"Send You a Little Red Flower" 9 Afterthoughts
After watching a work, you must have new insights and views on life, and you need to go back to write an afterthought. Is there no way to write, no clue? The following is my compilation of the "send you a little red flower" afterthought, just for reference, we take a look.
"Send You a Little Red Flower" Afterthought 1
"The little red flower was blown to every place by the wind, and fell on the heart of everyone to open the seeds of hope." Send you a little red flower", after watching this movie, I am quite touching, long time have not seen a movie that can really move me. Wei Yihang is the protagonist of the movie, and after he gets a brain tumor are very bereaved. A chance memorial service allows him to bond with Ma Xiaoyuan. At that time, Wei Yihang didn't know that this girl would change his life.
Once, Ma Xiaoyuan got a travel book. So, she took Wei Yihang to start their "global travel". They went to the market, as the white shark beach; they went to the freezer, as the North Pole; they went to the garage, as Hawaii; they went to the roof of the building, as the peaks; they went to the construction site, as the Sahara; they went to the fountain, as the waterfall. One reads, one listens, with music, uplifting. Wei Yihang said, "When the normal person's happiness, like them to grow old, is no longer a distant dream."
Wei Yihang's family is warm and welcoming, but his parents are under tremendous pressure - expensive surgeries and their son's illness, which constantly torments them. The family has not changed a thing since Wei Yihang's illness, and the corner of the table has been broken, but he is still holding on to it with a paper towel. The father wept at a family gathering because of the cost of the operation; the mother argued with the beggar because of the money. After work, in order to money problems, the father secretly run a special car, the mother hides picking vegetable leaves. Wei Yihang learned of all this, then began to test drugs to make money. His father slapped him angrily when he found out. Afterwards, but then came to the door to apologize to Wei Yihang, send medicine. Father carrying a bag of tearing one by one to take out to advise Wei Yihang how to eat. This face is both touching and cozy, making me weep.
The small red flower appeared three times in the movie. Once is the book Yihang said to Ma Yuan that his kindergarten never got a small red flower; once is Ma Xiaoyuan reward Wei Yihang life's first and extremely active; the last time is Wei Yihang encourage Ma Xiaoyuan to actively fight against the disease when the drawing of the small red flower. The small red flower represents not only the small red flower, but also the hope and encouragement to live, is the face of the regiment difficult to work hard to be strong ...... hospital door for the dead daughter of the father of the cry, rely on other people to record communication of deaf and mute delivery boy, because of their own mistakes to let the lover to see the recurrence of the book of the Jen breaks off the suicide of the Wu Xiaomai, the grandchildren were abducted posting a missing person notice of the grandmother ...They all need the encouragement of the little red flower.
Ma Xiaoyuan died at the end because of a relapse of brain tumors, the end is not much better, but very realistic. Her appearance changes Wei Yihang's past, present and future. In the end, Wei Yihang went to Qingdao Lake, which he had been looking forward to in his dreams, and Ma Xiaoyuan lived a life free of pain and suffering in a parallel space and time. ......
Yes, life is like this, constantly giving us problems and letting us despair over and over again. But we can only live better if we face difficulties with optimism. Let's go to love life, cherish life, enjoy life!
After the movie "A Little Red Flower for You"
The New Year's Eve has gradually become a sense of ceremony, and we have begun to choose ways to make our spirits happy and our thoughts rich in the ordinary and trivial life. So I went into the theater, because I like the art of light and shadow, the director of the long life of the characters condensed into a hundred minutes or so of the screen, we often in the tears and laughter intertwined, to feel the sadness of life.
A newly released movie, "Send You a Little Red Flower" attracted me, Yi Yi Qianxi and Liu Hao Cun, the girl of the plot, co-starred in the movie, the young time is so bright and beautiful, it is so worthwhile to look forward to ah.
