? Times are evolving and people's mindsets and concepts of procreation are changing drastically. The bigger dilemma that friends who are either actively or forced to dink or simply not married are likely to face is the issue of old age.
But first, to be clear, even if you have a child, you will not necessarily be able to rely on it in old age, it all depends on the character of the child as an adult. And most parents, when asked about this, shake their heads and say that they can't rely on their children. Besides, it's not fair to a child to have a child so that they can provide for their own retirement. So based on this premise, I suggest that even if you have children, you should think about the problem of old age in advance.
? Personally, I'm not a staunch non-marriageist, I still think that if two people in the three views of the agreement, then you can enter the marriage hall, but the probability will choose Dink. In this case, I also started thinking about retirement a few years ago. In my opinion the most secure way to retire is for a couple to support each other to live independently, or for a close friend to go to a nursing home.
? This requires a lot of ancillary steady conditions:
? 1) A sufficient pension. Although a lot of things are out of your control when you get old, there's no denying that having money can still solve more than half of your worries. For example, Living in a high-grade nursing home. Saving money on raising children and saving money doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.
? ② Examine in advance. I believe the biggest concern is not having children to be bullied by caregivers. This requires an early examination of the target nursing home, or the city and neighborhood suitable for retirement. High-grade nursing homes, the quality should also be guaranteed, but it is still necessary to start several years in advance to examine, with the facts speak.
? ③Exercise. Since there is no longer the worry of raising children, there must be time to strengthen your body, try to maintain good health, and less suffering in later years.
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If you've got a family that's not married, you can form a nursing team. They can also take care of each other in the nursing home.
? If you are still worried, then you can hire a relative's child to come to the nursing home regularly. Even though many of the 80, 90 after the only child group, but relatives are always there, right, pick a reliable junior to give some benefits, draw a big cake, should be able to buy, after all, immersed in the workplace so many years, this skill can still have.
Finally, It is recommended that you develop a specific pension program based on your own situation, which can change over time and in recent times, but ensure that you always have a good idea of what you are getting yourself into. Although the topic is relatively heavy, in fact, it is also a problem that each of us should take into account. We also look forward to a hundred years later, can introduce better policies, or have a better and more stable program, to completely solve the problem of old age, it.
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