I really don't get it, she's a little girl who grew up in the city, how come she likes to go back to the countryside so much?
But on weekends, she is not too tired, Friday afternoon she
I really don't get it, she's a little girl who grew up in the city, how come she likes to go back to the countryside so much?
But on weekends, she is not too tired, Friday afternoon she began to pack packing, leading two children, backpacking back home, with all kinds of food and drink big bags, the most funny thing is that she can be a week's dirty clothes all back to load.
As if only the big yard of our rural home could let her do her best, she went back to change her clothes and put on my mom's short jacket and my mom's two cotton pants, and the shoes on her feet were the old cotton shoes that my mom made for her.
The first thing I noticed was that I had to go back to my hometown to see my mom, and she had to go back to her hometown to see my mom.
Because the village people love to visit, the family often go over to the people chat, my mother afraid of people laugh, said my daughter-in-law: "Niuer ah, you come back do not change clothes, just wear your city clothes, work put let your father do, you rest."
Who knows she is not happy, small eyes stare, dislike my mom said: "You are so old, still live so vain, I would like to wear this kind of clothes, comfortable. Who loves to say it."
The younger daughter-in-law lives a super-splendid life.
In our family, as long as my sister-in-law does not go home, the sister-in-law is the head of the family, the head of the family, the countryside is so big yard are her, you say why she would not want to go home?
People go back week after week, month after month, year after year.
Sometimes the parents from Taiyuan will come back to our hometown with us, and they will live there for half a month.
My brother-in-law is a big part of the same woman, do not like to calculate, but love to worry, protect their own families, protect calves.
This year has not yet begun to New Year's mile, she has already begun to buy New Year's things to the hometown, with the ants moving, week by week from the city to the rural hometown pulling things to do to go back to their hometown to prepare for New Year's.
The first time I saw this is when I was in the city, and it was the first time I saw the hometown in the city.
The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling.
The day before yesterday, when I went home on the weekend, I met her and the village people scolding, because the bastard put other people's family sheep to poison, by the sheep family came to the door.
In the winter, my father planted some green onions and cilantro in the small vegetable garden to prepare for the family's Spring Festival.
Who knows half a month ago these vegetables but do not know what livestock spoiled one-third of the green onions and cilantro have become a rotten seven bad rhizome.
My father's old heartache, hard-earned vegetables into that, to the New Year's son, daughter-in-law, grandchildren can eat what?
The old man's mouth is broken, angry, he went around the village to ask people, ask people who love to herd livestock, said: "Is not your livestock into my vegetable garden to eat onions."
Of course, no one will admit it, my father can't ask for a result, people say that their livestock have never been in our vegetable field.
My father made a wooden sign to scare people, which reads: "The vegetable field has been drugged, if the livestock into the ground is not responsible for.
He actually wanted to warn people that there was no drug in the ground.
However, this was not the case, and soon my father's vegetable field was still being used by livestock several times, and other vegetables were also being eaten.
My dad is not happy, every day at home sulking, and then this was my brother knew, he is a big man does not care about this small thing, and his daughter-in-law joked: "You do not go home this time ah, our father temperament is big, go back to be careful to lead to fire."
That said, after a few days, my family this puma daughter-in-law did not know when to sneak home again.
The family did not know that she went home, I have not seen her people, as if there is no home.
But this weekend, people came to my door and said that my father's vegetable field really drugged, all the other people's lambs to the poisoned s.
My father's gambling house has a lot of money to spend, but I don't know what to do with it.
My dad swore that he was just writing a sign to scare people, and that he didn't drug it at all, and that the sheep had nothing to do with our family.
However, the family insisted that the sheep was poisoned after entering our vegetable garden.
This makes my father's body full of mouth can not speak clearly, obviously they did not do anything but was accused of, you say not wrong?
The two families are not finished, my mother had to call me and my brother, which I know that my family this puma daughter-in-law took the phone recognized, said my mother: "Do not argue with them, I will immediately drive back."
After arriving home, I asked the family angrily: "You said your family sheep in the end did not enter our vegetable garden?"
The family had no choice but to admit: "Into the, but you are too ruthless, even really drugged."
My dad was about to deny it.
Brother-in-law laughed and said: "You just have to admit it on the line, we have written a sign warning, that you still do not take it seriously heh, it is I drugged, my parents do not know."
Like a heroine, people have the courage to do so, and admit that they bought the drug a while ago, quietly home a trip in the vegetable field.
