Insight 1:
Mentality determines fate
The philosopher said, "Your thoughts are your real masters". A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you. Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. " An artist said: "You can't extend the length of life, but you can expand its width;" You can't change the weather, but you can control your mood; You can't control the environment, but you can adjust your mentality. "Buddha said: things change with the heart, the environment is created by the heart, and all troubles are born by the heart. Dickens said: A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom. Emerson said: the whole world gives way to a person who keeps moving towards his goal forever ... these words are simple but classic and incisive. There is no doubt that what kind of mental state a person has will produce what kind of life reality. Just like doing business, the more money you invest, the more profits you will get in the future.
In life, a good attitude can make you optimistic and open-minded; A good attitude can enable you to overcome the suffering you face; A good attitude can make you indifferent to fame and fortune and live a truly happy life. Thousands of years of human history of politeness tells us that a considerate attitude can help us get health, happiness and wealth.
First, the mentality determines life.
A philosopher once said, "Your thoughts are your masters." In real life, we can't control our experiences, but we can control our mentality; We cannot change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people. The real difference lies in the mentality. Therefore, a person's success mainly depends on his mentality.
Second, it is better to be angry than disappointed.
There are prosperity and adversity in life, and it is impossible to have adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. It is a shallow life to be cocky because of prosperity or peak, and depressed because of adversity or trough. When dealing with setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, then you are doomed to be a weak person forever.
Third, you can win if you have confidence.
Throughout the ages, many people failed not because of incompetence, but because they were not confident. Self-confidence is a kind of strength and a kind of motivation. When you are not confident, it is difficult for you to do things well; When you can't do anything well, you are even less confident.
This is a vicious circle. If you want to get out of this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure and establish firm self-confidence.
Fourth, the heart should act more (the slogan of protecting animals)
Heart is not as good as action, although action does not have to be successful, but it must not be successful without action. Life will not reward you for what you want to do, nor for what you know, but for what you do. A person's goal begins with a dream, a person's happiness is grasped from the mentality, and a person's success is realized in action. It is precisely because only action can nourish your successful food and spring water.
Fifth, a normal mind is indispensable.
Life can't be smooth sailing, there are successes and failures; There are happiness and loss. If we take these ups and downs in life too seriously, then life will never be calm for us and there will never be laughter. There must be a pursuit in life, and if you can't get it for the time being, it won't hinder the fun of daily life. Therefore, having a normal mind is an essential lubricant for life.
Sixth, timely release will be rewarding.
Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. It's not good to force things that don't belong to you. Learn to understand and put them down in time. Maybe when you are exhausted, you will get what you wanted before but didn't get, and then you will have unexpected gains. Putting it down at the right time is a kind of wisdom. It will make you more aware of your internal potential and external factors, adjust your tired body and mind, and become a happy and intelligent person.
Blind persistence is not as good as rational letting go. Those who are struggling to keep the sunset are stupid, and those who have been sad about spring for a long time are stupid. People who are reluctant to let go of anything often lose more precious things. Give yourself a chance to learn and understand at the right time, and then you can get it.
7. Tolerance is a virtue.
As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon". This means that people need tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue that can make a person respected. Tolerance is a good medicine that can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a bright lamp, which can radiate radiant light in the dark and illuminate every soul.
Eight, learn to understand and relax your mind.
The human mind is fragile and needs constant encouragement and comfort. Self-encouragement and self-praise will make the mind happy. (Team name)
Learning and understanding to untie the bondage of the mind is to create a warm harbor for yourself, and often go in to do * * * work for the busy and tired mind, so that all parts of the mind can be maintained and maintained frequently.
Nine, don't regard setbacks as failures.
Everyone's life will inevitably encounter setbacks and failures. The difference is that losers always regard setbacks as failures, so that they can deeply attack their courage to win every time; Winners never give up. Faced with setbacks again and again, they always say to themselves, "I have not failed, but I have not succeeded yet." A person who loses temporarily, if he continues to work hard and intends to win back, then his failure this day is not a real failure. On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, he really loses.
