Blind date girls are unwilling to meet? With the development of living standards, there are many girls who are not married at a certain age. Everyone in the family is urging a blind date. Wechat chat can be very good, and you don't want to meet as soon as you meet. Next, I will share that blind date girls don't want to meet. Let's have a look!
Blind date girls don't want to meet 1. First, blind date only chats without meeting. What happened?
1, girls feel inferior and look average.
Modern society is an era of looking at faces. Even if you have had a hot WeChat chat, the girl has a good impression on you, but because she is not good-looking or even ugly, I am worried that you will lose your good impression on her when you meet her. She lacks self-confidence and dares to hide behind the screen and chat with you, hoping to continue to enjoy this feeling of online dating.
2. treat you as a spare tire
Some boys are typical ingratiating personalities. As soon as they meet the right girl, they want to please each other and try to establish a relationship with each other by ingratiating themselves. The blind date only needs to spend time chatting with you on WeChat, and doesn't need to pay any extra energy, so she can't feel the feeling of love in you. She only sees you as an emotional trash can or a spare tire.
I'm dating you just to deal with my family.
There are more men than women in society now. It is a common phenomenon that men are single in real life, and many boys have the delusion of falling in love. What you call spicy is actually a polite way for girls to cope, so it is normal for girls not to come out to see you.
Moreover, girls who are slightly more beautiful will be surrounded by countless suitors. Maybe she already has a boyfriend outside, but because the family doesn't agree, she can only date, and chatting with you on WeChat is just to cope with the family. If so, it's normal not to date.
Second, how to deal with blind dates who only chat but don't meet?
1, to help girls eliminate their worries.
If the blind date often says that she is ugly in the chat, then she is unwilling to see you because of her inferiority complex. If you want to invite girls out, you must help girls dispel their fear of meeting and death. This is also the embodiment of your gentleman, warm man and high emotional intelligence.
Chat demo:
Man: "We can make an appointment to meet another day."
Woman: "I'm too fat to see you."
Man: "Girls are cute when they are a little fleshy."
Woman: "I'm afraid it's pork belly. I'm afraid you don't like me when you see me."
Man: "I have a good impression on you whether you are fat or thin or healthy." I will be very sad not to see you. "
Woman: "Hey, health is the most important thing."
2. Communicate sincerely with girls
It is said that a woman's mind is a needle at the bottom of the sea. Women's minds are much more complicated than men's, and people's hearts will never be guessed. If you can't figure out a girl's mind all the time, you'll never ask out a girl.
Therefore, we might as well put down our face and communicate sincerely with girls and ask them why they don't go out with you, because she only dates you to cope with the family, or because she has no feelings for you at all, and you can untie the knot by saying everything. If you two really don't fit, keep looking for the next relationship and don't delay each other.
Step 3 express your attitude
Because there are more men than women, many boys have no attitude when pursuing girls. They only flatter and please girls blindly. There is no sense of boundaries in social interaction. If a girl doesn't feel the feeling of love in you, she will be a spare tire with you first, and then abandon you when she finds the prince charming in her mind.
If the blind date puts you in a spare tire, then she is playing with or deceiving your feelings, and it is a waste of time and energy for you to continue to be with her.
So we should dare to express our attitude towards women. Only a man who dares to express his attitude can be confident and independent, and a woman can feel safe with him. We can say to girls like this: "If you don't want to see me all the time, then I don't have to waste my time on you."
Blind date girls don't want to meet. 2 Blind date girls don't want to socialize.
1, absent-minded when dating, not talking much.
At the first blind date, the blind date girl showed reluctance to talk more, her eyes were erratic, and she looked around and was eager to end it, indicating that the other party was not interested in you.
When chatting, no matter what you say, your expression is very dull. No matter what you say, the other person just nods to agree with you, but doesn't express his opinion. It is very likely that the other party is not paying attention to what you say, but is just dealing with you.
2. There are many small moves when dating.
Generally speaking, people pay more attention to their image when dating. If the blind date has been using some small gestures to pass the time when you are chatting, such as scratching your ears, touching your hair and looking at the time on your mobile phone, it may be that you are not interested in your conversation, bored and not interested in you.
Mobile phones have become an indispensable device in people's lives, but if the blind date keeps playing with her mobile phone while you are chatting, it is obvious that she doesn't want to continue chatting with you and deliberately uses her mobile phone to cope with blind date. It is impolite to play mobile phone on blind date.
3. Performance at the end of blind date
After the blind date, the general introducer will say to leave the other person's phone number and talk to you later. But if the blind date doesn't want to marry a boy, it means that the other person doesn't like you.
The blind date said she didn't bring her cell phone. I'll give you contact information later. That's probably because she's too embarrassed to say no to your face. In this case, the blind date will not contact the man actively.
If at the end of the blind date, the blind date woman says that she needs to see her parents' opinions, or go back and think about it, without leaving her contact information, it is almost hopeless and there is no need to wait.
4. Online chat does not reply for a long time.
After the blind date, the two sides left contact information. If you send a message to the other party, the other party doesn't reply for a long time, saying that he is busy and has something to leave. Even if he replies, it is a short modal particle. The girl's indifference shows that the other party is not interested in you at all, indicating that the other party doesn't want to have any contact with you anymore. It is not recommended to continue to stubbornly leave and quickly change to a blind date.
Blind date girls won't take the initiative to chat with you. Even if she replies to your message, she is still coping. It may take a long time to reply. Maybe you sent a message the day before and received a reply the next day.
The blind date girl won't take the initiative to say hello to you, don't want to know your situation, and won't ask you what you think of blind date, indicating that she is not interested in you.
The blind date girl doesn't want to tell you her information, doesn't exchange her thoughts, and is impatient with your inquiry, all of which show that she is not interested in you.
5. Unwilling to meet alone
When you ask your blind date to meet her alone, and when you express the idea of being alone with her, the other person disagrees, and even if you agree, it is very reluctant. Although the blind date knows that you want to ask her out alone, she still brings her friends on a date, which shows that the blind date is avoiding meeting you alone. Taking someone else means that she doesn't like you and doesn't want to further develop with you.