Which four types of people live longer?

The heart determines the nature called heart, the nature determines the life called life, the life determines the fortune called fate, the fortune determines the qi called luck, the qi determines the color called qi color, the color determines the appearance called appearance. When we talk about longevity, there are four kinds of people who live long lives: the first kind, the heartless people live long lives; the second kind, the confused people live long lives; the third kind, the calm people live long lives; and the fourth kind, the enlightened people live long lives. So how do illnesses come about? Some people are worried, anxious, concerned, hopeful ...... all day long with many different kinds of feelings, such people are in line with the word "patient", "patient", the heart is always upward, worrying about the children today. Tomorrow with this person anxious, with that person angry, with that worry, with that fear ...... This is it, you are ready to be a patient! The only way to live a long life is to have a calm heart. Not people with knowledge can be officials, not this way, not talented can be the boss. Now many people are not convinced: "This person is nothing how to be a boss?" Look at how calm they are. They are very calm about money. Some people are very calm when they are officials, and it's as easy as going to the toilet when they are a director, can you? It's hard enough to be a team leader. Your capacity is that big! Remember, how big is your heart, how big is your world. Nowadays, a lot of people love to fight: "You see this leader has no talent." Does he need talent? Heaven doesn't like talented people, it doesn't like you to be talented, it only likes peace (Heaven likes peace and tranquility, and in addition, "Heaven is unselfish, and always gives to those who are good", Heaven also likes people who are benevolent and unselfish). Therefore, Buddhism is about the Middle Way, and Confucianism and Taoism are also about the Middle Way. Calmness can lead to the future, and it is only through calmness that we can reach eternity. Those who have knowledge are called clever, but what does it mean to have wisdom? Folks write out the wisdom of the word Hui - you see the wisdom of the word Hui is the heart of a mind below, with a whisk broom above to reverse sweeping, will get a double harvest of life and career. But who can sweep their own mind? People in this life are always looking for other people's problems, how many people are looking for their own problems? How many people look for their own faults? They always look for the other person's faults when they are cleaning the glass - look at how dirty you are! Please take a look at yourself - ouch, my head is dirty too! But there are too few people who can look at themselves! So wisdom is hard to come by, a little bit of wisdom is called great wisdom, and even more wisdom is just a little bit of wisdom. Some people are smart for a lifetime, but in the end, they are nothing at all in their old age, too much! There are people who can't do anything but can be good, stupid people have stupid blessings! First of all, human disease is born from the heart, and life is also born from the heart. All religions, whether it is Taoism, Buddhism, Catholicism, Islam, Christianity ...... whatever religion, are all about life being born out of one's heart. Sickness is also born from the heart, and if we can clean out the garbage of the heart, sickness and fate can be reversed. Otherwise, all these religions could not have been born and developed to this day. If we cannot change our destiny, then what is the point of developing it? If they can't change destiny, then what's the point of developing them? In fact all illnesses are a reminder that people have shortcomings and mistakes, otherwise you cannot have illnesses. "The body is a bodhi tree, the mind is like a mirror." This saying tells people, "The body is the mirror of the mind." There are very few people who can recognize this, and the other second point he says: "Brush diligently from time to time, and do not stir up dust." First of all, there are very few people who can see their own dust, let alone "always wipe it off". Even fewer people can wipe it away! From now on, we must use a spiritual method to clean up all the spiritual garbage we have accumulated in this life. This method can be summarized in the Kuan Shih Yin (simplified) character, which has the character for "and" on the left and the character for "see" on the right, which means to see one's own past history again. Why did the girl just say, "I am very cold," and I said to her, "You are worried and afraid. Cause and effect is this mood born, must break the cause and effect in order to change their own nature of mind, the heart changes the world everything is changing. It turns out that the root of everything lies in the heart and nature, and the word "nature" is the heart of the vertical heart side of the word "heart" plus the birth of a life - the heart of the birth. But now people are confused and do not know that the mind can generate everything and the mind can destroy