Look at this is not only Biao bar, even their own families do not tell, fortunately, the vegetables were chewed by the livestock can not be eaten, otherwise how dangerous, in case people ate it how to do?
Put my mom angry speechless, said she: "You this girl why so stupid? You go home and do not enter the door, do not go back to their own house, do what you do not discuss with the family ah you?"
The younger daughter-in-law said: "I went back to the village to do what still have to discuss with you ah, discuss you will still let me do it?"
The younger daughter-in-law is so valiant, I do not know what to do, a small daughter-in-law.
There is no way, all the folks, finally my parents had to step forward to the other side of the lamb to buy down.
There is meat to eat, brother-in-law happy, happy eyebrows, said: "Sheep to me first put, do not move ah, next week I came back to personally take care of."
The parents of the family laughed bitterly, the other family's daughter-in-law are too rural bitter, dislike in-laws are not good, say nothing is willing to go back to their hometowns, but our family's this is just the opposite.
The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey.
At New Year's, as long as she's home, the whole family has to work for her, and they all have to be around her.
My mother was on the bed holding a cell phone to help her stare at the stock, my father was busy, and wash and shabu-shabu to give her food, the children help her stare at the washing machine, as for her husband is even more busy, chopping wood, sharpening knives, running errands,......, and so on.
Including me as a great aunt back home, also the same by the younger daughter-in-law command round.
I feel that my sister-in-law is happy with her life in the old country!
I don't know about other people, but this little daughter-in-law of my family, I bet, people are too willing to go back to the in-laws for New Year's Eve, absolutely willingly.
No, according to her meaning is, the rural home is not her mother-in-law's home, that is her home, is her other home.
She is the head of the family, as for me this has been married daughter well, I am an outsider, is a guest, every time I go back to see my parents, sister-in-law that have to treat me as a guest miles.
The first time I saw this, I was able to see a lot of people who were not in the same boat.
The first time I saw this, I was able to see the whole world, and I was able to see the whole world, and I was able to see the whole world, and I was able to see the whole world. In front of my parents, my sister-in-law is more casual and comfortable than I am as a daughter-in-law?
My daughter-in-law, Qingdao, has been four consecutive years without me back to my mom's home for the New Year. Even if the first few years of marriage back to my mother's home, but also because of my face, or do not want to go back to my mother's home for the New Year. It can be said that my daughter-in-law has never willingly returned to her hometown for New Year's Eve. So why doesn't my daughter-in-law want to go back to my mom's house for New Year's Eve?
One of the reasons why my daughter-in-law doesn't want to go back to my mom's house is because it's very cold and there's no heating.
My hometown is in Linshu, Linyi, and we don't have a kang on our side, so in the winter, because we don't want to burn charcoal or electricity, my house is just dry and frozen, you know? At most, we can add an electric blanket, or we can put on two extra quilts, which are very heavy and hard to bear. My daughter-in-law is a woman who is afraid of the cold, and the last few times we went back to our hometown, she froze like a son of a bitch. That's why my daughter-in-law doesn't want to go back. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this one, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of this one, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of this one!
The second reason is that the hygiene in the old country is not very good. The daily hygiene is not to mention, last time, my child with me back to the rural home, the eyes are infected. The local doctor in the village said that my child was red-eye, but later came to Qingdao to realize that it was caused by the lack of hygiene in the rural home, not red-eye. What I am going to talk about is the hygiene of the bed, which my daughter-in-law can't stand. My daughter-in-law goes back to her hometown once a year, but the covers and quilts are not washed and scrubbed. My daughter-in-law told me that the quilt was not washed, there is a smell, I do not believe, and then asked my mother, my mother said: you come back once or twice a year, wash what? There is no need to wash it! My mom said that every time we left, she put the quilts we slept on in a bag for us to use the next time, and I was drunk. My daughter-in-law has a problem with this.
Here need to be a separate point is my daughter-in-law smacked my mom to prepare the pillow is not good, not a serious pillow, but the pillow of the paste, either a few pieces of rags folded up pillow, or the sofa on the kind of softer pillows, for which my daughter-in-law said it is too difficult to accept!
Three because my mom's house can't take a shower.
Thirdly, because my mom's house is not bathable! I asked my parents to install a solar or water heater, but my parents thought it was too troublesome and costly, so they never implemented it. My parents take a bath for several days or even once a month, and there is a smell, my daughter-in-law every time I go back to cover my nose, so I have not been willing to go back.
