At what point did you feel so naive and ignorant and shallow?

As a child, I imagined that I could grow up to be like Superman and solve many problems. Only when I grew up did I realize that I still faced many problems that Superman couldn't solve. I want to feel myself in front of many things seem to be the norm in life, such as wanting to live in a bigger house, want to give the family a better life, want to let the children enjoy better treatment, want to let the parents to be able to be in front of all the people in front of the scenery, a lot of wishes are difficult to realize, or wait until the realization of you find everything is too late. In fact, think about it from another perspective, at what point do you feel great, I'm really great, I've got a great daughter-in-law, I have such well-behaved children, I've made a beautiful meal for my parents, I've made a new breakthrough in my work, I feel really great about myself. Sometimes it's a toss up between feeling great and feeling like you're not, like you're choosing to be happy or sad, and sometimes things can be viewed from different perspectives to reap different rewards.