everything, and from where it is generated, it should be destroyed from where it is generated. What is the method of cultivation? The first method is to see rightly, and then the second method is to see rightly again, and what does "seeing rightly again" mean? It means to clean up the past mind. Then the third method is to reflect on oneself, and the fourth method is to change one's outlook on life. It turns out that it is impossible to realize enlightenment without changing one's outlook on life, and it is impossible to get rid of illnesses or change one's destiny without clearing one's mind of garbage. Our method is also the Sen of enlightenment, called Zen, called enlightenment. The character for "senwu" is a selfish right side of the character for "sen", a big one in the center, and a change of the character for "delete and change" in the bottom--three sketches, three cuts. This method of ours is also a powerful character Neng, Neng is also a selfish right side of selfishness, and underneath it is a moon, which is actually what we are doing - we are privately stabbing our own selfishness with two daggers. But here we need to talk about what is called selfishness, selfishness is all moods (emotions) are called selfishness. We all remember the concept, as long as there have been moods are called selfishness, because without the word selfishness, there is no emotion, there is no mood is no heart, no heart is the Buddhism said empty, no heart! Now you can understand why the heartless people live long, confused people life is good, the more serious people for what life is more miserable. Who is serious and who is unlucky (this seriousness refers to obsession, not the seriousness of following the score of responsibility). In this world, originally life is a play, live is confused (not obsessive), live is not serious (obsessive). Why are many people especially serious - serious about the child, the child hurt you, the child is not good; serious about the work, the work hurt you, the work is not good; serious about love, the love hurt you all your life; you are obsessed with what what hurt you! ...... What we practice is not to be serious (not obsessive), fade! Temperance of the light word is precisely three points of water to pour two fires - inflammation of the inflammation, only Temperance can be anti-inflammatory. Our method is also the word "talk" - to get rid of the disease, we use the word "fire" plus the word "talk" to talk it out. Talking and lightening are our methods, and there is also a very important word called repentance, which is also our method. Repentance is a vertical heart on the left side of the word, and a thousand a per on the right side. In the past, the ancients said that if a person is enlightened for one day and repents for one day, he will be a saint for one day; if he is enlightened for ten days and repents for ten days, he will be a saint for ten days; if he is enlightened for one year and repents for one year, he will be a saint for one year; and if we are diligent in wiping away the dust in our life, we will be able to ascend to the light on the other shore. The other shore. It turns out that everywhere people are being instructed on how to get rid of diseases and change their destiny-it is the heart that makes the change! Modern people obviously live by the mind, but they don't cultivate the mind, thinking that muscle is health, which is a big mistake. Since people live is the mood, why not let their mood directly peaceful and happy? The mood can make its own decision. After these methods taught to you, we can find a one-to-one correspondence of the law, and then correspond to each law to start looking for their own problems, find a can make the disease relief one. Remember, "practice is the only criterion for testing the truth", and the Buddha nature is present in everyone, perfect in everyone, and it listens to you. What is Buddha? It's not a statue, it's big, it's small, it's everywhere, it's the truth, it's not big or small, it's not a phase, it's just that science is called the law of truth, and those who believe in Buddha are called Buddhists, and those who believe in the Way are called Taoists, and those who believe in the Lord are called the Lords, and they just use different terms. I call it the force of nature. Natural force has several distinctive features: First, it has the nature of thinking, which is the supreme wisdom. Secondly, it is truthful and is the designer of truth. Three, it is fair, keeping the whole world in fairness. Fourth, the forces of nature have tendencies. Whoever is enlightened, whoever is virtuous, whoever is natural, whoever is calm is inclined towards. In fact life is a drama, don't really go in, whoever goes in is unlucky. Looking back, 20 years ago, what is the use of fighting with others, 5 years ago, what is the use of being a class cadre? It is only when we look back that we realize that it is better to look back. Why don't we stand in the future and look back at today, how good it is to look back at ourselves today? Today we stand in the position of more than 80 years of age to reflect on life is not to understand it. Fifth, the