At this time of year, everyone will take their mother to eat a big meal and buy gifts for her. To show my love and respect for my mother, to thank my mother for her nurturing grace, and to fulfill my filial piety as a child.
But in the past two years, I have taken my mother to the hospital more often. Because, she is old, weak and ill. What's it like to watch your mother suffer from illness, but you can't replace her?
Only find the best doctor for her and tell her to do less housework, exercise more and pay more attention to diet. Of course, there are also hard work and more money, which will make her less worried and happier.
Isn't it?
This is a palindrome. Maybe people who study and understand Buddhism will know what palindrome means. Baidu Encyclopedia has a special explanation for this. This method was recommended to me by a good friend who studied Buddhism.
I decided to write a palindrome on Mother's Day as the best gift for my mother and parents all over the world.
Buddhism is also a culture. It is everyone's wish to know more about culture and give more blessings and blessings to parents. Returning is also a kind of practice. May our practice bring us and our parents a more complete and happy life.
Tell me about my mother's illness at the moment and her life's merits and demerits.
Yesterday morning (May 1 1), I took my mother to see Dr. Ning Shimeng in the expert building of Renai Hospital of University of Traditional Chinese Medicine. My mother suffers from cervical spondylosis, has poor sleep, often feels dizzy and falls easily.
Dr. Ning is a Chinese medicine practitioner, who studied under Tang Nong, president of guangxi university of chinese medicine. Dr. Ning is a Buddhist. Although he is an attending doctor, many people come to see him because of his good medical skills.
I looked at it and found that there were almost thirty people looking for him in the morning alone, men, women and children.
According to friends, he used Chinese medicine to treat cancer patients and critically ill patients. He has a good reputation among patients.
I've seen him in online groups before, and I've given prescriptions to other Chinese medicine practitioners. Their evaluation is that Dr. Ning's prescription is peaceful and a conscience prescription.
Now you can know that doctors who don't sell drugs indiscriminately according to classic prescriptions are good Chinese medicine practitioners.
I hope Dr. Ning can cure my mother's illness.
My mother was born in 1952, and she is 65 years old.
Seven years ago, I took my mother for a physical examination and found that there were dozens to dozens of kidney calculi in her right kidney, which caused hydronephrosis. At that time, minimally invasive surgery was performed in Liuzhou People's Hospital, but the operation was unsuccessful and the stones and gravel could not be discharged. Later, surgery was performed on the right lower back, and only stones that blocked the ureter and caused hydronephrosis were taken. After the operation, the stones above the kidney loosened and fell off, blocking the ureter again.
20 10 September, my husband took my mother to see a doctor in Nanning. At the suggestion of Dr. Wang Xiaoping from the regional hospital, he performed several ultrasonic lithotripsy operations, which were very successful. By the National Day, all the stones had been unloaded.
In the years when she recovered, she and her father helped me and my brother take care of the children in Nanning. At that time, my son was born less than half a year, and my niece went to kindergarten at the age of four. Two old people take my son to the park during the day, buy food and cook, send my niece to and from school, and sleep with her at night, because my brother's home is far from school.
The labor intensity should be great. At that time, we all went to work and didn't realize it. Besides, my mother is used to working and doesn't feel sick, so she insists on it.
Later, my son went to kindergarten and my niece grew up. It seems that the good days have finally come, thinking that mom and dad can finally travel.
Two years ago, my mother's neck disease began to attack, causing pain in her left shoulder and lying in bed unable to sleep. She can only lie on her side, not on her back. Sleeping is very uncomfortable, and you can barely fall asleep only when you are very tired. Besides, her sleep quality is very poor.
I took her to see a famous orthopedic massage expert and acupuncture expert in Guangxi, and none of them got better.
I also took her to the Department of Ancient Chinese Medicine of Guangzhou Southern Hospital to see Professor Lu Ying, who is a descendant of Li Ke and has excellent medical skills. Professor Lu Ying has excellent medical skills, and there is a new seven-needle studio in the Department of Ancient Chinese Medicine. The establishment of the new seven needles is the most powerful acupuncture method in China.
I want Professor Lu Ying to do acupuncture for my mother. However, Professor Lu said that the elderly are weak and need to take Chinese medicine for a while. No acupuncture for the time being.
A doctor with superb medical skills and noble medical ethics will not prescribe medicine for you, nor will he needle you indiscriminately. Even if you ask, they will abide by their own principles.
