Mother Yang Xiaoyan, with her son and daughter, jumped from the 24th floor of her house and died. Yang Xiaoyan is wearing pajamas, her daughter is lying on the manhole cover, and her son is still wearing diapers. Just a month ago, Yang Xiaoyan and her husband just filed for divorce, but after mediation by the Civil Affairs Bureau, they were asked to go through the divorce formalities after the cooling-off period. But before the cooling-off period, Yang Xiaoyan committed suicide by jumping off a building with her two children.
Yang Xiaoyan was born in the countryside with three children. She is an elder sister and more sensible than her younger brothers and sisters. When she was young, she always helped her parents take care of the family. Compared with her peers, she is precocious. Her parents support their three brothers and sisters by doing odd jobs. When I was in junior high school, Yang Xiaoyan went out to work. At first, he went to Hangzhou to work, but her parents felt that she was too far away from home and didn't trust him.
On 20 16, Yang Xiaoyan met her husband Du Hai through the introduction of others. Du Hai's home is not far from Yang Xiaoyan's home, which is more than 20 kilometers. Du Hai's father is a construction worker and his mother is a nanny in Shanghai. 20 13 His father bought him a small set.
At first, Yang Xiaoyan's parents didn't approve of their marriage. They feel that Du Hai's family conditions are not very good, and they are afraid that their daughter will suffer in the past. But Yang Xiaoyan thinks Du Hai is very kind to her, and she likes him. After the marriage, their daughter Kiki was born, but not long after her birth, Kiki was diagnosed with severe ear disease and could not hear in both ears. Perhaps because of illness, Kiki was difficult to coax since she was a child, especially when she slept at night. How to coax her? Sometimes I cry until four or five in the morning. I was tired of crying and fell asleep in my mother's arms. Yang Xiaoyan has repeatedly begged her parents-in-law to help them take care of the children, but her father-in-law refused, saying that she took care of the children at home alone. Isn't that normal?
When Kiki was two years old, Yang Xiaoyan was found pregnant again. At first, they were not prepared to have this child, fearing that they would have a congenital disease like Kiki's, but after going to Nanjing for a pregnancy test, the child was very healthy. They decided to give birth to the child, so they had a son Haohao. However, Hao Hao was not particularly healthy after birth. He was born with weak lungs and trachea. I was hospitalized for more than a month and spent more than 10 thousand. After leaving the hospital, he caught a cold and spent more than 10 thousand yuan in hospital. Yang Xiaoyan borrowed all the money from his mother.
Both children are very serious. Yang Xiaoyan seems to haunt him every day. Many times, Yang Xiaoyan felt that he was about to collapse. Because my daughter needs to recover from ear treatment, she has been in rehabilitation school and needs to send him to school every day. But there is no one at home to accompany her with the children. She often says that no one can understand what it's like to push a small one in a stroller and hold a big one in your arms. Two children will cry at any time.
Life in Yang Xiaoyan is very frugal. She is reluctant to buy the steaming parent-child ticket of 19 yuan, but she is generous to her children. Her daughter's skirt costs more than 400 yuan, and she is willing to spend it. But she often uses credit cards and flowers. Many people think that she is so thrifty because her family is very poor, thinking that only her husband is making money and there is not much money to spend. Yang Xiaoyan often borrows 10 yuan from his good friend Liu Lei, and 100 yuan has 20 yuan, but all the money borrowed is to buy things for children. The most time, she borrowed 500 yuan because she had to pay back when she hit someone with an electric car. Others asked for 500 yuan, but her husband refused, so she had to borrow it from a friend. In order to treat the children and buy things, Yang Xiaoyan looked for her family intermittently. She borrowed almost 50 thousand, but her husband never said she had no money. However, Yang Xiaoyan found that Du Hai had 70,000 yuan in his hand, and he refused to say where it came from. He also refused to pay back her parents' money, so they had a quarrel.
After the operation, Yang Xiaoyan's mother-in-law often came to their home, and then she lived directly here to help them look after their children. Thanks to her parents-in-law's help, Yang Xiaoyan found a job in the supermarket, with more than 2,000 yuan a month to supplement her family. Before committing suicide, he planned to stop doing it for the time being and go out as a nanny to earn more.
It's not a fad that Yang Xiaoyan wants a divorce. He has been suppressed in this family for a long time, and his mood has never been relaxed, and no one understands him, especially his parents-in-law, who didn't when she took care of the children at home. When he goes out to work, his mother-in-law in the Forbidden City will say that he doesn't love home, especially when she goes to the rehabilitation center to take care of her daughter. In front of many people, she said that Yang Xiaoyan could not live behind her back, regardless of her family. Yang Xiaoyan felt stabbed in the heart, because her father-in-law called her daughter Kiki a "fool", and she felt that the child was too wronged.
Husband Dewey is like an ornament at home. Yang Xiaoyan quarreled with her parents-in-law at home, which was very grievance. When she told Dovisu, she sometimes pretended not to hear or simply asked, when did she say it? In the face of his father-in-law's criticism of Yang Xiaoyan, Dewey coldly said to Wang Xiaoyan, He is my old man, and you can only take it when he scolds you.
In order to divorce, Yang Xiaoyan promised to leave home clean, without money, children and child support. She wants to wait for the children to grow up. The doctor was worried that his parents-in-law would not let him look after the children after his divorce, but after making up her mind, she went back on her word. She felt that she was still reluctant to part with her children, especially her daughter. Kiki, after all, is in poor health and afraid of being bullied here, so she decided to take Kiki with her.
No one knows what happened to Yang Xiaoyan's family that night. Her sister went to inquire, and some neighbors reported that their family was still quarreling until two o'clock in the morning that night, but in the face of police inquiries, nothing happened in their family that night and there was no quarrel. Their family has always been very harmonious, and there is no quarrel, but neighbors say that their family has often quarreled for a long time, and the noise is particularly loud.
Now that Yang Xiaoyan has left with two children, my father-in-law has put all the blame on Yang Xiaoyan, blaming Yang Xiaoyan for being cruel and taking the children away. Later, he said that Dewey had been in a trance and didn't speak, claiming that his family was the biggest victim. Now he wants to arrange the funeral of Yang Xiaoyan and his children as soon as possible, cremate and bury them as soon as possible, and wait until all these things are done. However, Yang Xiaoyan's family asked Dewey to apologize in person, but Du Jia refused.
Three bodies are still lying in the cold morgue, and there is no complete place on them. The stroller in which the children have been sitting is still parked in their corridor. The seal sealed the space where they once existed, but they could not erase their existence.