force of nature has the nature of inviolability, and whoever violates it will be punished. Sixth, the force of nature has a friendly nature, especially to the good people, can make you good luck. Seventh, the balance of natural forces has a lag, and with time there is growth. Remember, the further back the balance of the disaster is greater, the further forward the balance of the disaster is smaller. The more you want to hide do not want to suffer can only hide more and more. Many people fortune-telling to solve the disaster, but do not realize that the more the life of the thinner, the more to avoid the disaster after the disaster, the greater the disaster. Eight, the forces of nature have a test of people. Remember, before the general disaster must have a disturbing or bad mood, often accompanied by a quarrel, and then the disaster occurred. That is to say, take a small thing to test you, to not pass the big disaster out; to pass, disaster can be avoided. If you do not reflect on yourself for a disaster, the disaster will not come. If in front of the disaster, self-reflection, disaster will be dissolved. Nine, the forces of nature are suggestive. Prompted when you should hurry to find their own faults, which is to remind you to stop fighting, or disease and frustration continue to punish you. Diseases and disasters are not separate, in the body manifested in the disease, in the fate of the manifestation of the disaster, frustration, so through this method can be both the treatment of disease, but also to change the fate. When encountering a natural force prompted by it one must reflect on it. A man asked me, "What does it mean that the gas pipe in my house is on fire?" I said, "Your family is going to have a temper tantrum, and your anger is coming out, so you need to control it." If you still don't understand what I'm telling you, and if you can't read and understand the world's scriptures, then you're a fool. Tenth, natural forces have a cruelty aspect. Natural forces do not have an old man phase, a young man phase, or a young child phase; whichever mind you are lets you be punished by whichever mind you are. The key is to understand the mind and find your own fundamental nature of mind. How can you see your nature if you don't understand what kind of mind you have? You must understand who I am and what mistakes I have made. No matter what the disease is, there is a cause and effect, and all causes come from the mind, which is the internal cause. Like medical treatment, which is an external treatment, this is an internal treatment, which treats the root cause and removes the root of the problem. If you can practice Buddhism with your mind, can you not cure diseases? Everything can be treated cleanly and thoroughly. The key is to find the right method. Character and destiny are one and the same. People think that it is good to love others with all their heart, but in the end, loving others causes trouble, and the more they love each other, the more bad luck they have. The saints really love people without heart - selfishness, narrow-mindedness, with compassion to get rid of this heart, so that all the heart is put down, heartless, this heart is not the heart is empty. Love and hate are not two sides of the same coin, which is called the middle way. In the past, we criticized the Middle Way, not knowing that the Middle Way is the Way of Heaven. Do you see that people in society are lucky if they speak in the middle? Do people who love to speak in extremes have a good life? Whoever is middle of the road wins the way. The same is true for resolving disasters in career and destiny. Why did people lie to me? Because I love to lie; why do people beat me and scold me? Because I have scolded others; why does my lover have a third party? Because I resent other people's bad style of life ...... what annoys what invites what, one by one corresponds. Why is your child disobedient? Because you were disobedient when you were a child, because you were annoyed with the disobedient children, and laughed at others: "Why is his child like that? If my family has this child,......," well, the natural force to recruit this kind of child to your family. This is called direct cause and effect. Programs - The human body is a computer First of all, remember that in modern science we call "the human body is a computer", and in Buddhist principles it is "everyone is complete, everyone is perfect". The first thing to remember is that in modern science we call it "the human body is a computer," but in Buddhist principles it is "everyone is complete, everyone is perfect. If you want to think that "I am the life of the work, and serve the old and serve the young", well, you are not so say well, the more said the more effective. You lose the program every day, lose it once is good to modify, lose it 10,000 times that your life is not a problem? Remember, natural forces listen to you. If you want to think that there is no rule of law, remember, there is really no rule of law! Why can't many cancer patients be cured? Because he accepts the program - it's over, there's no cure, I'm going to die! Man is the spirit