It is not easy at all to be a competent parent, and you have to be even more attentive to your children's education. Therefore, many people in modern times are resistant to marriage and even raising offspring, accompanied by the adoption of orphans. These orphans have unspeakable secrets and pains that have brought them to this point, and no one does not long for the warmth of a family. Unfortunately, no matter whether it is a natural or man-made disaster, orphans will still appear. Nowadays, the law on adoption has clear provisions, and the adoption regulations have improved a lot, and the behavior of abandoned babies is even strictly prohibited. Unfortunately, years ago, many children were abandoned at birth. 20 years ago, a black baby boy was found and adopted by a grandmother in Shanghai, but what happened to him today? And what really happened?
A granny and Zhu Junlong
An accidental adoption of an abandoned baby
In China, the emergence of mixed-race abandoned babies can be described as an extremely rare event, and the result is that the probability of such a small chance, but also by a granny in Shanghai encountered. In recent years, various incidents in front of the public are highlighting a more and more people can not be ignored, that is, the influence of the family of origin on the child's growth. Unfortunately, children cannot choose their parents, hence the emergence of abandoned babies. Either the parents are unable to bear the consequences of their illicit sexual relations, or they are unwilling to raise their offspring, so they choose to abandon these poor babies and leave them to fend for themselves. The black baby boy was lucky enough to be adopted by a Shanghai woman 20 years ago and grew up without suffering any hardship.
September 8, 2000, is a day that is undoubtedly still fresh in the mind of Shanghai woman Zhu Shui Bao. She went to the market to buy vegetables as usual, but in the bushes by the roadside, she accidentally found a baby, who was crying uncontrollably. Attracted by the sound of crying, she went to the bushes to check on the baby, not realizing that her life would change forever.
Looking at the baby's weak breath in front of her, Mrs. Zhu hurriedly took him to the hospital for treatment, and after the baby was held in her arms, he slowly stopped crying and developed his first smile. Zhu found that this poor abandoned baby, born only a few days, the body is weak, the whole body is also full of prickly heat. She couldn't help but feel sympathy, so she took the baby home, intending to take care of him first, and then come back to look for his irresponsible parents.
The baby, who was brought to Zhu's home, was carefully taken care of by the whole family, and his body gradually recovered, when Zhu realized that his skin color was much darker than other children. And only later did she learn from the doctor that the baby was a black man. Due to technical equipment, there was no surveillance around the bushland, so it was a needle in a haystack to find the baby's parents. Seeing that the baby could only be sent to an orphanage and become an abandoned baby, Grandma Zhu finally made up her mind and planned to adopt him.
Twenty years of parenting
The baby was given a brand new name, Zhu Junlong, and he was adopted by Grandma Zhu's youngest son, who had a brand new life in the Zhu family. But as the years went by, he was also facing a very embarrassing situation, namely the lack of identification. Because of the lack of proof that Zhu Junlong was born in China, and even Zhu's family did not meet the conditions for adopting a child, Zhu Junlong, at the age of 7, still did not apply for a hukou, not to mention going to school.
The family has been working on a number of projects, including the adoption of a black child, who was adopted by the Chinese government in 1977, and the adoption of a black child in 1977, who was adopted by the Chinese government in 1977, and the adoption of a black child in 1977, who was adopted by the Chinese government in 1977. The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list.
Junlong, who has no experience of pre-school education, was a bit out of place at the school. He didn't like to follow the rules, violated classroom discipline many times, and was very casual and uninterested in his studies. He even brought other students together mischievous trouble, so that the school teacher is a headache, and even Grandma Zhu is also very worried. However, under the careful guidance of the teachers, Zhu Junlong changed his bad habits after one year of schooling, and he began to take the initiative to study actively, and his mindset has also changed dramatically.
Because of the difference in skin color between the people around him, Zhu Junlong inevitably suffered some strange looks, and it was this difference that allowed him to grow up quickly and understand the importance of knowledge. He knew he was adopted, but never resented his parents, who had no trace of him, and accepted his identity with open arms. Because the Zhu family treated Zhu Junlong equally from the beginning to the end and did not favor him, Zhu Junlong, who grew up under care, reaped happiness.
At the age of 20, he was able to go to university and get a household registration in Shanghai, China, which opened up a whole new phase for him. Zhu Junlong believes that he is authentically Chinese, and that the difference between him and those around him is nothing more than a little deeper skin. His upbringing has not been without love, and when he was 18 he met a black foreign teacher, who also helped Zhu Junlong a great deal, tutoring him in English for free. As an outcast, he was undoubtedly the incredibly lucky one of them all.
Three, poor abandoned babies
It's a shame that not every one of the other abandoned babies could meet a kindly Zhu, and become Zhu Junlong. There are about 100,000 abandoned babies in China today, and because of deep-rooted corrupt thinking, most of the abandoned babies are girls and sick children, so it's clear that people are really all very different from each other. There are parents who love their children and do not give up on them, and then there are parents who are irresponsible and do not care about their children and consider them to be a burden. Poor children can't choose their parents, and I guess they don't want their birth to be unanticipated or even loathed from the start.
Fortunately, home schooling is becoming more of a priority, and the number of abandoned babies is declining as medical treatments improve. Of course, China's protection for sick and disabled children still needs to be improved, but nothing can be achieved overnight, and only time, will bring the most perfect results.