1. Stop playing the role of omniscient parents in front of children, play the fool appropriately, stop paying attention to authority, and cultivate children's authority and dignity in communication, otherwise why should children buy your account? Many children find fault with their parents during the rebellious period. At this time, they should learn to give in, put their children in the position they want, and parents should learn to show weakness first.
2. Show appreciation and interest in things that children are interested in. Don't judge children's tastes by their own values. Even if children like things you don't like, you can't show disdain. You know, children are very sensitive to their parents' value judgments. If parents object to what they like, they will feel anxious and contradictory, and they will easily quarrel with their parents. Smart parents should not fight with their children.
No matter whether the child's request is reasonable or even absurd, don't refute and attack him immediately, don't flatly refuse, discuss the plan with him and weigh the advantages and disadvantages. As long as you refuse the child rudely, the child will stick to it.
For adolescent children, we must treat them with respect for adults. Without respect, there is no communication. Communication is not talking with the mouth. The most important thing is the peace of attitude and the support of behavior, so that children can feel accepted by their parents and feel safe at home during the period of adolescent agitation, thus winning their hearts.