of all things. Your heart is the most spiritual of all! If you don't know that people have such a great spirit, and you blindly whine about it, how can your life be good? It can't be good! Some people always say, "My life is bad, I've had bad luck in my life." Well, the more you say it, the better it is for you to fall down. In fact, everyone has a full-fledged Buddha nature, which only listens to us, and this is very spiritual. If you say, "Oh, this is definitely not going to work." The more you say, the more it won't work. Don't say that good intentions don't pay off, don't say that there are no good people around. Some women say, "All men are bad." Can you have a good man by your side? Because what you are asking for is that "there is nothing good in men," which is your wish and your judgment. You don't feed into the good, and you mistake worrying for good intentions. Remember, worrying is the same as cursing and swearing. We have to be careful about jumping to any conclusions, which is why the middle word for moderate is a seal on the word mouth, telling you not to talk nonsense and to seal your mouth first. We should lose the benign program, "I am surrounded by good people," "I am blessed when I suffer," "This person treating me badly is about to turn around," " The sicker I get, the more I catch a cold, the more I detoxify." ...... Whoever heard that the more you catch a cold, the shorter your life? That's not necessarily true. So we have to lose good program, I often lose benign program to myself: "lost money to come to fortune", "the more cold the more cold the more healthy", people say "the left eye jumping wealth, the right eye jumping disaster! "I am not this program, I am the "right eye jumping nobleman", are jumping good things. "Loss is blessing", "others beat you after you can be a man",...... always let the child to practice chest, we ourselves also practice this chest. The human body as a program has many applications, and the program respects its own will. Entering a good program must be calm, not to have hope and not to worry, because what you hope for does not come, and what you are afraid of comes. Remember, there is a principle of balance in the forces of nature, because the right side of the hope of hope is a split word. Our ancestors were great, and every word contains a deep philosophy. The more you hope for a child, the less you can count on it; the more you love a child, the weaker it is; and the weaker it is, the more it is guaranteed to be a child that is especially loved and hoped for. In the past, people knew that the less they cared about their children, the better they were, and the more they cared about their children, the worse they were, and that "to love a child is like killing a child". But now many people have learned the wrong thing: "Should I not love?" No. The mood should be peaceful, and one should not be born with obsessive love. If you love something, you will be hurt by it. You cannot be attached to love (meaning worldly love, not the vast and selfless love), and you cannot be moved to hate; love and hate are not two sides of the same coin; that is the middle way. Remember, peace is the greatest love! If you want to help your children to help their parents, you need to use a calm mind, not an attached mind. If you love, you are attached, and the word "attached" is a big word above and a prison below, and the other person is disturbed, and the better you treat him, the more disturbed the other person is as if he is sitting in a prison. Love is not a positive effect, many parents do not love their children, the inner child is more cold, but the child is particularly successful, there are many such cases. Remember, who you love, who is unlucky, love deep can kill him. You want to love your child he must fight with you, you love him can love him out of a slip of frustration, can give him love all the problems. He not only fights with you, but what awaits him is 30-50 years of frustration. Now some parents like to love, desperately love, "I have suffered so much in my life, I can not let my child suffer," first let him desperately enjoy the blessings, I do not know where to enjoy the blessings. If you want him to enjoy his blessings so much that you can consume all the blessings of his life in just a few years, what awaits him in the future is all the frustration. If you let your child have all he needs to eat and be satisfied, he will have a poor stomach in his life, and he will not be able to eat anything, which will hurt him for 30 to 50 years. If you go through the back door and let your child become a class president, a study committee member, and other class officers, the child will be exuberant again, and in the future, he will be able to consume the blessings of being a president. Let the child be a child, calm in the long run, "tranquility leads to the distant". The principle of getting sick - every mood in life is a dark box of the mind. Every mood in life is a dark box of the mind, which Buddhism calls "the eighth sense, Arya consciousness". Our science calls it the dark box of the mind. When we keep having moods, the garbage in our