Because there are so many mother and baby products on the market now, to help you think of all aspects. The network is developed and convenient, want to buy. All kinds of marketing advertisements are all over the place, all kinds of brainwashing, all kinds of psychological guidance hints to make you willing to buy.
"Don't lose at the starting line" is by far the most successful marketing in China. The new era of "new" has opened up, "new bottles of old wine" is not as good as all, but the value of reading is high. Everything goes to the "famous schools", and ultimately to the ultimate goal (dream) of "profit-seeking" (success). Accepting that a child can be a happy, ordinary person is like pushing a child to the bottom of the social ladder and into the fire. Can not afford to buy 8 million school district to struggle;
The experience of going to Tsinghua and North is also a popular topic that has long been praised in Zhihu (I am not also considering opening a topic someday:What is the experience of being the daughter-in-law of a Tsinghua man? Mr. Wang graduated from NPC, and his father-in-law was second in the Beijing college entrance examination); Stanford MBA students can even say "I'm not qualified to stay in the United States, who is?" after attending Oxford. . How to deal with failure and frustration is not an essential element of successful learning?
The value orientation of the whole society is the quick success, naked money worship, in order to the so-called "success" to resort to any means is no longer a problem. There is no such thing as too much money, power and resources are the biggest problem. With such values as a guide for raising children, we can't wait for our children to climb faster than anyone else. The process doesn't matter, the winners and losers do. The happiness of a child, the happiness of raising your own child, is all lost early in the pursuit of the ultimate goal of success.
Life cannot be simply categorized into winners and losers; it's either winners or losers. Worldly success is nothing but a standard of merit and fame. But everyone has their own understanding and definition of success. Is a happy or even blissful ordinary life considered success? I agree that success is harmonious relationships (especially close relationships with parents, children, and spouses) and the realization of personal goals.