At that time, my mother recovered for a while. Later, because it was a long way from Nanning to Guangzhou and I was not used to bumps, I didn't go to see Professor Lu again.
Professor Lu is also a kind-hearted person, and she is often seen to give free training courses to rural Chinese medicine practitioners. I hope more people can learn Chinese medicine, help more patients and relieve their pain.
Recently, my mother began to feel dizzy, the diaphragm was easily broken, and her hands began to tremble inexplicably. But she still insists on working every day, buying food and cooking. She said that work can distract her and forget the pain. On the way to buy food, she also fell down several times.
Yesterday, I took her to see Dr. Ning. Dr. Ning said it would take a while to recuperate. I hope my mother can get better slowly under the care of Dr. Ning. Grandchildren grow up, no longer hard, painless, painless, and enjoy their old age.
My mother used to be a doctor. She is a barefoot doctor in our brigade. She has a medical license and is a regular basic general practitioner.
She is a doctor from 1973 to 1992.
According to the fact that she sees at least 10 people every day, when there are many people, she sees more than 30 people a day. She is alone in the outpatient clinic, making prescriptions, taking medicine, giving injections, changing medicine, and doing everything by herself. Sometimes I am too busy. After work, dad will wrap her medicine (she can't have an injection) and do some work.
My mother has been a doctor for 0/9 years, and she has seen at least 50,000 doctors in our hometown, maybe 70,000. For a small town with a population of only 20,000 to 30,000, it is basically equivalent to everyone seeing her. Of course, many people look for her as soon as they get sick.
Some people may ask, why not go to township hospitals when you are sick? Come to see the barefoot doctor.
Because my mother has the best medical skills, everyone in the village believes her.
Facts have proved that there was a unified examination for medical practitioners in the county one year, with one * * * four subjects. At that time, my mother was in her fifties and didn't even have to read books. As soon as the test scores came out, the test scores of four subjects ranked first in the county.
A qualified teacher.
During her medical career, she diagnosed two children's leukemia by looking, smelling, asking and feeling (she also knows some Chinese medicine, feels the pulse and dares to use acupuncture), and told them to transfer to a big hospital in time, and also diagnosed several children with diseases such as thalassemia. Unfortunately, such a difficult illness, she is unable to return to heaven, and often feels sorry.
She once gave birth to a woman in the wild and on the roadside, cut the umbilical cord with a sickle and delivered the baby by hand without any auxiliary tools. Those children should have grown up, married and had children by now.
Some children in our nearby village have watched her grow up since childhood, and they are all looking for her with headaches and brain fever.
There is an asthma patient in our village named Jing Luan. She had asthma since she was a child, and she took my mother's medicine since she was a child. Because of her illness, her father won't let her marry far away. First, she is not at ease. Second, she stayed at home and my mother came to see her. Later, Jing Luan recruited a husband at home and gave birth to two children.
One year, Jing Luan went to visit relatives in Liuzhou and suddenly fell ill while shopping. The people who traveled with her went to the drugstore to buy medicine for her. I don't know if I took the wrong medicine or something. This time, my mother was not around, but she didn't survive and died in Liuzhou.
At that time, Jing Luan's father and husband always felt very sorry, which is why when they went to Liuzhou to play, they didn't remind her to go to my mother to prescribe medicine before leaving.
Jing Luan's husband has no culture. After his wife died, he followed his children to work in Guangdong. But his passbook has been left at my house for my parents to keep. He trusts my parents very much.
Many people go to Guangdong to work and get sick. Write or call back and ask my family to come to my house and prescribe medicine for them to send to Guangdong. Because the medicine prescribed by my mother is symptomatic and cheap.
As long as I can remember when I was a child, someone always knocked at my door in the middle of the night. They will shout at the wall: little sister-in-law, my children, old people and women have fever or cramps, vomit, give birth to children and so on. Can you go to my house to help?
Then, my father got up and opened the door. My mother put on her clothes and put on the sanitary box, and left with the villagers without saying anything. Sometimes I ride in the back seat of someone else's bike, and sometimes I walk.
My brother and I are asleep, and I don't know when my mother will come back.
At that time, the table at home was full of medicine bottles, syringes, alcohol and gauze, and the whole living room was like a small clinic. Going to our house smells of alcohol and drugs. My brother and I grew up in such a home.
