First, personality will become more sensitive. Parents ignore the direct impact of children's mental health, which will make children more vulnerable. Because children are still young, they are weak in all aspects. At this time, parents have to stay with him like an umbrella, filtering out all kinds of negative energy and things that are easy to stimulate fragile nerves. Only by creating a harmonious and beautiful living environment can children grow up healthily and happily. If adults ignore all this, then children will come into contact with things they can't bear too early, which will naturally lead to serious insecurity over time, and then their personality will become more sensitive and introverted.
Second, the way of thinking will become more extreme. In addition to introversion, being depressed for a long time will also make a person's thinking more and more extreme, which is especially obvious in many children abandoned by their parents. In reality, many orphans are particularly lonely because they have never felt affection since childhood, and the long-term insecure living environment makes him extremely distorted. This is reflected in the way of thinking that it is easy to go to extremes. They don't trust others and refuse to show goodwill. This is not only to revenge the trauma of that year, but also to protect myself now.
Third, things will become hesitant. Parents don't pay attention to their children's psychological changes, making them vulnerable and taking detours. For example, long-term criticism makes children feel inferior, and bullying by classmates makes children more and more afraid of interacting with others. These negative energies from the outside hurt their fragile hearts, which will eventually further affect the principle of doing things for the whole person. For example, they will certainly be extra cautious when fighting for others, and then they will hesitate when facing many decisions in life.