Some people say that this is a healing movie, some people say that this is the youth version of love, I think, this is a warm and loving movie, so that people in the laughter and tears, to feel the reality of love, to cherish the present have, and learn to in the heavy pressure of life, still optimistic and strong.
Because of love, the road ahead is never lonely.
The male and female protagonists are both cancer patients, so the parents are particularly compassionate. The main character, played by Yi Yi Qianxi, is named Wei Yihang, recalling the allusion to Bodhidharma's "One Reed Crossing the River", which means that life is like a traveler's journey against the wind, and one reed is used for navigation. Such a name is a sign of his parents' deepest feelings and heavy expectations. Yihang's father, in order to save money, can endure the torment of stomach pains without going to the hospital; Yihang's mother, in order to let her son socialize with others and spared no effort to promote; the woman is soft and weak, but the mother is strong. There is also Ma Xiaoyuan's father, who never grows up, learns magic tricks in order to make his daughter happy....... Warm details abound in the movie. When the father of a flight, holding a bottle of medicine to just argued with the son and earnest advice, to see him turn around the vicissitudes of the back of hard work, can not help but tears like springs.
Living is never easy, but with love, our pace is calm and firm.
We will eventually lose, and the most powerful counterattack against loss is to learn to cherish.
Change a flight of silence and disheveled Xiaoyuan, finally failed to escape the clutches of the disease; that lost his grandson's grandmother, still sitting at the door in the rainy days waiting; that vicissitudes of the father, alone, looking at his daughter's wig bawling ...... a moving scene, so that people could not not not shed tears. Perhaps, the director is trying to use this way of facing the suffering directly to wake up our hearts that have long been numb.
We are always in a hurry, but we do not know when the first spring flowers open in early spring; we are just touched by other people's stories over and over again, but ignored the feelings of the people around us who we love the most; we can see the morning sunshine every day, breathe the fresh air, we can sing loudly, run freely, listen to our parents' nagging and quarreling voices, and look at the children's faces with happy smiles, this is such a happy and beautiful thing. This is such a happy and wonderful thing! At the end of the movie, everyone is smiling brightly in the sunshine. That's Yihang's best thought. But that is our real life.
It turns out that our trivial and ordinary daily life is the paradise in the eyes of others.
Love interspersed, so that the original heavy topic of a few more happy marks of youth, as well as a small red flower of the warmth of the symbol, coupled with the hero and heroine of the youthful face, clear and pure eyes, pure and natural acting, have made the film a lot more colorful, and a few more points of viewability.
Let us in the world, in the name of love, hand in hand, then, life has a warm meaning.
Wherever the heart goes, the vegetarian past, life is like a reverse journey, a reed to sail.
After watching the movie, I couldn't calm down for a long time, some depression, some heavy, there are too many moments in the movie that make people tear up!
In the main character Wei Yihang grandmother's birthday family party, grandmother said that if the lack of money to sell the house, to the grandson's treatment, even the relatives present said that even if the pot to sell the iron will be given to the child's treatment, Wei Yihang's father finally couldn't control the inner torment and helplessness, and cried out in pain!
This is the first time I shed a tear, the second time is in the conversation between Wei Yihang and his father is like this "you so reckless to save my life, only to make me feel that I am a burden, I am not grateful to you, in order to give me a cure, Dad secretly go to run a drop, Mom off work to pick up vegetables, my home was not originally like this! "
Yes, the moment a person is diagnosed with cancer, an otherwise ordinary family is completely changed!
"It's hard when you have the disease, and it's even harder for those around you." This sentence is a reflection of reality, and in the drama is also a true portrayal of Wei Yihang's parents. And in our real life, China actually has thousands of cancer families, they are the same as the story in the movie, for the treatment of the disease to run around, begging for help, in order to cure the disease to dump their families, broken families.
Cancer is like a dark cloud hanging over these families, who are in pain, confused, struggling, and desperate!
The reason why cancer has become a topic that people do not want to touch is not only because of fear and pain, but also because it hides the fact that "not being able to afford to see a doctor" is a terminal illness that is deep in the bones of ordinary people!