dark box gradually piles up, and when it piles up to a certain level - half of it - we get sick. When the pile is full, death awaits us. What if this dark box is low to a certain degree? That's the hyperfunctional state. What if this dark box is empty? We will be enlightened beings in this life, we will be able to become Buddhas, we will be able to cut off birth and death, and this is true longevity. Some people have too much fear, and as a result they can be afraid of mental illness; some people have too much anger and hate, and they incur horizontal disasters; don't you love to be angry? Well, first let your parents to compete with you, parents can't straighten you out, arrange for your lover to compete with you, also can't compete with you how to do? Arrange for children and even public prosecutors and law enforcement, always give you more down, can not let your anger in vain. You say I don't break the law, OK, arrange for a car to hit you; what if the car doesn't hit you? Arrange for you to get cancer or a very large disease. Remember, the force of nature is mighty, and it is not afraid of you being tough, but it is afraid of you being easy-going and humble. Those who are angry and hateful have a miserable life; those who are easy-going and humble have a good life and are blessed with the way of heaven. Hatred and anger are the first great calamity of mankind, and we must abstain from them completely. If we have one thought of anger and hatred, then there will be a person who is angry with you, and an angry incident will happen. If you have been suffering from anger all your life, for example, if you have a bad liver, you should repent more often and say, "I shouldn't be angry," which will relieve not only your liver, but your whole body. Our deep repentance can change our destiny. If you are less angry, you will encounter less anger in the future, and at the same time, others will be less angry with you, so the dirty qi in your body will be reduced, your body will be relieved, and your destiny will be changed. Self-knowledge is the ability to realize, who can find out more about their own faults, the stronger their ability to realize. The more you find faults in others, it means you have a strong capacity for ecstasy. A monk does not see the faults of others, he only sees his own faults. But now we are living a miserable life, finding faults with others every day, blaming others for everything, never blaming ourselves, and fighting with others every day, not realizing that those who fight well fight in vain. The more easy-going and humble people the more space for themselves, the better the fate, so Lao Zi said the saints "do not dare to be", what is called "do not dare to be", the general mood do not dare to be born, do not dare to be angry, do not dare to be afraid, do not dare to be embarrassed ... ... ... "The world is in a hurry, I am bored", the word "door" with the word "heart", that is, the door of the heart is closed, can not move the mood. Layman is also dare to, we waste of effort, waste of mood, thought the mood casually with, do not know the mood is the real energy of life, mood consumed waiting for us is death. So the human life is actually the life of the mood consumption. Mood has several characteristics: First, no quality. Secondly, the mood is beyond time and space. Third, the mood is beyond the speed of light. Fourth, moods are completely directional, arriving wherever they think. Fifth, moods are residual. All moods have residuals, and residuals to a certain extent will reach qualitative changes from quantitative changes. Sixth, mood is an eternal energy. Seventh, moods are real substances, the whole support of mankind. Eighth, moods can be cleared, lost moods can be regained, moods can be modified (this is the anti-reference), and moods can be transformed into matter. Some people's moods are transformed into cancer; some people's moods are transformed into disasters; moods can benefit all things and transform all things; moods can nourish us; moods are sick when the body is sick; the body is the monitor of the mind. Balance in Life What is fate all about? Is there a cycle of life and death? I believe there is, but all destinies follow the mind, destiny is born from the mind. What we are learning today is the counter-compassion - changing destiny and curing diseases at the same time, killing two birds with one stone. A person who cultivates his heart is a person who changes his destiny. Many senior leaders are people who cultivate the heart, who can endure. Counter-samadhi is clearing out the garbage, turning back time, and recovering lost energy. Calmness is the stillness of time, the absence of all things, and the absence of leakage of energy. The truth is often in the opposite of what the common people think. The common man is contentious, "the saints dare not be," easy-going and humble. The common man pursues beautiful things, delicious food, and love ...... not realizing that beautiful hurts. Tasty things eat too much, and then you can never eat again. "Tao can be Tao, very Tao; name can be name, very name." The surface is false, the mind is true. Truth