To accompany the leader to socialize, it is your turn to toast to the customer, will not drink and do not say these 3 words
In the work, to accompany the customer to socialize occasions, and to go with the leader to socialize with the customer occasions can be quite a lot. The first thing you need to do is to get a good performance at work, and if you want to get a raise, it's not enough to have a good performance at work, but you need to be able to bring in more customer resources for the company.
The leader will re-examine your value, and feel that the interests of your body enough to impress him, will pull you a hand, to promote you up. Otherwise, you can only be honest in the post, waiting for the leadership "great kindness".
From this, we can see that work and socializing are inseparable, and you not only need to learn a set of methods for your work, but also learn a set of methods for your socializing. Whether you go out to socialize with clients on your own or with your leaders, you will perform better.
But when you're on your own, or when you go out with your leader to socialize with clients, it's inevitable that you're going to have to push the envelope, even if you're a woman. Whether it's the fact that it's much more inconvenient for women to drink on social occasions outside the home, or that some people can't drink.
When it comes to socializing, you have to deal with the situation where the other person lets you drink, or you have to make a toast to the other person. For example, if you are going to accompany a leader to a social gathering and it is your turn to toast to a client, don't say these 3 words if you don't know how to drink.
One, directly say that they will not drink
The turn of the customer to toast to the time, will not drink, do not directly say that they will not drink. Because this is the occasion to socialize, just to toast the turn, straight to say that they will not drink words, a large chance will be the atmosphere of the scene to get stiff.
So if you don't drink and it's your turn to make a toast to a customer, you might as well say something polite first. Customers and leaders listen to the face of the happy, on the explanation of their own will not drink things, and then make a round, to tea instead of wine to this past.
This has two advantages, the first advantage is that you do not drink, resulting in an awkward atmosphere, sweeping the leadership and the customer's interest. The second advantage is that the leader can see that you do not drink, but you can make a good round of words, socializing means can be, will not be because you do not drink and not bring you out to socialize, make friends with customers.
Two, I can only drink a little
When it's your turn to toast to your customers, don't say you can only drink a little if you don't know how to drink. Because in this kind of social occasion, even if you say you can only drink a little bit, in fact, is the default you can drink.
So you can toast to your customers, and as long as you have a drink, you will inevitably have to exchange drinks with them afterwards. In addition, if you say that you can only drink a little bit, the customer will inevitably feel that you are modest. After you drink, you may be able to follow up on the drink will be more powerful.
Finally, if you don't know how to drink, but still drink a little, if you don't have a grasp of your own drinking capacity, it is easy to get drunk on this social occasion. If you are also not sure about your drinking, you will be prone to act inappropriately in front of your leaders and clients, causing both you and your leaders to lose face.
Three, the excuse has a loophole in the words
The turn of the customer to toast to the time, will not drink, in fact, you can find an excuse to refuse to go. As long as the excuse is more appropriate and suitable, will not let the scene cold, even if the leadership will not blame you.
But if you don't know how to drink, even the excuses for refusing are full of holes, and the leader and the customer know that you are talking nonsense. From the client's point of view, you just don't want to drink with him and don't give him face. From the leader's point of view, you just don't know how to socialize, even the basic means of socializing are not well mastered.
Summary:
With the leader to socialize, drinking is inevitable, if you have a good capacity for alcohol, of course, it does not matter. However, they are not good at drinking, or will not drink, it is best to think of some words in advance, so as not to be persuaded to drink at a loss, but in the heart of the leadership fell a bad impression.