2, life is endless, and at the end of it, we have to leave this world again. Analysis of the spiritual fluctuations in these two days is mostly because: I have never loved you so much, but at this deepest moment of love, I just came to leave!
I obey your father's temper because I know him too well. His always grumpy nature and hatred are deeply rooted. As an adult, I fought alone, loved the truth, was honest and meticulous, and was loyal to my career. I loved him and I forgave him. For the happiness of the family, for the happiness of the children, for the achievement of their tireless career, give up the ego and take care of the overall situation.
4, more contact with nature, can make people quiet and open-minded, and maintain mental and psychological health. Only by not pretending to be the spirit of all things can we get rid of arrogance. Don't be pessimistic about the status quo, try your best to leave some achievements in the world.
A real artist, a veritable artist, spends most of his emotional life in retrospect and imagination. Only when it can sublimate emotional life can it leave many excellent works for mankind.
6. People who are fickle in nature are also fickle in action, which is the most embarrassing and impossible. Just like a person who is not naughty gets hurt in the end when playing naughty, it is a truth.
7. I don't know how many times I've told you to go for a walk in the forest and museum in the past two years, but you still can't accept it. Children, I am worried about your physical and mental health and balance; Everything should be prepared for a rainy day, and don't regret it afterwards.
8. Feelings and emotions are produced by external stimuli. After rational sorting and induction, it can be deeply classified into one's own heart and become a part of one's personality.
9. The most important thing in learning is to pass the exam. Passing the exam cannot be rigid, pedantic, sour or stereotyped. General ability can cultivate integrity, mind and vision. General knowledge can become great. If it is not too big or too wide, there is a danger of sitting on a well and watching the sky.
10, upholding the truth is an arduous struggle and an educational work; Need good methods, ways, means and patience. Never moving, misleading. These achievements are not easy, and I am still far away. But you can study hard before it's too late!
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12, how much labor, how much hard work, how much loyalty and enthusiasm, how much gain and progress. A person can only be satisfied with his own achievements if he stagnates. Change is progress. Be dissatisfied with yourself and criticize yourself.
13, you must control your feelings when practicing the piano. Since we know that the responsibility is great, we should try our best to cherish our own spirit. For example, a player who participates in the World Games must protect his physical and mental health very well a few months before the competition, so that he can have plenty of energy to compete. As the saying goes, it makes sense to raise troops for a thousand days.
14, there is a basic principle, which I have always thought is correct, that is, to be a man first, then an artist, then a musician, and finally a pianist. Perhaps this principle can also be applied to young people in other disciplines.
15. Don't let what you feel newly float on the surface of feeling: instead, carefully analyze and study what you feel newly. Comparison is different from my original thoughts, emotions and expressions. This requires a calm and powerful intelligence to analyze clearly.
16, emotional problems, we must grasp ourselves, be firm, look at the overall situation from a distance, take care of the overall situation, don't simply express temporary feelings, be extremely calm, and take care of the happiness of several people. Short-sighted softness often causes long-term unnecessary pain!
17, slowly, you will develop another kind of mood to treat the past: that is, you can think without being thrilling, you can analyze the cause and effect from an objective standpoint, you can learn lessons in your later life and avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only when one dares to face up to reality, mistakes, rational analysis and thorough understanding can one not be eroded by memories. I believe you will learn this slowly and become stronger and stronger.
18, I hope you will devote all your energy to the study of knowledge, be more rational and less emotional. It is not easy to control all the troubles by relying on your strong confidence, but you must overcome it.
19, Mozart's works are contrary to his life. His life is nothing but pain, but almost all his works just make people feel happy. His works are small shadows of his soul. In this way, all other harmonies are summed up in this harmony and melted into this harmony.
20. Everyone has shortcomings, both men and women in love. The problem is not to find an object without shortcomings, but to find a partner who can recognize and admit his shortcomings, is willing to change gradually, and can tolerate each other at the same time.
2 1, one night, she advised you to practice tomorrow, and you replied, will I still get grades like you? Naturally, it is impossible to use counter-criticism to deal with the goodwill of others.
22. Always blindfolding yourself, not facing up to the reality, not facing up to your roots, procrastinating and not taking precautions will only do more harm to yourself mentally. It's time to take the courage to solve it completely.
23. The other person regards you as her whole world, which is very dangerous, but also very valuable! Now that you have found out, wake her up slowly. You'd better insinuate rather than point it out directly, so that she can feel that this is to safeguard her personality independence and expand her world outlook.
