If it were me, I'd want to be a girl, and a pretty girl at that, a girl who lives in a big city, a girl with intelligence, yes, that's what I am now.
In fact, most of my life situations have little to do with men and women, or at least don't feel that I've been favored or shortchanged in any way because of my gender, and that's probably because there's more tolerance for gender in the metropolis, or it's weakened in study or work.
I am an only child, my parents are doting on me, I study IT, although the workplace into the male bias a little more, but the ability to work to see really is the ability is not gender, men and women are the same, the ability to be strong is to be able to shine, I'm still quite hard work, so the work of a smooth sailing.
Involvement is inevitable, overtime will not be taken care of, the processing of wages is also equal, I believe that the company can do fair, so far have not been subjected to any unfairness.
The only difference is having a baby, because of that, I'd say it's probably something only girls are likely to encounter, for better or for worse, to each his own. Painful and beautiful for me.
I am considered a more independent woman. When I didn't have a baby, I used to be afraid of pregnancy and all the pain of pregnancy. Also afraid of the responsibility and pressure of having a baby after baby. But please, what is the meaning of life?
Is it the pursuit of a life of fine clothes and food? Is it to be born in a rich family and eat, drink and be merry all day without stress?
I think the meaning is to have worked hard, to have labored, to have experienced, to have received, to have failed.
We all start out as children, we become teenagers, we become young adults, we become employees, we become friends, we become husbands and wives (some may not), we become moms and dads (some may not), we become grandparents and grandparents (some may not) 。。。。。。 We have a lot of experiences because of who we are to have them, and it's the richness of the experience that brings your life's closer to fulfillment.
This process of a woman becoming a mother, and the bond between a child and a woman, is something that a man won't have, it's painful, it's a lot of aftermath, but the child gives much more emotional value to the mother than it does to the father as well.
Isn't it nice to have one more person in the world who loves you?