Fourth, it's because my mom's family has bad habits. For example, nagging, broken thoughts; spreading negative energy, always talking about money, and bad health; eating habits are also bad; hygiene habits are also bad; the dialect of the old family, my daughter-in-law also do not like, because my daughter-in-law has been letting the child speak Mandarin!
Fifthly, it is because the pit at home is not good.
The pit in my house is made of two big stones, purely dry toilet, and not the kind of flushing, so it's very simple, but it's also very disgusting. My daughter-in-law can't stand it every time she goes in, and when she comes out she wants to vomit. In the New Year, the wind outside is also whooshing, every time you go in the freezing buttocks ah, too cold!
Sixth, because every time you spend a lot of money.
Every time I go home for New Year's Eve, in addition to buying things to visit my parents, there are my elders, the key is to give the elders' children's children's children's red packets, less than 1,000 more than, more than three or four thousand dollars, which who can stand it? My Linyi hometown side of the people quite like to have children, a bunch of piles, so my daughter-in-law is very grass chicken, think every time you go back to your hometown but also to give so much red packets, it is really too much to eat!
Seven is because of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. My parents bought a car and house for my brother, but did not help us no car house, so my daughter-in-law is very angry! I mediated from, my daughter-in-law said she wanted to let her go back, must be seven and a half houses in the old family home to my son, that is, my parents grandchildren, but my parents resolutely disagreed, said that if we give us , my brother went back to the roots of not? My daughter-in-law thought it was ridiculous, saying that my brother would not be able to go back to his hometown. My daughter-in-law thinks it's ridiculous, saying that my parents didn't even want to give us the house in our hometown, and that everything is an excuse! Even if the house to us, we do not go back to live, my daughter-in-law to see is what my parents really think! It is because my parents broke my daughter-in-law's heart, so my daughter-in-law is determined not to go back!
Eight because my parents are too stingy. Every time I go home, my parents do not want to buy some good food, a lot of things, or I suggested to my daughter-in-law, my parents to buy, such as my daughter-in-law like to eat sheep's head, pig's trotters, groundnuts, cornmeal, soil chicken, soil eggs, etc., if you don't tell my parents, my parents generally do not want to buy. My daughter-in-law thinks that my parents are too stingy, the first year of marriage back, they do not want to buy ribs, buy mutton and beef, etc., at that time with the dishes are also very simple, so my daughter-in-law does not want to go back to my mom's home for New Year's Eve!
Nine because I'm not much of a husband. My daughter-in-law said not willing to go back to my mother's home, the main reason is still on me, said I will not deal with mother-in-law-daughter-in-law conflicts, said I emotional intelligence is too low, said I will not maintain her, said I am a mom's baby boy, know that all listen to their parents, do not know the fairness of justice, etc., and in retrospect, my daughter-in-law is very right, I really will not deal with the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law conflicts, is really hurt daughter-in-law's heart ah!
I've been married for 15 years, to tell you the truth, in-laws over the Spring Festival only once, it is too difficult, really do not want to go back, the reasons are many, many, I explain it one by one!
First of all, I'm from Guangdong, and my husband is from the northeast, and we both live more than 3,600 kilometers away from each other, one from the south and one from the north.
My husband and I met at graduation, he is the factory directly to their school recruitment, and then came to Guangdong to develop, from acquaintance, acquaintance to marriage, and then settled in Guangdong.
Originally, I wanted to pick up my mother-in-law to live in Guangdong, but she said she was not adapted to the climate in Guangdong because it was too hot, and said that she was comfortable in her hometown in the Northeast, and in the countryside to be able to provide for themselves. The old man is more attached to his hometown, we all understand, how to persuade can not! Then there is no way in order to live, we stay in Guangdong, he stayed in the northeast home. Before a year will go back once, is to take advantage of the summer vacation with children back, but the Spring Festival is not to go back, and these two years during the epidemic there is no way, I do not want to go back to the New Year's reasons are as follows:
a long way , the usual train tickets rely on grabbing, the Spring Festival train tickets can not be bought, the plane costs too much, and it is to pick the kind of midnight The cheap kind of arrival, a family of four, a person to more than 6,000 round trip, a family back and forth nearly 25,000! This is just the cost of the plane, the middle has to turn three or four trips to the car, round and round to get to their mountain village! And with children, small children are still very small, for fear of not adapting to bring a lot of things, big bags, a pile of luggage, to carry a lot of things, cold hats, gloves, shoes, thickened sweaters, coats. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own, and then you'll be able to get a good deal on your own.
