First, why can doctors do it?
My brother is a gynecologist. When I chose my major at that time, I was still wondering why he chose which major. After all, it's strange for a man to do a girl's work at close range.
Later, after graduating from work, he was assigned to the level of chief physician of gynecology in a few years, specializing in gynecological diseases. He is famous in the county hospital, and many people register to see a doctor.
I once asked him about your frequent contact with girls, and it was a relatively private part. Is it embarrassing to feel like a girl? He just said no, and I was shocked. In my own opinion, I feel that when a man sees a strange woman's body and mind, there must be fluctuations. Why did he say no? Is he hiding something?
I didn't understand until he told me the answer. I really won't. His reward is:? I've been exposed to many bodies, and what I saw in the school lab is something you can't see. For a long time, it was difficult to associate those things with beauty. Everyone is no different from the broken machine in our eyes. We're just picking fights, okay? .
After listening to his words, I suddenly realized that it was right to think about it.
1. Watching something for a long time can make people feel numb. A very simple example, if you like to eat mala Tang, but I have given you three meals a day for decades, do you think this mala Tang is still what you liked before? The same is true of doctors. You think they will have some bad ideas, but you are wrong. He sees you as if he saw a piece of equipment.
2. Seeing a doctor for the opposite sex must go through strict inspection. When hospitals choose to let men see gynecology, they will go through layers of selection for fear of bad influence in the later period, especially for ideology and morality, whether they are married or not, and not everyone can be satisfied.
3. Doctors who have direct contact with the opposite sex are generally supervised by nurses. When a male doctor examines a female patient, a female nurse is usually present. They are afraid that women will feel violated or unclear, so they ask someone to prove it.
Second, like how we usually avoid this embarrassment.
1. Try to go to a regular hospital. In particular, women should not go to some small clinics to see a doctor. Not only the medical conditions are poor, but also there are often sexual assaults and the like. If you have gynecological diseases, you should go to a hospital at or above the county level, so that the examination is accompanied by a nurse, which is at least safe and guaranteed.
2. See if the doctor is male or female before registration. Some women or men care about this kind of privacy because they feel that their privacy is exposed when they are seen. It is best for such people to see whether they are male or female doctors before seeing a doctor. You can choose whether it is a man or a woman.
You can bring the person you love. Women in the hospital are allowed to accompany their families. If you ask, you won't refuse. Last time I went with my wife, I accompanied him in. If you feel embarrassed, you can do the same.
4. If you really encounter it, you should report it in time. If you really meet such a person, call the police when you come out. No matter in hospital or society, there is zero tolerance for such people.
To sum up, there is no gender difference in hospital patients before doctors. Long-term contact with them has seriously affected what you think is beautiful, but it is not so beautiful. I have several friends who have suffered from sexual dysfunction due to long-term gynecological treatment. Finally, they went to see a psychologist, and some of them jumped ship directly.