10. avoid trouble becoming a heart disease.
In real life, people who worry all the time don't actually encounter too many misfortunes, but are rooted in the inner world of those who worry. Therefore, when trouble comes, we should neither complain about others nor give up on ourselves. We should learn and know how to untie the knot, adjust our psychology, and prevent troubles from becoming heart diseases.
Eleven, pleasure is actually very simple.
Some people say that pleasure is the flower in spring, the shade in summer, the wild fruit in autumn and the snow in winter. In fact, happiness is all around us. It is a very pleasant thing to smile, shake hands sincerely and have a heart-to-heart conversation.
Insight 2:
Mentality determines life.
1, bother again: don't forget to smile (quotations from Mu Xin)
2, again urgent: also pay attention to the tone.
No matter how difficult it is: don't forget to stick to it.
4. Tired again: Love yourself, too.
5. Be a low-key person; You are more stable every time.
6, high-profile work; You get better every time.
7. It is not easy to forget the past if you succeed.
8. It is not easy to forget that there is a future when you fail.
9. eager to get what you expect; Never mind what is hopeless.
10, win or lose, keep a high profile.
1 1, life is not a one-way street, 1 the road is blocked, so you can turn.
12, tears and sweat are similar in composition; But the former can only get you sympathy. The latter can win you success.
13, getting old is a compulsory course in life.
14, maturity is an elective course.
15, based on exercise, study and understanding health.
16, mainly adapt, learn to understand and survive.
17, learn to understand and let go, and stand the loneliness and temptation.
18, when everyone keeps a low profile, you can choose a high profile, but you can't go out of tune.
19, learning and understanding forgetting is the skill of life.
Learn and understand that smiling is the art of life.
2 1, laziness, like rust, consumes the body more than labor.
The best way to realize your dream is to wake up.
23. Philosophers are carefree, but wise men are always happy. I don't want to have it because I love it, but I love everything I have.
24. Things that can't be lost: self-control, calmness, expectation and self-confidence.
Insight 3:
The ancients said: knowledge changes fate, and attitude determines everything. I think it's true, too Just as our life is determined by our own mentality.
A person's mentality is not diligent enough, and life will not change. On the contrary, it will also bind yourself.
There is a person who just doesn't know how to let go of himself and has to tie himself in. When he was young, he was framed and spent nine years in prison. After the injustice was cleared, he finally walked out of the prison. As usual, he should be free forever. But he cursed those who gave him unfortunate fate all day until he died, and so on. Bound myself with hatred, complaints and curses in my heart for 4 1 year.
Think about it, if he treats his future life with optimism, it will take him several years to forget the reason why he was framed. Then the rest of his life must be much richer and more exciting!
In our daily life, there are not a few people who hold the same attitude as the people in the materials. However, there are also many people who are optimistic about life.
In the first half of the 20th century, he monopolized the entire American oil industry, manipulated the American financial system, and even Congress obeyed him. But he suffered from severe depression for various reasons, and even the most advanced medical equipment and the most famous doctors in the world were helpless.
So he went to a Buddhist temple in Henan, China, and painstakingly read these 42 chapters. Seeing one word excited him. Returning to China the next day, he ordered the dissolution of the consortium and resigned as chairman. He started his life again, responded optimistically to everything and devoted himself to social welfare undertakings. As a result, his chronic disease was cured. He worked until1987-his death. That year, he was 93 years old and died without a disease.
From this perspective, mentality can really determine life. If the oil tycoon hadn't changed his attitude towards life, he wouldn't have lived so long and devoted himself to charity so successfully.
So I hope everyone can treat life with care and have an optimistic attitude. The greatest enemy in life is yourself. Only with a serious attitude can we overcome our negative self and success can belong to everyone!