Two, the Northeast home is very cold, the coldest time in the Spring Festival, more than 30 degrees below zero, when the weather is good to minus ten degrees. If you go out without wearing a mask, that breath feel the nasal cavity sting, is a cool air from the nose straight to the brain, outdoor not wearing hats and gloves, then a few minutes on the ear frozen unconscious, the wind blowing people is really painful, full of red face.
The cold in the Northeast is really different from the cold in Guangdong, although it is not cold indoors, but the air is very dry, and the rural areas are heated by burning kang. The first thing that you need to do is to burn wood and corn on the cob. In winter, when it is too cold to go outside, doors and windows are closed tightly to prevent cold air from entering the house, and when you burn a kang in the kitchen, even if you close the door, the smoke is still everywhere, and when you travel on it in daily life, you feel like a roasted suckling pig, and it is very uncomfortable, your mouth is dry, and you get on fire very easily. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes and boots.
Three, living conditions and medical conditions.
The toilets in the countryside are in the courtyard, and you have to walk ten meters from your room to get there, and there's no door, and they're very simple red bricks piled on top of each other, and the toilets in your mother-in-law's house don't have flushing, they're just the kind of pits, and they don't have a place to wash your hands, and you need to go back to the kitchen before you can get any water!
And every time you go to the toilet, you have to be quick, one will be freezing your butt, and the other is very stinky. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't want to go to the bathroom at night, and it's very dark at night in the countryside, so I have to ask my husband to bring a flashlight. The only way to get to the top is to put a bucket of urine in the room.
Guangdong people, no matter how cold, every day to take a bath, a day without a bath on the difficult, inexplicable role of the heart, feel where all itchy, but the rural home is no place to take a bath, the summer is okay, there is a simple shed in the backyard to wash, winter is impossible. You say to install a bathing equipment for them, they do not want to, they like to go to the bathhouse scrub. Every day to go to the bathhouse, is not realistic because you also have to go to the town, the traffic is not convenient, here to go to the town to take more than an hour of buses, the village private bus to the town only three times a day, one in the morning, one in the middle of the day, and one in the evening. And naked let people rubbing fuck, I will not adapt.
Because of the poor medical conditions in the village, there is only one doctor and one nurse. I remember that year, the child was sick for three consecutive days with a fever, no way, three days to the town hospital, and their side of the habit of giving the child an IV drip, catch the morning car to go to the hospital, the hospital is crowded, and many times I can not catch the bus can only spend a lot of money to fight back, very torturous.
Four, different eating habits. Their family is very hospitable, relatives, but also do a lot of dishes, especially on New Year's Day, a large round table will be full of more than 20 dishes, portion enough, color depth. Chickens, ducks, geese, pigs and fish are all there, and the greens I crave are far fewer, either cabbage or turnips and potatoes.
You want to eat a little green leafy vegetables, it is very difficult. Because the vegetables are prepared in the winter, the winter vegetables are more expensive than meat, so they all like to eat meat, say no loss. But because the North and South cook differently, they meat is heavy on oil and salt. And they do the dishes are super large portions, fish is about ten pounds, ribs once stewed 5 pounds, pork elbow once stewed three, those local chicken a also have seven or eight pounds, anyway, a meal can not eat, then stay for the next meal, the next meal can not eat, and stay for the next meal, not like us in Guangdong that way, try to solve a meal on that day to finish the second meal to eat fresh.
And they eat rice in the morning, rice at night, rice at noon and rice, if there are guests, drinking by the box came, wine is particularly important, must be enough, the Northeast, like not like drinking, which is the country people have witnessed ****, big mouth to drink, big mouth to eat meat, at the table, dare to pick up a big cup, a drink is also one of the distinguishing features of the Northeast drinking culture.
They drink and drink "brothers", "big brother", "old brother", "old sister". And then get excited to start bragging, I just smile on the side, waiting for them, in fact, in the heart of the thought that they quickly eat it, so that the table, let me lie down a little bit!
When they finished eating, and ready for the second meal, as if every day in the cooking, and then every day have to wash a lot of dishes. Even though everyone pushes that I don't have to wash them, I only go back that once a year and there's no way I'm not going to work.