24, such as yourself, you didn't know the characteristics of Mozart in the past, but you didn't really sing it to him; Without deep feelings, natural love doesn't matter; Love is not cut, of course, it is not enough to pop up; And the more tasteless it is, the less interesting it is. If this cycle goes on, of course you can't go deep into a writer.
25. Congcong is not practical in life. On the one hand, it is my shortcoming. On the other hand, because of his mother's personality, he is too easy-going, and it is difficult to develop the habit of self-discipline and the courage to challenge the world.
26. Don't be too hard on your life partner, just like everything in life. I think the most important thing is good nature, gentle temperament and open mind.
27. We should be a good person, but we should think about the definition of a good person from a more positive and broader world and cultivate ourselves to make contributions to society and mankind. Religion teaches humility and patience. Don't be conceited and arrogant.
28. Slowly, you will develop another kind of mood to treat the past. It is to be able to think without soul-stirring, to analyze the cause and effect calmly and objectively, and to make predictions about the future, so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
29. An artist will never get tired of his art until he keeps an open mind and feels fresh. He will never get tired of his art and even feel like a hard worker like some people.
30. When encountering major problems in life, I rarely find a few knowledgeable and experienced friends to discuss; On the contrary, my friends seldom come to me to discuss something important.
3 1, a person interferes with others, not necessarily because of his bad nature, but often because his mind is unclear and he doesn't know the importance. So when you don't know these aspects of a person clearly, don't confide at will. One is too careless about the person you are talking to, and the other is too careless about the other person involved in this matter.
32. Repeated love that has no beginning and no end, no result and no result can only make people become don Juan, frivolous, paralyzed-at least-by love and become cynical invisibly.
Don't be afraid to brag about your parents. At the same time, you should also analyze your own weaknesses and tell others what they don't say but feel. It is the greatest comfort for parents to tell others' praises to their parents, but at the same time, we should also deeply review our own shortcomings.
I'm afraid I learned as much from you as you learned from me, son. Especially in the last three years, you have given me a profound life experience. I learned patience and sublimation from the process of getting along with you!
Only when artists of different races can inject some new blood into the world without damaging the integrity of a special art can the culture of the world become richer, more complete and more brilliant.
36. What I spent with your painful childhood was the prime of my life when I didn't know the art of fatherhood. Fortunately, you have a blessing, and no matter how hard you hit it, it can't be extinguished, thus reducing some of my sins.
37. As long as it is the truth, it is a real lesson. Whether it comes from parents or friends or from familiarity with a person, you have to accept it. Don't turn a deaf ear just because you are tired of listening.
38. I think the most important thing is kindness in nature, gentleness in nature and an open mind. With these three things, everything else can be cultivated slowly. With these three things, even if you encounter big and small storms in the future, it will not become a tragedy.
39. Don't let what you feel newly float on the surface of feeling; Carefully analyze how the new feelings differ from your original thoughts, emotions and expressions. This requires calm and strong intelligence to analyze clearly.
40. Sincerity is the first key to art, knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing. Sincere incomprehension is better than insincere understanding. Nothing is more disgusting than self-righteousness and self-deception.
4 1, we didn't feel any trouble or anxiety about your previous letter. In my eighth letter, I also predicted to you that this kind of mental depression will still exist in the future. I've been there before, so I won't make a fuss. You don't have to worry, let alone put it in your stomach without telling us. The anguish in my heart is not vented in my letters from home. Where can I vent it? Children don't complain to their parents. Who do they complain to? If we don't comfort you, who will?
At any time in my life, when I was in the most passionate love, I never forgot my loyalty to learning. Learning first, art first, truth first, love second, this is the principle that I have not changed so far.
43. Needless to say, the outlook on life and world outlook is compatible with elegance and vulgarity. Try to give fewer gifts during making friends. Love is rarely related to material things, on the other hand, it is also a test for each other.
44. Only those who keep close contact with forests, streams, flowers and trees, birds and animals, insects and fish and masterpieces in art galleries will always maintain childlike innocence, purity and beautiful ideals. What's the use of training a person and volunteering? Mainly from the action! No matter how excellent the seeds are, if there is no suitable environment, water, soil and nutrients, it is difficult to blossom and bear fruit, and may even deteriorate or die halfway.
45. The kungfu of self-evaluation is like a mirror, which is of great help to yourself. Writing down your thoughts is very different from just dreaming in your head. Writing it down requires correct and accurate thinking. Therefore, the self-examination written on paper is particularly profound and impressive to myself.