People in our village, acquaintances in the town, people with the same surname in three villages and six households, distant relatives around the corner, elders and colleagues all affectionately call her little sister-in-law (my father is the second child in the family, and people call him little brother), and everyone calls her little brother little sister-in-law after my aunts and uncles.
They are also celebrities in the village. There is hardly anyone in their generation who doesn't know about them.
My mother thinks practicing medicine is a high-risk industry. The most terrible thing is that a person treats a patient and the patient is allergic to penicillin.
I asked, isn't there a skin test? My mother said that someone passed out during the skin test. There are also some people in the same batch of medicine, but it doesn't matter the first time, and it doesn't matter if they just finished the injection the second time. After an hour's rest, they will faint on their way home. Therefore, she dare not use penicillin without drugs such as adrenal hormones.
I asked her, is there no other medicine? This medicine is too dangerous.
She said that in the 1970s and 1980s, there were few drugs available, and only penicillin and streptomycin could be used for anti-inflammation. Gentamicin came out later. Moreover, streptomycin and gentamicin are prone to have great side effects, which will lead to deafness.
Until now, she is over 60 years old, and she will go back to the countryside every Qingming, Spring Festival and summer vacation. The villagers saw that she had a headache and fever, so they asked her to write a prescription and then went to the drugstore to buy medicine herself.
Folks, I have always trusted my mother's medical skills and medical ethics for decades.
When she said this, she was full of pride.
Seriously, after 19 years of practicing medicine, I really don't know how my mother came over.
On weekdays, I see more than a dozen patients every day, and I see more than 30 patients on weekdays. I often neglect to eat and drink water.
After such intense labor during the day, I have to go home to cook and feed the pigs to wash clothes at night.
When my brother and I were young, my mother took care of them herself. I often sit on the windowsill of her clinic and watch her busy going in and out.
My father is a public family and has a job. My mother, a barefoot doctor, has always been a rural hukou. So my brother and I are also rural hukou, and the three of us have fields and land in the village.
In addition to visiting and working, mom and dad are actually farming, farming, raising pigs, raising chickens and growing vegetables. My rice yield per mu is very high, corn and taro are delicious, and pig and chicken manure is used as farmyard manure to grow vegetables.
On Sunday, my father pushed the accumulated pig manure and chicken manure into the ground with a trolley. Dad pulls in front, and my brother and I push behind. Mom may wash clothes at home or do some other housework at this time.
According to current standards, my parents are out-and-out slash youths. They not only raise their own children, but also take care of them. They are farmers, doctors and nurses (my father works part-time), and my father also repairs electrical appliances part-time. They are also wet nurses.
Just like Superman.
Maybe I was too tired when I was young. So, when I got old, my mother's illness followed.
I chatted with a friend who studied Buddhism the day before yesterday and told her that a WeChat official account wrote about Buddhism. The story inside is very meaningful (WeChat official account is famous, so I won't mention it).
As a result, my friend learned Buddhism very well. Unexpectedly, I immediately pointed out that this WeChat official account article quoted the Buddha's headache, and the two stories told by the Buddha were wrong.
Yes, according to the Buddhist story, even if the Buddha is enlightened, he will have to bear the karma caused by many hardships.
Then, I told my friends: My mother has been dizzy recently, her hands are shaking, her body is getting weaker and weaker, and so on. I want my mother to learn Buddhism, but she doesn't agree.
My friend said that your mother's karma hasn't arrived yet.
Then I asked my friend, what should I do?
The friend said: You write an article for your mother and give it back to her.
Last night and yesterday, I took my mother to see a doctor and thought about my mother's life over and over again. Although she didn't know Buddhism and didn't have the opportunity to learn it, she cured so many patients and gave great help and comfort to others, but she followed the teachings of Buddhism in her actions.
? Mother's life is a kind life. It is a life worth remembering and getting rich rewards.
Therefore, please ask anyone who has received my mother's help to repay my mother and father with kindness. My father is the best assistant in my mother's medical career. He has supported my mother's medical career for twenty years without any regrets.
To sum up, the understanding of Hui and Buddhist culture.
I hope more people will learn Chinese medicine and carry forward the spirit of Chinese medicine!
I hope more people will learn and understand Buddhist culture and devote themselves to goodness.
I hope the world will be better!
I hope that you who read this article, you who have a destiny, help me forward it, and my wishes will be returned to all those who have a destiny.