First of all, we must understand that anger and depression are not good for anyone, everything will pass, and no one will continue in this world according to their own logic, so we must control sadness. The solution is: you can go outside for fun, or find a video game machine to throw basketball or something. If you are tired, you can sleep.
Secondly: this situation is not suitable for you to break up, and you will regret it. After breaking up, I got back together, more serious than you. Then he must definitely tell you that he loves you, otherwise he won't be angry with you. Don't worry, don't hurt yourself.
In addition: to love him is to think of him well and change yourself practically. When I am angry, I want to love him, so I want to tolerate him and make him more comfortable and happy. Think about Zhao Qian's love for Xiang Shaolong in Qin Xun Ji. Men don't have so many ideas and don't care about small things. Change your mind and don't get angry over trifles easily. Anger is not the way to get love. On the contrary, you should make a 180 degree turn to yourself: if you encounter something that you are usually angry about, think about how these friends on the web page contributed their opinions to help you without regret and how they handled it. Everything will have a positive result-if I were you, I would never be embarrassed by such a thing again. I will choose an elegant place, enjoy this meal, find a place I want to eat and eat what I like.
This matter itself should be able to help you solve it in the eyes of others, but there will be more than N such contradictions in the future, so the most important thing is that both of you should solve the problem sincerely.
You should learn to adjust yourself to a positive state. When you encounter a problem, try to find a positive way to convince yourself what the happy ending will be, what effect the quarrel will have, and don't lose your temper easily.
Where is he? Ask him to look at the comments of our enthusiastic netizens. He should also actively correct his mistakes and leave his woman easily, which is a kind of cold violence. If we are depressed, we can make it clear: Bai Bao, we are angry tonight. I don't think I can stand it, so I have to leave. Don't worry about me. In fact, if this expression can be expressed calmly, girls usually change their minds. The name "baby" is enough to express your tolerance. A man, if he loves his woman, should not jump around like a donkey when encountering problems.
Two people can make an agreement that they can not talk to each other for 24 hours when they are angry, and think about whether they will feel the same after 3 days. If so, it's never too late to feel uncomfortable.
I used to get angry over trifles, but my BF didn't. Of course, he used cold violence on me, but now I can really do it myself. I wonder (1) whether I am still angry after three days when I am depressed, or (2) what will happen if I take a positive attitude? (3) Turn 180 degrees. Think from his point of view, how can he be happy? (4) Find ways to relieve depression by yourself; (5) Reward yourself for overcoming emotions; (6) When you are depressed, try to give up yourself, or don't call it giving up. For example, if you sleep at night and ignore each other, he will hug me and I will push him away. Then I remember how much people love their lover, so I will pull his arm away and sleep in his arms, and he will hug me conveniently. In this case, 65,438+000% will kiss me very gently, and he will stand still in anger. There are many more, you can handle them yourself according to the situation. In short, don't hurt each other in anger, you can calm the war. It's no big deal when you look back.
It's hard to be happy if you test his abomination from behind the incident. Think about it when you magnify his kindness to you. Love is giving, making him happy and everything will be much better. Why do we miss our first love? Because at that time, we all tried our best to make each other happy, instead of thinking about why the other party didn't do what made me happy.
I have watched the Legend of the New Hundred Girls many times, and I have watched the second-rate dramas many times, and found a secret: that is, both sides appreciate each other's efforts and efforts, encourage each other's kindness in time, and appreciate each other very much. This is why we feel happy with each other.
Imagine if my BF would look at me intently and think I was beautiful, and I washed a lot of clothes for him after work. If he can say "wife, you have worked hard", I will do something for him, but even if I remind him, I will say "I washed a lot of clothes, so tired, your clothes have been washed for you!" He actually came to say, "Well, you are my wife and you should wait on me." I am very unhappy, but I won't quarrel with him, I will reason with him. "I should wait on you. Where are the rules? It's not that I didn't make money, and I didn't rely on you to support me. If you say so, I just think you are heartless, pull you! Bad guy! " Two people were fighting at the pillow, and they passed with a few laughs. If I have done it before, I will be very angry and say that I will never do it again. But when it comes to a pile of clothes he doesn't wash, and his work is very tired, can you not wash them for him? When two people are together, they just want to take care of and support each other. They only think about how to be nice to him, and don't ask for anything in return. On the contrary, they will really take a step back.
As long as you love each other and are willing to change, there is no habit you can't practice. Don't say it's difficult. Kiss your wife before you leave every morning, and your husband will come home to meet you and hug you. Isn't it hard? BF and I have been in love for 8 years, and we didn't really live together until March this year. In the past, we were all separated from each other. Get together every morning before we leave, even if we are in a hurry. He would reach out and kiss me before he left, whether it was on his arm or on his forehead. If there is enough time, he will play a little longer. This detail is the warmest in the morning.
Nothing will change as long as you put your heart into it. Every time you succeed in overcoming your weaknesses, celebrate or reward in other ways, and enlarge your efforts, you will succeed step by step.
For boys, it is usually "sincerity, stone opening", especially GF is a reasonable type.
Do not break up. Listen to my sister. Everyone has your problems. You will regret breaking up in the future. Don't waste my heart.
Although I can't get married because of economic reasons, I can't get married because I can't get along well now, but I have adjusted a lot now, and I am confident that I can get married next year. I don't know if you have seen the movie Confucius. When Confucius failed to leave alone, his apprentice Yan Hui reminded him of a famous saying, "When we can't change the world and others, the only thing we can do is to change ourselves". This sentence made me cry sadly. I feel that when I get along with my boyfriend, I hope he doesn't do what he does, so the only way for us to get along harmoniously is that I have to change myself. For example, his indifference, for example, he has never saved money after graduating from college, for example, his sexual function is poor, he has no passion, and I have no happiness for a woman. Who can I resent? I can only hate myself and love him. I still can't live without him after breaking up, so I made up again. Why should I wander at the past level? I feel that I am really moving towards "virtuous" in my thoughts and actions, see clearly his advantages, support and encourage him, and convince myself to love him according to my own heart, regardless of external evaluation and some people's opinions.
I always feel sad to see some news about a divorced third party. I'm working so hard with him now, and I don't know if anything will happen in the future. However, I convinced myself, as people say, are you afraid of an accident, so don't cross the road?
There are many people worse than you.
It would be much better if we could have a panoramic view of everything and see the results to deal with problems like a great wise man. I also know that BF likes virtuous and gentle women, but it is difficult to do so, but I have tried my best to do so.
Test yourself tonight, can you make a good analysis, have a happy dinner together and have a sweet night of emotional progress at night? Come on, I believe you can.
Bless you.