speaks of the mind; one cannot centrifugally look for causes outside the body. It is only with an untainted mind that you can have an untainted body and make yourself the master of your destiny. The transcendence of Buddhism is effective when it allows you to give birth to a repentant heart in front of the Buddha, to thoroughly reflect on yourself, and to be a new person. (And nowadays, people mostly pay money to have their destiny handled by the Buddhists as if they were doing business, without seeking to reflect on it in the least.) What does it mean to change the program to change one's destiny? It means to change all the frustrations, blows, disobedience, unsatisfactory, disasters, diseases ...... into good deeds to understand, so that the change of fate is quite fast and can cure a lot of diseases. Think of the villain as Buddha, Bodhisattva, nobleman, parents, the past life resentment of others, grievances, missed an opportunity to take the test, this gathering of grievances, the natural force to re-examine you once, is to let you reflect, the more hate the greater the frustration. There is a person who works especially hard, was a so-called villain squeezed down, I said: "This villain to save your life you know?" "What do you mean?" "You work so positive and willing to do, every day to worry about responsible, if he does not stir you down, you will have a heart attack died at work. Only this kind of 'magic degree' - with the frustration of the blow to degree you, so that your obsession with the work of the heart down." It turns out that hurting you is also loving you. One man was able to understand this when he became a boss: "It turns out that that unit leader's fixing me up was prompting me to transfer out so that I could get rich and become a boss. It turns out that he is degree me, for me to bring benefits, is my benefactor and nobleman." Some people know after divorce, "My former husband treated me that way in order to make me less obsessed with love and start to know easily to care for myself. In this life, I was always caring for him, and the more I cared, the more I was saddened, and now the forces of nature are making me learn to care for myself to find balance." Isn't this love? Does love have to be good? Can't you use evil to bring you good? Losses at the time are a blessing for the future. People don't know that "loss is a blessing". Remember, to suffer is to be blessed. Whoever is calm in the face of losses is like Deng Xiaoping - Deng Xiaoping had three ups and three downs, and he could play bridge. Liu Shaoqi was fought to the point of tears, and as a result one became a leader and the other was fought to death. It depends on whether you are calm in the face of setbacks, the calmer the disaster the smaller. If you complain in front of setbacks, setbacks can only get bigger and bigger. Frustration is spiritual, it is the most afraid of calm, the most like to fight, the more fight frustration is rolling upward. If you are afraid of frustration, it will be even more crazy. People who can cultivate their minds face disaster - great, another good thing. To let someone curse is to solve a future disaster. The average person - why am I so unlucky? You will definitely be blessed by suffering, but it will only lag behind you. （In Buddhism, "to suffer is to relieve suffering, and to enjoy good fortune is to eliminate good fortune".) In the past, monks did not ask for money, and when they were scolded by others, they accepted it gladly; when they were offered respect, they treated it calmly, and their hearts were as unmoving as if they had not moved. Nowadays, people try to avoid calamities by avoiding nasty things, which is not a heart that follows karma. We change our program in this way in order to reverse disasters and return to ourselves the blessings we lost in the past. If you don't believe me, you can try it. Disasters can balance both the past and the future, and the program for the future can be changed. When you will ask someone to do something, how do you recite before you meet them? "He is a noble man, a good man, a Goddess of Mercy ......," and then his goodness really comes out. If you really emit your goodness, the other person will return it. However, it's the opposite for normal people. They think in advance, "This person will surely trap me, harm me, go against me, and harm me ......", and they will be in trouble! Balancing the past is to summarize the past, but some people's disaster is not to balance the past, but to balance the future, test your heart, test your ability to realize and capacity to bear. How much you bear, how much blessing is given to you. Before giving you the blessing there must be the incarnation of disaster, disaster is the incarnation of blessing and merit, the front side is disaster, the reverse is blessing, is born from the same root, is a complete pair of children. Some people grumble, and the more they grumble the more disasters there are, and every time they come it is this side of disaster. But blessing is also the incarnation of disaster. Some people enjoy too much blessing as a child, always eat good, resulting in the future can no longer eat; as a child when the official, grew up laid off; some people move to a new house exuberant, go in and get very sick, and some old people never get up again ...... wind and water turn. Some children are a few years old to wish a big birthday! I once asked an old man, "Is 80 years old worth celebrating?" I don't advocate celebrating a birthday, sometimes a big birthday can consume 8 to 10 years of life. Someone asked, "Then how can I not celebrate my birthday when people give it to me?" You have to be calm, anyone can be happy, you should not be happy. (The ancients called the birthday of the mother of the day, this day to think of the mother's not easy, where there is the heart of the celebration? 