From "I'm not the God of Medicine", "Get lost, tumor gentleman" to "send you a little red flower" this several anti-cancer film theme, I have been thinking about the launch of these films 'behind, the country is trying to express what or advocate what?
Well, the first thing I think is to advocate that people respect life and cherish health! The second is undoubtedly to publicize the insurance, advocate people in good health in the case of everyone an insurance!
Have you ever thought about what you would do if a family member got sick? If the cost of treatment is more than you can afford, will you give up? If you're not prepared, then get yourself and your family an insurance policy sooner rather than later!
Insurance is a small amount of money for big money, a small amount of money, the use of his compensatory principle, locking up our wealth, with a determined amount of compensation to manage the uncertainty of the scope of the damage caused by the loss of the amount of compensation.
In recent days, we have received consecutive phone calls from customers inquiring, "Can I still get insurance after being hospitalized?" One of them just found out has cancer, when I heard this this sentence, to be honest, I was very speechless inside, why not buy an insurance when the body is healthy? Insurance is expensive, but only when lying in the hospital bed, only to find that the cost of medicine is far more expensive than insurance.
As the saying goes, "A penny is worth a pound," in today's commoditized era, although money is not everything, but no money is everything, money is money, as Mr. Wang Chen said: "Do not make a choice between dignity and money, there is dignity in money, do not make a choice between life and money. Don't choose between life and money. When you don't have money, you're worthless.
Insurance is a little red flower that life rewards you with! It gives us a certain amount of money in an uncertain future and gives us peace of mind!
Cancer, a disease that most people may not have heard of in the last century, is now happening to many people like the flu. We can't explore the reasons behind it, but the cancer community does need more attention.
Wei Yihang is a cancer patient, people look at him differently, so he slowly put on a thorny coat for himself, his family is not rich, because of his disease is even worse. He doesn't see himself as a normal person and lives his life in fear of relapsing again and again. Wei Yihang's father, in order to save money can endure the torture of stomach pains do not go to the hospital, Wei Yihang's mother in order to let his son rekindle the hope of life, leaving no effort to teach him to socialize, and like everyone to talk about recommending their own son, the more so, Wei Yihang more and more feel that he is a burden to his parents, is the family's useless baggage. When Ma Xiaoyuan appeared, his life was colored a little bit. Ma Xiaoyuan has been suffering from cancer since he was seven years old, but he is optimistic, like a little sun trying to emit light and heat, doing his best to convey positive energy to the people around him. His father is like a child who never grows up, but actually learned magic to amuse his daughter. Wei Yihang surface disdain, the heart has long been attracted to this cheerful girl, his feelings for Ma Xiaoyuan also changed in the subtle, and Ma Xiaoyuan in the Wei Yihang from the decadence of the pull out of the cancer recurrence, and ultimately left the world.
Ma Xiaoyuan is the salvation of life for Wei Yihang, and because of her, Wei Yihang has changed his attitude towards life. When they first met, Wei Yihang said with a smile on his face, "Hello, my name is Wei Yihang, do you want to see a slice of my brain tumor?" He tries to dissuade people who want to get close to him in his own way, which is heartbreaking and helpless. Ma Xiaoyuan's answer is unexpected, and that's how they meet. Ma Xiaoyuan sees Wei Yihang's mourning, so he has been trying to help him, from private messages, to taking Wei Yihang to meet various people, to taking Wei Yihang on simulated tours of the world's landscapes. In this way, two people with the same disease, gradually close to each other, gradually into each other's hearts, touching and warm, because Ma Xiaoyuan's existence, Wei Yihang's life has become colorful. Two people encourage each other, comfort each other, they are each other's salvation, they are each other's attachment. I think that two people who love each other together, happiness is the best weapon against disease, old age, sickness and death can not stop the love, love can cross the time, across the life and death.
