services" policy, such as about how many elderly people, according to the needs of the provision of external tenders, by a variety of nursing homes to declare their own bidding, and ultimately, according to the data declared with the demand for the decision to buy the services of which one.

And in this process, the government provides funding and assessment, and the institutions provide services, not entirely public welfare. Many organizations that are not put out to tender can still meet the needs of the community in the form of private nursing homes. So, for most people, free old age, basically does not exist.

The welfare benefits of nursing homes vary from good to bad, and staying in a nursing home does not necessarily mean that you will be able to "enjoy your old age".

The benefits of a nursing home vary according to the cost of admission. A lesser home may be able to meet the basic needs of survival: providing you with three meals a day and basic nursing care. If you need personal care, add money; if you need medical assistance for mobility problems, add money; if you need to provide better services, live in a better room, add money ......

Of course, there are also good environment, good treatment of the nursing home: after you move in, the whole process of personal care, three meals a day, there are special dietitians to provide targeted Recipe design, there are professionals on time for physical examination, health care, and a variety of recreational facilities can be entertained ......

Rich people's old age, with no money old age, will still be reflected in the very extreme ......

Part of the nursing home there are Abuse of the elderly, embezzlement of property of the elderly behavior.

And on the media exposure and my own experience of visiting and studying in nursing homes, there are indeed a lot of nursing homes that have abused the elderly and embezzled their property. First of all, these nursing homes usually lack supervision, after all, many of the widowed elderly, even if something happens, no one cares. Secondly, many of the children of the elderly living in nursing homes do not care about the quality of life of the elderly how, only know that regularly play a penny to the past, and does not care about the nursing home in the end there is no money to put into practice, there is no good treatment of their parents ......

Even some of the children, in the old man passed away many years later, but also still to play the money to the nursing home until the "When they remember to visit their elderly family members, they realize that the elderly have long been gone ...... and their death benefits have been fraudulently claimed by the nursing home ......

The benefits of living in a nursing home are greater than the benefits of living in an empty nest. The good thing about empty-nesting is that you don't have to be afraid that "no one will know if you die."......

But compared to many elderly people who live at home and die alone, no one will know if they die of illness or death at home, living in a nursing home will at least have someone to look after them every day, so they won't have no one to know if they die. Know ...... Of course, the funeral is not responsible for the nursing home. Generally, they will notify their children to come over to deal with it. If you don't have children, you may be able to get rid of them according to a prior agreement......

The elderly need not only material support, but also spiritual fulfillment, and it is difficult for a nursing home to provide spiritual fulfillment in place of the children.

Many elderly people who live in nursing homes have psychological problems soon after their stay, feeling lonely and isolated. Although in the nursing home food and clothing, but the spirit is very empty, the children are not there, there is no real concern for them around, only to give money to take care of their own, no money to be retired nursing home employees ......

Particularly when they are sick, the need for pampering, children, if they still do not come to see them, their desire for survival Desire is even lower ...... So, children still need to visit the elderly more, do not "throw" the elderly to the nursing home to leave the matter ......