So I had to silently count the days to go home, and then when I got home I was able to eat more than a pound of green cabbage hearts in one meal.
Fifth, there is no pastime in the countryside , in addition to watching TV, or watching TV, in addition to stoned, or stoned, and then they will play mahjong, playing cards, but I'm not interested in this, and outside the freezing cold, want to go to the shop is also very difficult, unlike the Guangdong Province, the weather is warm, to the outside of the food, play a little bit, watch a movie, cool! movie, it's cool!
Sixth, in addition to the cost of travel, other expenses are also quite a lot.
Every time I go back to the New Year, I go to the mall to prepare a lot of New Year's Eve goods for them, because there are a lot of relatives on their side, and they have a lot of cigarettes and wine, and meat, and a Spring Festival down, and there are a lot!
There is also a major red envelope problem, their side of the red envelope is really too heavy to give, 300 to 500 has been very little, and we do not often go back, but a go back to it, have to walk relatives to stroll around, that meet those elders it, but also to give money, and their side of the less and can not take the hands of an elder to be a little bit older to give a 500, but in Guangdong, then, the child's red envelope is also 10 yuan, but the child's red envelope is also 10 yuan, and the child's red envelope is also 10 yuan. Children's red envelopes are also 10 20 dollars, the elderly to 100 ~ 200 dollars has been enough.
This is a trip back and forth, the cost of the road plus red packets, plus the gift of favors what, to 30,000 40,000, more than 10 days to spend this number is too horrible!
I have no mother-in-law relationship with my mother-in-law, brother, sister-in-law, sister, brother-in-law is also very good, it is a regional problem and habitual problems, and winter, really can not stand, if not winter, July ~ August I am very like to go back, because the snow in May began to melt in the Northeast, to the July-August, then, melons and fruits, the temperature of the pleasant, the summer vacation with a child to go back to play is very appropriate.
That time is full of green, a large large cornfield, mother-in-law's small yard full of flowers, and a variety of vegetables, cabbage, beans, zucchini, celery, eggplant, zucchini, small pumpkin, parsley, pea shoots, a variety. And every time my mother-in-law would prepare a lot of delicious food for me, like sticky corn ah, sticky bean buns, silkworm pupa, melon, soil eggs, freezing inside the refrigerator full of mutton, beef and so on.
We have chickens, ducks and geese, so we can go to the river to catch small fish, play on the mountain, pick wild fruits to eat, and so on, which is very joyful! After the meal we can also go to the country road to walk a little, see both sides of the crops, small streams running, although sometimes the air smells of cow dung, but watching the sunset and grass, small flowers is very eye-catching scenery.
But in the past two years because of the epidemic, the second child is too small, and can not be vaccinated, there is no defense, so back home is more trouble!
Where do not want to go, go to my mother-in-law's home for New Year's Eve, ten people's meals by me, go to my parents' home, nearly twenty people's meals or I am responsible for the tired waist can not straighten ....... mother-in-law's home reason is that the two sisters-in-law will not cook, parents' home is that the older brothers and sisters to be busy playing mahjong ....... I'm two years no I've been two years not to go back to New Year's, decided not to go back to 5 years, a family of three meals simply do not too simple
To be honest, I do not want to go back to my mother-in-law's home for New Year's, back to New Year's, waiting for the daughter-in-law is to do the work, do not do it, say you are not filial piety, so you do the work, my mother-in-law family playing poker, kowtowing, chatting about the sky, the housework is done, and you can not melt into the side of the go, so they are bored at one side of playing the phone, and the phone. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that. The daughter-in-law for the in-laws will always be an outsider, is a free babysitter, of course, there are many exceptions, the daughter-in-law spoiled into a treasure, just I'm not that exception. I just want to spend New Year's Eve in my own little home and go to my in-laws as relatives.
The mother-in-law's home, the mother's home I do not love to go, even if you eat a little pickles alone is also quite good, the age is getting older and older, more and more do not like to get together, cooking cooking bored
I like to go back to the mother-in-law's home, not only New Year's Eve, usually also like to go.
First of all, my family, rural, my family does not play cards and no games, everyone is around the fireplace high melon seeds to watch the phone TV, carrying a big bag to the relatives to pay tribute to the New Year. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.
Then the New Year's Eve money is also very messy, the amount is not big, but the number is more, is a junior have to give, and it does not matter if people are not 20 years old. People three children I gave 300, she returned to me up to 100, according to the head. Some relatives also play stupid, for their own children received, but do not want to give my children ......