We are always in a hurry to rush, but do not know when the first spring flowers open in early spring; we just over and over again by other people's stories touched, but ignored the side of the feelings of the people we love the most; we can see the sunshine in the morning every day, breathe the fresh air, you can sing out loud, free to run, you can listen to your parents nagging and arguing, you can look at the children's faces happy smile, this is a happy and beautiful thing! This is such a happy and wonderful thing! At the end of the movie, everyone is smiling brightly in the sunshine. That's Yihang's best thought. But that's our real life. It turns out that our ordinary and trivial life is the paradise that others dream of.
Life is not easy, whether it is a cancer patient, or an ordinary person in the world, living is not an easy thing. But to fight bravely and never give up is the principle we adhere to, no matter what we encounter, we have to continue to work hard, to believe that the future will always usher in the light. We are all ordinary people, but we will never compromise, always strive.
"Send You a Little Red Flower" Aftermath 5
Watch a hundred movies, taste a hundred flavors of life.
--Title
During the vacation, I watched the movie that aired for a long time - "Send You a Little Red Flower" on my phone.
"What is this?"
"A little red flower for being proactive for the first time in your life."
This conversation is one of the most memorable for the movie's protagonists, Ma Xiaoyuan and Wei Yihang. Ma Xiaoyuan and Wei Yihang are unfortunate and fortunate at the same time. I say they are unfortunate because they are also only in their teens, but they are both caught by cancer, both of them brain cancers....... I say they are fortunate because they have good parents and met each other.
Ma Xiaoyuan and Wei Yihang are mutually redemptive, Ma Xiaoyuan let Wei Yihang become confident, accompany him to fulfill his dream of wanting to become an explorer and travel all over the world, of course, due to their physical condition, this all over the world is also Ma Xiaoyuan little by little for Wei Yihang to build up. The only place they wanted to go was Qinghai, because Wei Yihang said he had seen a lake there in Qinghai in his dream, and there was a girl with her, standing in the lake, but he could never see the girl's face. But the trip only came to an end here, as Ma Xiaoyuan's condition worsened.
In the hospital room, Wei Yihang asked Ma Xiaoxue why she didn't tell him. Ma Xiaoyuan only said "I'm afraid that the girl with you is not me." Ma Xiaoyuan had also shown that he did not want to be cured, I suddenly cried when I saw this. The first time I saw this was when I was a teenager, and it was a very good time for me to be a teenager, but I think it was a very good time for me to be a teenager. I've seen a lot of people say that Ma Xiaoyuan is "bereaved", but I don't want to use the word "bereaved" to describe him, she is also afraid that her life will come to an abrupt end.
At the beginning of the movie, I thought Wei Yihang was irresponsible, as when they first met, Ma Xiaoyuan called Wei Yihang a "mama's boy". In the later episodes, I also always thought he had no backbone, too "funeral", but I seem to give him to others to subsidize the family, my tears once again came out of my eyes, he is also very difficult, he in the most beautiful, the most dazzling years of the cancer, this blow on who can quickly accept it?
His words were like a needle in my heart: "Mom, look, look at this family, after I got sick this family is still like a family? How long has it been since you and my dad have changed into new clothes? I don't want to see you and my dad go out on weekends to earn money by running a special car, and I don't want to see you being catty with people because of a few cents, which makes me feel like I'm a burden!" Wei Yihang is also for the good of the family, but his way is not right ...... There are a lot of people in this movie, I did not write about, but does not mean that they are not important, their group of patients, that father and daughter ...... all make people touched, but most of them also do not have a good ending.
At the end of the movie, the director did not explain the end of Ma Xiaoyuan and Wei Yihang, just shot Wei Yihang went to Qinghai to find that lake to fulfill his dream.
I kept thinking after the movie ended. If there is a parallel world such as the movie said too much good, in that world, Ma Xiaoyuan and Wei Yihang will be safe and healthy, always live happily, that world is also no cancer, no disease, everyone has a happy ending! I hope we can all have a heart that is optimistic and positive.
