Love yourself well is to love your family

Recently, the circle of friends was an easy fund-raising project screen, clicked to know, this helper is not someone else, it is the high school school school next to a supermarket boss's wife, the boss suddenly suffered a serious illness, gave the family a heavy blow. All the classmates of the people are lamenting this impermanent world, and even can not believe such a fact.

Of course, including me, I remember, once upon a time, their family business was always particularly good, the boss's wife is very beautiful, people are also particularly kind and easy-going, come and go can see her face with a happy smile, they have a pair of twin daughters and a lovely son, often happy, so people envy.

But now, but to see the boss lying in the intensive care unit emaciated, can only rely on a variety of medical equipment to maintain life, the boss's wife's sentence: he is the backbone of the family, can not fall ah! Contained how much helplessness and despair, even close to the collapse also have to do their best to hold on, a glimpse of the treatment costs are a little bit of disintegration of this originally happy family, in their suffering at the same time, but also have to lament the impermanence of the world.

Life is so strong and yet so fragile. A serious illness is enough to break a family, and the sadness and despair behind it is something that only those who have experienced it will understand and know. The easy fundraising platform allows more and more people in need of help to get help, but also allows more and more people to realize that every person's downfall means the collapse of a family.

The concept of junior high school, the language teacher read a "live well, that is, love", so far all let me remember, talking about that wrote the face to the sea, spring flowers poet Hai Zi, after suffering from depression, suicide, from now on, so that his mother tears, and ultimately the mental collapse, crazy, tragic and bleak life, the end of the author said: I think, and then there is not a healthy and beautiful The author of the article said: "I think that there is no more a healthy and beautiful life, so that the mother who gave birth to life is more happy.

For Hai Zi's mother, he lived well, is her greatest love and filial piety. In fact, too many times, we should not and can not live so selfish, how the world is good, the people who love you, always happy with your happiness, sadness, sadness, no matter when they are behind you silently watch.

Six months ago, when I saw my sister-in-law, her hands were full of scalding bubbles, asked her to realize that it was all day in the factory to carry the high temperature charcoal fire caused by the later, she resigned from this job. In the garden, she used her injured hand to take care of the vegetables, while telling me: in fact, she would like to make money, after all, the family is in need of money, but she did not dare to overdraw their own bodies for money, she looked away from the playful cousin, said sadly: such a small child, no mother to have how poor. My sister-in-law suffers from diabetes, and I know she is afraid of her condition worsening, and even more afraid of the risks that come with it. The setting sunlight on her face, the tears in her eyes unusually bright, I could not help but sob a little, see, is a mother's strength and greatness. She must cherish her body to be able to give her child future companionship and happiness.

Yes, a good, healthy existence is a kind of love in itself, none of us are alone, let yourself be good, is the premise of all happiness, take care of yourself, there will be the possibility of the next, to a certain extent, love yourself well, is the same as in the love of family.

Sometimes, in the school received a phone call from Mom and Dad, I instead do not want to hear them say how much money turned, how the business, more hope to hear that they are living in health and comfort, material give is certainly a kind of happiness, but I think, in addition, take care of themselves, do not let their families worry about, and love themselves, is the greatest return to the beloved ones. Whether it is parents or children, to know, you each other healthy and happy existence, is the present world's most stable happiness!

So, if you are also out and about, if you are also constantly struggling to give your family a better life, please struggle at the same time, but also to cherish themselves, because in their hearts, and then good life without you, is not perfect. We are past the age of youthful madness, only to see their own age, every step we take, are shouldering their respective responsibilities and missions.