Then AM, M is the midpoint of BC so m{(-2+4)/2,(-1+7)/2},then AM coordinates is also very easy, then to find the length of his modulus on the line ~
For the proof that diagonals are equal, you Simply take A as the origin, the coordinates of B, C, D constant with an algebraic representation, for the proof
All not difficult, as long as you are willing to go to spend time on the problem~