The dark night in search of light, thorns in the growth of the time in the flat, there is your pear-shaped smile, will feel warm and peaceful.
On New Year's Day, I went to see the newly released movie "Sending You a Little Red Flower". I'm glad I brought enough tissues with me to watch the movie. I don't know if I'm too emotional or if the movie really touched the soft spot in my heart - even the toughest people can't do anything about their illnesses.
Wei Yihang is a cancer-stricken teenager who has lost hope in his life. He can't see the light, but he often has a dream, in which he is standing by a beautiful lake, and there is a girl on the shore, which he thinks is the future.
Ma Xiaoyuan is a girl who believes in parallel worlds. Her mother died of cancer when she was young, and she has been on medication since she was five years old because of her inherited cancer. Life doesn't give her sunshine, but she gives herself hope, and the light in her eyes finally shines on the haze in Wei Yihang's heart.
Ma Xiaoyuan told Wei Yihang: "It is because our life may be very short, so we have to cherish it more." Wei Yihang's dream is to travel around the world, Ma Xiaoyuan will take her to "travel". They took the cold storage as the South Pole, the sand pile in the construction site as the Sahara, the fountain in the plaza as the Grand Waterfall, and the wind on the rooftop as the Grand Canyon. The dream of becoming an explorer is extravagant, but the distant road can not be trapped in the dream of the teenager.
When the bubble-like dream is linked to the cruel reality, the brighter the smile on their faces, the harder it is for me to feel in my heart, and how much longer they can stay in this world is an unknown that no one knows.
"You are sick and suffering, and the people around you are suffering more." Those who stay face loss, and those who leave wonder how those around them will live after they leave this world. In order to answer their son's questions, Wei Yihang's parents made a vlog about their son's absence, how they will continue to live a normal life, and how they will miss him every day. Wei Yihang's mom argues with someone for a few dollars for parking, and Wei Yihang's dad drives a special car behind his family's back every day. They are an ordinary family, trying to maintain their lives as they were, and wishing that the disease had never happened. They live hard, love hard, and learn to express and cherish in their arguments and tears.
"Why didn't you tell me when you had a relapse? "
"I wanted so much to be the one standing by the lake with you."
Ma Xiaoyuan goes to a world without disease and pain, and the future in Wei Yihang's dream becomes the parallel time and space that Ma Xiaoyuan talks about. There must be another world where there is no sick Wei Yihang or Ma Xiaoyuan, where snow never falls and there is no wind for eternity. The sick group of people each accomplished their own dreams, Wei Yihang and Ma Xiaoyuan went to Qinghai to look for that lake, everyone is living a simple and beautiful life, they rarely talk, but often smile.
"What if we get separated? "
"What if we get separated, you raise this arm in the crowd, and as soon as I see this little red flower, I will immediately run over to you."
The herdsmen by the lake distinguish themselves by drawing colorful markings on the sheep of the combined flock, and Wei Yihang found each other by drawing little red flowers on the back of Ma Xiaoyuan's hand.
Wei Yihang, life is like traveling against the wind, a reed to sail. Mourning is simple, but living is never easy, not to give up love and hope for every brave person, are worth rewarding a small red flower.
Death can come at any time, the only thing we have to do is to love and cherish.
Wei Yihang, I hope you carry her share of hope to continue to find the light in life.
Ma Xiaoyuan like a little red flower in the spring, cheerful, lively, witty, kind, beautiful, smile, especially charming a child, I think this character should be with her seemingly in tune with her father has a lot to do with the big things such as cooking a small fresh, outside the loose inside tightly not shocked by things, a good family environment to cultivate a sunny personality. On this kind little nun lit Wei Yihang's life fire, youth, ignorance, love comes quietly burning. The sensitivity of the terminally ill, self-pity, self-protection, adolescent rebellion, and the warmth of the group. A master of the hot mouth chicken soup, high-pitched slogans, these are too real, in fact, the masters live is not easy, but also need to be able to solve the world's sorrows of a few silver to spend the day, a lot of small people's way of life can not be put on the stage, but where there is a little way to do who do not want to be decent? Including Yueyue acted or a lace side of the tragic love story, the movie is just a slapdash point, see know how to understand, see do not understand a pass.