Husband's family is not the same. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with your own personalized products. The new year is about to go to the second who went to the third who went to the house, a go to the gift a throw, playing mahjong fight landlord, 2 table still can not sit. The hosts and guests are very casual, no parents, everyone mahjong landlord played in full swing, next to the guests point fan fire, from time to time to disclose the next opponent's cards, pointing to the mountains ... Husband's family New Year's Eve is the mahjong landlord - dinner - mahjong landlord - dinner - bye-bye, back to their respective homes!
Hubby's family also did not have the pressure of the new year's money, we all agreed, the child's new year's money is only given once, that is, the first year of life to give a time, about 200 bucks, everyone has no pressure. Because we are out of town, there is an aunt and grandma love my son, occasionally will give him the new year's money, I have tried to refuse.
I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about, and I'm not sure what I'm talking about, and I'm not sure what I'm talking about.
So every time you go is a hot mess to eat, drink and play, why not want to go? [teeth bared]
Willing to go back to her mother-in-law's home for New Year's Eve daughter-in-law is certainly very few, most of them are in the way of face and traditional concepts of the influence of the love is not voluntary, because and in-laws with the New Year's Eve, too many rules, things complicated, only those who are eating and lazy, back to the mother-in-law's home to dilly-dallying with willing to go
I and my mother-in-law's destiny is very shallow, only to do her old man three years of her daughter-in-law she was due to the disease to go! The first time I saw her was when she was a child, and the second time she was a child.
When I got married, my husband and I were separated for a long time. I lived with my parents and my husband worked hundreds of kilometers away. He was basically the one who came back for the ordinary holidays, and he went back to his mother-in-law's house for the Chinese New Year.
Mr. is a real man of science and technology, every time I go home, I will prepare the gifts in advance: hand-knitted sweaters for my mother-in-law, wine for my father-in-law, new clothes for my sister-in-law, toys for my nephews, and souvenirs for my neighbors, and so on, and then I'll take the bus for a few hours in a big bag (and change the bus twice in the middle of the way) to get back to my mother-in-law's house on the 30th day of the Chinese New Year.
My mother-in-law always tries to clean up the room for us in advance, putting on the most "decent" sheets and quilts in the house, preparing a lot of delicious food in the kitchen, and replacing the light bulbs with brighter ones, all in spite of the fact that she's sick. To be honest, the conditions of the mother-in-law's home is very poor, living in a dilapidated earthen building, each floor *** with a public **** bathroom, cooking is burned honeycomb coal, the entire building is a smoky smell of coal. But every time we come home, in-laws and Mr. family are very happy, chatting, playing cards, shopping in the market ...... mother-in-law can not read, do not love to watch TV, but she is always accompanied by a small TV to watch the Spring Festival gala, open up melon peanuts candy candy fruit, a moment to go across the corridor to the kitchen to see the foot soak in the hot water did not burn, and a moment to plug a baked hot tangerine to me, until the time to see a little bit more than a few days.
My brother-in-law said that every year when you go home, it is the most joyful time for my mother. On those days, whether she was buying a bottle of soy sauce or a small vegetable, or going to the neighbor's house to visit, she always had to call us to accompany her - want my husband to put on his uniform, want me to put on my coat.
In a flash, my mother-in-law left almost twenty years ago, and now we have the ability to give her a good life, but it is a pity that it is difficult to see her again. Grandma, you must be rejoicing in heaven to see us all well, right?
I don't think there are many daughters-in-law who really want to go back to their mother-in-law's house for New Year's Eve, are there? These past few years. I go back once a year at most twice. The 30th of the New Year and the first day of the new year. I'm not sure if I'm going back to work, because I'm basically going back at meal time. Then I come back after eating. I don't do anything. I don't want to go back because I'm afraid of hearing things I don't want to hear. I'm afraid that if I don't mean to say anything, I'll offend them and make them angry. That's the way it is with the brothers' family. What I can't stand is that they don't live in the house and stay in our house. This is not the point. The main point is that they are too shabby, and their house is too dirty and full of garbage. We have no place to sleep when we come home, our bed is full of messy clothes. There are shoes all over the back of the door. And the oldest, the children at home wear small shoes also do not allow, all into our home, our home on the ragged clothes rags more. It's a pain in the ass. If you look at the nooks and crannies in the yard, there's not a single spot that's clean. I don't want to go back. I don't want to go back.