Maybe parents have been worried about their children since they got pregnant in October. I am afraid that my child will be cold and hot, holding an hungry stomach, stumbling, being cautious and trembling; From prenatal education to various cram schools and interest classes, children should not be allowed to lose at the starting line. When I was a child, I was worried that my child was sick and injured; Go to school with peace of mind, good grades, versatility, beware of puppy love; Worried about what to do and where to work after graduation; After work and worry, I am old enough. Why not find someone to marry? I'm worried about getting married. I have been married for several years, and I should have a child. Then worry about the next child and enter another cycle. ...
But, I want to say, mom and dad, don't worry about it anymore. You should have your own life, don't focus all on children. Each of us lives for ourselves and can only live for ourselves. Your life should have a bigger mission, not just to carry on the family line.
Mom and dad, don't worry. Children also have their own ideas and the life they want. Are you really planning the life we want? What you insist on must be correct? What you are worried about must be a meaningless waste of life? Life is so long, is it really meaningless for us to walk around? On that rugged road, we may see more beautiful scenery, we may recognize ourselves and see life clearly, and the road we may take leads to an unexpected bright road at a certain intersection.
Besides, even if you fuck your heart to death, what's the use? It hurts your body, but it annoys your children.
For you, life seems to have a standard answer: study hard at school, get high marks, and beat other people's children; In this job, the son inherits his father's business or does a stable job, while the child likes unprofitable, non-mainstream and unstable jobs just doing nothing; When it's time to get married, just find a similar person and spend the rest of your life with everyone. There is nothing to cultivate after marriage. However, it is unfilial not to get married at an age; When it was time to have children, Dink was even more unfilial when he was born immediately.
Do you know how many children are tired of studying or are too busy studying because of your worry? Because of your worry, you ruined your child's future and did a job you didn't like in a small city. Because of your worry, those so-called leftover men and women have chosen to make do, and they can't wait to spend their lives with people they like. Because of your worry, those couples who are not ready are upgraded to parents. Anyway, it is good to give the children to the elderly, but they neglect their responsibilities.
So, mom and dad, for us and for yourselves, don't worry about us anymore. We will cherish your love, but we have to make our own decisions in life.