At first, Wei Yihang autistic, demoralized, quite dark character, if not the love of the arousal of his may have been dark and heavy down, has been in the parents of the double protection, there are a group of people around the care, and ultimately cover the iceberg in his heart, and gradually open their own initiative to interact with the cancer friends to participate in some of the party, these changes can be the poor old parents happy bad, are strength actors, acting up no
This is the first time I've seen a pair of actors and actresses who have acted without the appearance of acting, and incited them to do so without any trace of a natural emotional drive into the mirror of the love affair.
Because afraid to be brave, behind the slogan is a heart shivering afraid of death, as Yueyue said optimistic character also have popping time, those who seem unusually lively people, after the people may also often secretly hurt, just more good at pretending, pretending to be invulnerable, but in fact just want to put the good side of the presentation, like Ma Xiaoyuan review know the results, but also hide not to say coaxing the parents to do something, but also to do something. The first time I saw this, I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you.
Laughing point of low people tears point is also low, a little warm picture was stirred up, so soft heart is really not suitable, in this world to play around, but also born in this red dust, life believe in Buddhism also believe in karma reincarnation, if there is a future life I would rather not enter the six paths do not see these robberies, by the soul of the soul to be scattered in the outside of the world to roam.
In the evening, I went out for a walk with my eyes swollen with tears, and I couldn't help but think that if it was a comedy ending, how would it be? Wei Yihang and Ma Xiaoyuan*** on the beautiful marriage, like the vast majority of happy young people, enjoying all the good things, and then, in addition to all the suffering, the heart is unimpeded, no ignorance, no end of death.
Jyotish, Jyotish.
After "Send You a Little Red Flower" 8This is a movie about fighting cancer, and the main characters are called Wei Yihang and Ma Xiaoyuan. Both of them are cancer patients, fighting against cancer. Wei Yihang is a particularly bereaved person, Ma Xiaoyuan's appearance changed him, but the ending is very realistic, Ma Xiaoyuan relapsed and left him forever. Originally I thought I would cry my eyes out because I was once part of the army of family members of cancer patients. But maybe I've moved on, I didn't shed a single tear while watching the movie, and I wondered if I was cold-blooded. I'm afraid to love, and I'm even more afraid to be loved. I'm afraid of love, and I'm even more afraid of being loved.
There are a lot of details in the movie, such as the language, not all of them are standard Mandarin, there are mixed with a variety of accents of Mandarin, so that more real. It's true that people with cancer come from all over the world, so it's impossible for them to all speak the same standard Mandarin. For example, Wei Yihang holds his chopsticks especially close to his home, which in Chinese customary culture means that he is close to home and can't go far. It really fits the persona. For example, the father in front of the hospital, after the death of his daughter cried bitterly, obviously can not eat but hard to mouth. For example, the wig store owner wallet fell to the ground Wei Yihang saw the photo after the surprised face. For example ...... too many details, very consistent with reality. Recall that when I learned that my father had cancer, the whole person also became very funeral, just like Wei Dad, can not hear the word "death", the family life is like Wei mother pinching leaves that catty. Seeing this movie really brought me too many memories. Now think about it, in fact, it is only half a year ago, but I feel that it has been a long, long time, so long that I have been a bit unable to remember.