60 years old before the ineligibility to celebrate birthdays). Remember, live in peace and think of danger, often enjoying the blessings of the time buried a major disaster. When things are generally going well, you tend to be complacent and flounder, not realizing that behind the happiness lies sadness. Joy and sadness are originally from the same root, sadness comes to see the joy side, joy and not happy, sadness and not sadness, love and not love ...... practicing the middle way, because the middle way - the shortest distance in a straight line. Some people are really good people do all, just because of the love of anger, frustration tired, do not understand to do so much good why life is not good. I said, "Your heart is not good, so your life is not good! It is the heart that determines everything, not things that determine everything. If you have a heart to do good, you will not be rewarded for doing good; if you have no heart to do evil, you will not be punished for doing evil." Some people like to praise themselves for doing good deeds, and after praising them the reward is realized at the moment. Some people do good deeds and regret them, and as a result they have no merit. Some people can't stand the good, life is not good; some people can't stand the bad, life is not good, suffer the good suffer the bad all have to suffer. What the forces of nature arrange is always good - what happens is the best, and what is not the best does not happen! To truly be a person who goes with the flow of nature, often input benign programs for yourself, do not input evil programs, but do not input desire programs for the future. Some people program "I want to be a millionaire" every day, how can that work? You must have a calm mind, good wishes, and a fair mind. Some people ask, "Is it all right for me to say every day that my child is cured?" No, you have to say, "I hope that after I get well, I can contribute more to the country and save the country money on medical bills." It is easy to get well this way. "I want to learn this knowledge well so that I can serve society in the future." Then this knowledge will come to you. Be sure to be public-spirited. There are so many disasters in life. Would you rather suffer them early or late? I choose to suffer early, because it is good to suffer a little bit more while I am young and physically fit. It is much better to suffer a little disaster when you are young than to suffer it when you are old, so why not? What comes early is not a disaster, but what comes late is a disaster; what comes early is not a blessing, but what comes late is a blessing, and it is a true blessing - a late bloomer. If you are developed when you are young, it only means that you had great fortune in your past life; it is only when you are blessed in old age that you can show that you have cultivated your mind to a high degree. But never be happy when blessings come. When you have a disaster, you must do the following mental First, you must have a joyful heart and a thankful heart. Second, find cause and effect, find balance. Keep a calm mind and wait and see what happens. Fourth, let nature take its course, "Woe is where the blessing lies, and blessing is where the disaster lies". Who is capable of subduing disasters, who is blessed. The sky is dark to the extreme to the dawn, people to the extreme of the disaster will be lucky. Why is it that the more one's life is calculated, the worse it becomes? It is because the ordinary man is happy when he calculates that his future will be good, and when he is happy, he will lose his blessing; and when he calculates that he will have a disaster, he will be anxious, and the disaster will increase. Those who are engaged in killing and slaughtering have heavy karma, and after death, they are often dissected and have bruises in their hearts, which ordinary people do not have. Fortune-telling is a way to break the heavenly secrets, and the karma is relatively large, and the general fate is not good (except for those who use fortune-telling as a means to persuade people to stop the evil and repair the good). Therefore, the Buddha is against fortune-telling, and it is better to be at peace with oneself. The more chaotic things are, the more calm you have to be. The only true calm is to practice calmness in the midst of movement. If you can be calm when someone hits you or scolds you, or if you can meditate when someone is playing a