1, pay attention to children's mental health
In the past, the post-80 s and post-70 s parenting paid more attention to satisfying children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and providing them with a good material condition. However, the post-90s generation pays more attention to children's mental health, children's hearts and the process of children's growth. Do you feel happy? Do you feel scared, have psychological obstacles or panic? Parents born in the 1990s are generally more concerned about their children's mental health, and will pay attention to the psychological abnormalities that appear during their children's growth.
2. Pay attention to children's self-esteem.
The post-80s and post-70s, as the manifestations of traditional parenting styles in China, sometimes hurt children's self-esteem and disrespect their children in order to make them bow their heads. The post-90s generation pays more attention to children's self-esteem, and emphasizes that children should become people with dignity, self-esteem and self-esteem. Therefore, in the process of parenting, the post-90 s are more about encouraging and praising children and less about attacking. This is actually due to the progress of education. Compared with post-80s and post-70s, post-90s have better material conditions and better economic conditions to pursue education, so they have also made some progress in parenting.
3, will not be used by children
After 70' s and 80' s, when you see what your children want to eat, you buy them something. After 90, they pay more attention to themselves and let their children buy whatever they want. They are not used to children, but to themselves. After 90, in the process of cultivating children, they seldom spoil their children. Seldom dote on children's misconduct, so that children are willful. Their parenting style is more capricious, but the children they bring out are indeed more capricious.
What changes will parenting bring to children born after 90?
1, improve children's mental health. In the past, violent education and education methods that hurt children's self-esteem were widely used. In fact, many children's mental health has been damaged. They actually don't realize their abilities and their hearts, and they are not confident enough. Post-90s generation pays more attention to improving children's mental health and inner health, which will greatly improve children's mental health quality. In the past, the depression rate of teenagers was high, and it will also decrease after the change of parents' parenting style.
2. The child has a good personality.
If you are not used to children and don't let them be arrogant, their character will be better. Under the special education mode of the post-90s generation, your child's personality will develop freely, and you will take care of others and pay more attention to others instead of yourself. After 70 s and 80 s, some parents will spoil their children and make them pay more attention to themselves and don't care about other people's feelings, but after 90 s, it is completely different.
3. Children have better physical fitness.
After 70 s and 80 s, although they pay great attention to their children's diet, they still hope that children will eat more, eat more fish and eat more meat. After 90, the concept of health will actually improve. When raising children, we will pay more attention to improving children's physical fitness and paying attention to the combination of nutrition and health, rather than blindly letting children eat more. The idea that raising a child who can eat is a blessing has changed.
4. Children are more creative.
After 70 s and 80 s, children's grades and scores are more important, and after 90 s, children's comprehensive ability and personal interests are more important. Under the education of post-70s and post-80s, the competition for scores has been fierce. After 90, children can be given a little breathing space to pursue self and creativity. The post-90 s parenting style is amazing. What will happen when you become a parent after 00? This is very exciting. Society is always making progress, getting better every generation, and the future is bright. With the progress of parents, the quality of children will be higher from generation to generation.