In the movie, when people shouted slogans, they were shouting that they could defeat cancer, but can cancer really be defeated? That's the question many people have, and that's the question I have. Today's technology is changing rapidly, and there are incredible changes in medical equipment and medical standards. The cure rate of cancer is now significantly higher, but I still have questions, can cancer be defeated? If it can be beaten, why are so many people still leaving? Including my father. Sometimes I just think, ah, let them go through the painful chemotherapy, and only temporarily slightly delayed their lives, but they live a very painful life, prolonging their lives is prolonging their pain, they live really too tired too tired. But to let nature take its course, to watch your loved ones step by step toward death, is really a very cruel thing. When I saw my father take his last breath, I was sad and at the same time felt a sense of relief, both for my father and for me, and for my family. How so, because my father was already in the middle to late stages when he was found out, and the doctors clearly told us that the point of the treatment was to store up a breath of air, and also a kind of psychological comfort. So we all knew that sometime in the future my father would be gone from us forever, so all we wanted to do was to be a monk for a day until death parted us.
The waiting was torturous, we waited and waited for the verdict, knowing full well the final outcome of the trial. So when the father did leave, there was a hint of relief along with the heartache, like the result of a death row trial finally coming out, the decapitation.
Watching this movie touched me a lot, obviously there are places that are very sad, heartache, but no tears. I don't know what's wrong with me, I should be cold-blooded!
After watching "Send You a Little Red Flower", I watched "Send You a Little Red Flower" with my husband, who was invited by a friend to watch it together. There were more people watching the movie that day, one because it had just been released, and the other because my friend's company was inviting customers to attend an event. Most of the adults in the movie theater, and then the children, the entire second half of the movie screening process, the tears never stopped, there is a strong sense of "sadness".
What struck me was "what we don't know". We don't know how many people are suffering from illness, especially cancer, which can catch people off guard. No one knows how they feel at the moment they learn of their illness, but it must be "despair". Despair is not in the face of death, but in the face of the indifference of all things, and Wei Yihang appears in the camera with such indifference. The picture does not show the indifference of adults, but focuses on the youthful young man in his prime, who is supposed to be full of vitality, and how he "breaks through the world", looking at his eyes, his steps and his hands that are nowhere to be placed. This is a stoic, holding back the love from his parents that he can't refuse, holding back the comfort from the doctor that he can't resist, and holding back the pain that he can't face himself. What we don't know is how many such children there are, how many such families there are, and how many such lives have quietly passed away. What we don't know is how many families have been broken up, how many parents have not been able to walk out of the shadow of orphanhood for years, and how many families have been impoverished as a result. What we don't know is how many patients have been cured, how many lives have been revitalized, and how many people have come out of the demons in their hearts. We do not know!
Later, my daughter wanted to watch it, and I watched it again with her. She wanted to see it, so we watched it together! There was no one else in the movie theater except the two of us, watching a special show. With a child sitting next to me, I wasn't fully immersed in the movie. There were tears, but my daughter's sobs were louder.
The difference is "what we know". What we know is that countless families have pinned their hopes on their children, even if they do not expect them to become a dragon and phoenix, but at least they are healthy and happy; as a parent to see their children sick, would rather the pain of the disease transferred to their own body rather than the child suffering; as a parent, the most intolerable is the loss of hope for the future. What we know is that children should have their due childhood, teenagers and young people, but we always keep teaching them what they should and should not do, often distorting the parent-child relationship and alienating the family bond in various contradictions against their wishes. What we know is that our children's requirements have never been in the goal of climbing forward, quiet reflection will find that our expectations are always like "monkeys breaking corn", often hard, sometimes blind.
Back to the name of the movie, "Give You a Little Red Flower", there is no such thing as rewarding a child's behavior or thoughts, or praising their behavior for their efforts. Is there a life where you often praise your loved ones for their words or mannerisms, and do you constantly recognize their efforts and praise them for their dedication? Is there a life where you often compliment your own inner or outer self, and do you continually affirm what you do to praise your character? This year, want to draw some small red flowers, reward everyone who works hard, reward everyone who strives, reward everyone you meet in your life ordinary that person!
Give you a little red flower, award to the ordinary life in the constant struggle of you!
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