loud tape recorder, that is true tranquility. You must also be calm in the face of life and death. True monks do not have tears in the face of life and death. Lao Tzu said, "Born into death," that people enter the path of death when they are born, and that they come in through this door, and soon they will have to go out through that door. Older people have the experience that life is so short, and decades pass by in a flash. Why is it that a child who was shameless as a child grows up to be a good person? Teachers don't understand why - he has a big heart! Teachers do not feel criticized, the heart is calm, broad-minded can not be successful? Some students let the teacher say a few words, and when they blush, tears come down, this child's heart is small. Why are there more men as leaders in society? Because men's chest is indeed on average a little bigger than women's, women's vanity, love to play hypocrisy, live more tired. To take people not as people, then when what? First, treat people as Buddha. Second, take people as their own mirror, others have what shortcomings to reflect on their own. At the same time, I see everyone as my incarnation, "All beings are like me". There was a student who was a good learner, but when someone else didn't keep his word and didn't do what he had promised him, he immediately reflected: "So I always finish my words and don't do them either." Third, treat everyone as an arrangement of natural forces, and never treat people as demons. If you treat the most intolerable people as good people, then your Buddha nature will come out, and the Buddha is to treat the devil as the Buddha to repair. I have also been enlightened and guided by people. I asked an old gentleman, "What is a blessed person?" The old gentleman said, "What is happiness? Happiness is a piece of clothing and a mouthful of rice, which tells you that you have enough to eat and wear, and that you should be contented with what you have. Happiness is a feeling not material, some people through the purchase of clothes, exams, marriage, have children, want a house, buy a car ...... in exchange for happiness, that happiness in exchange for a particularly short-lived, and that short-lived happiness into exuberance, and then in exchange for sadness, why bitter ah? And I directly embrace happiness, smile all the time, have this peaceful heart, so I am an eternally happy person. Why should I need material things to attain my happy mind?" Some people are not happy with whatever they have, millionaires have committed suicide, why? They are not happy inside. The heart is the root. Nothing on the outside means anything, but the heart is the root of all things. Only you know if your shoes fit. Some old people break up their children's objects according to their own will to find, the result of finding their own and do not live with it, it is the child with its own, the child is difficult to you do not know ah! To understand others, turnip greens, each to his own. In addition to the karma of the mind, there is also karma of the mouth, you can not talk nonsense. In the past, it was said that "when the water is deep, the flow is slow, and when a person is noble, his speech is slow". Generally, noble people speak slowly and don't make statements easily. --This is balance. We must have great love for everything, like Guanyin Bodhisattva loves all living beings. Some people who are especially fond of dropping things will not have a good life, because everything has a spiritual nature, and dropping things is a way of going against the grain of heaven, and the forces of nature will give you credit for it. The beginner's class tells you to only seek to do good and not to seek to gain, that is to abstain from your greed; to the intermediate class, cause and effect, good and bad are cause and effect, to be open to accepting, not accepting to go against the heaven; to the advanced class, empty ah, what other people's your, there is no difference, as long as there is no obstacle on the line. If the practice of mindfulness can not even change the disease and fate, then it is really a failure. A truly wise person looks a bit silly on the surface, but he is as wise as a fool, he is happy to scold him, and he thanks others for not being angry when he hits them, and this kind of person is extraordinary! The performance of a truly wise person is the opposite of that of a normal person: "If he is obedient, he is mortal; if he is disobedient, he is immortal. Some people believe in Buddhism to the point of suffering, remember, the greater the goal, the greater the disaster. We should not be too greedy in everything we do, and we should practise what we preach. Some people make great vows, and immediately after making them setbacks follow to test you. Be responsible for the vows you make, or the forces of nature will punish you and bring you demons. To pull up a big tree, you must have considerable strength and overcome considerable resistance to achieve your goal; if you only pull up a small blade of grass, the resistance overcome will be small. In fact when we set up a very big goal, we are carrying a heavy burden of thought, so