46. If you regard these things as ashes of the soul, you will certainly feel a lot when you look at them, but don't hurt yourself deeply, but cherish your heart as if you were facing an ancient battlefield.
47. It is hypocritical to defeat the enemy without fighting, frivolous without being tempered by disasters, and cowardly to escape from reality; The doctrine of the mean, get along, Xiao Zhi Xiaohui is our achilles heel.
48. I don't strive for profit, but I don't want to be exploited. I can't help arguing under such circumstances. This is the difference between me and you, but as you know, I am still fighting for a reason, not for money, but for liberation, not for profit.
49. A moderate amount of concerts can stimulate your art and improve your level; Too many concerts can only paralyze your feelings and make your performances lack vitality and freshness, thus damaging your art.
50. Thinking from a distance, thinking from the big picture, thinking more about people and thinking less about yourself are naturally easy to satisfy. A person may not get a reward for paying the price, but the reward for not paying the price will never be there, even if it is temporary, and it is unreliable. Compare more people who are more bitter than yourself, and you will soon wake up, feel cheerful and happy, and get better grades at work.
5 1, salute or make a curtain call, and the facial expression should be gentle, not too serious as in the past. This has a lot to do with the mood of the masses, so we should pay attention to it in time. As long as you don't worry, calm down and your expression will naturally be gentle.
52. Thinking more about the problems of life and the universe and looking down on individuals will naturally reduce the worry of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. In this way, the body and mind will be Shu Tai instead, and the work will be smooth instead.
I know your personality, and I can imagine your environment. You have always been very compassionate, even if you don't take the initiative, you will inevitably be proud of your vanity. This is human nature, especially for artists. Therefore, you need to be more vigilant when looking for a permanent partner, and you need to think more rationally, otherwise you will be cheated by your feelings! As soon as you get married, your lover's eyes change, and you won't believe it yourself. If you don't think of this in advance, your heart will bring endless pain.
Progress. Dad said that he used to look at people's good places, especially for powerful old friends. He didn't know that people were not that simple until he was 50. Old friends will betray their friends for their own interests, and they can make suggestions at will, even make rumors, or even bite back.
55. Loneliness will create a world and many spiritual friends! Always keep a childlike heart, never fall behind when you are old, and always embrace the childlike heart of the whole world!
Doing housework, being disciplined, orderly and diligent are the basics of being a man. Take the law, get it, and constantly improve yourself, not only knowledge, but also cultivation and morality.
57. When it comes to the content of music, I also have another feeling. Students must first have conditions: it is futile for a person who has no heart to be instructed by a famous teacher.
You should be glad that you have the courage to fight against yourself. One somersault after another, as long as you get up, you will gradually climb to the top and surpass yourself.
I know you are busy, but you also know that I am busy, at least as busy as you. I have been in poor health for nearly seven or eight months, and it has been two and a half months since I fell. My leg strength hasn't recovered yet, and my back is sore. But I still work hard, writing letters, translating Mozart for you and so on, all by rest time and low back pain. Son, why do you always make people worry? Estimate the time when your letter should arrive. If it takes less than a day, we won't be mentally stable for a day.
60. But if artists are the most beautiful flowers, life is flowers and trees. The material side of life is not necessarily less important and delicious than the spiritual side, especially for an artist.
6 1, live a decent and frugal life; Be careful and not stingy; Generous but not credulous; Enjoy life, but don't be extravagant enough to satisfy a temporary desire, even if it is indispensable at that time.
62. When encountering major problems in life, I seldom ask a few experts and experienced friends for advice; On the contrary, my friends seldom come to me to discuss something important.
You can't be too busy on weekdays. People drag you out and you have to make up your homework, which is harmful to your energy. Let's stop talking about the number of times on the grounds of practicing the piano. If you are not nervous, don't be too busy; I prefer to be free and think quietly. I'm sorry, it's a habit not to go out with people during office hours, and it won't offend people. Life energy is limited.
64. People's psychology is that gifts that are rarely received are valued; Often get, not only do not pay attention to, but think it is the right to enjoy, not only ungrateful, but easy to produce resentment.
65. The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is to set an example; Never ask others what you can't do; If you want to make mistakes, criticize yourself.
66. A person often doesn't cherish what he has, and regrets it when he loses it! This is human nature, but we can't forgive our stupidity, because it is human nature and we don't try to correct it.