There are more and more voices about having children:
Many people suggest that if you are too poor and really have no money, it is best not to have children.
In this regard, many people express their disapproval and incomprehension, and feel that having children is a very legitimate thing. In order for mankind to continue, a family's incense can also continue.
People think that having children has nothing to do with wealth. As long as children can come into this world, they can be supported anyway.
I think it is inhuman to say that you will not have children, and it is a very inappropriate suggestion.
Speaking of it, a man and a woman get married, to a large extent, in fact, in order to carry on the family line. Therefore, if they don't have children because of poor economic conditions, then this marriage seems to be less meaningful and less stable.
It seems that having children should be a kind of freedom and a natural thing. You shouldn't think so much and be limited by anything.
However, many people will say this, not just casually. There are actually deeper reasons behind this.
Can't give children a good growth environment.
Why is the movie home? The little boy praised his parents for insisting on having children despite family opposition.
As a result, life at home is very tight, and everyone's life is not guaranteed. Zan is a black family. She can't go to school normally and has to bear the family expenses. His sister was sent away early and died miserably.
Later, he really couldn't understand such years and couldn't stand such a life, so he chose to sue his parents.
The film expresses a theme, that is, don't have children at will. If you have children, you must be responsible for them, for their upbringing, for their growth and for their healthy growth.
In real life, it is actually the same. If the conditions at home are too bad, it is really difficult to give anything to the children.
Not to mention always accompanying children, giving them normal guidance, loving them well and giving them a good material environment, many people often do their best to solve the problem of food and clothing for a family.
In such a living environment, what children can get is really limited.
What I often feel is not the love of my parents, but the constant quarrel between my parents. Adults always say that everything is for themselves, so that my children are always full of guilt, and the whole person is always particularly inferior and feels that he is just a burden.
Growing up in such an environment, children will grow up in years, but their hearts will only stagnate a long time ago, and they will not get much nourishment at all, so it is difficult to become a healthy adult.
Children's lives will be particularly hard.
It is often said that when people are poor, they will have more children. Maybe one of them will have a good future and change his life.
However, it is never easy to change one's destiny, especially in this era.
A child who has not been well loved since childhood, because of his poor family and limited resources, has actually fallen behind too much from the beginning in an era when everything has been finely divided and good resources have been divided up by others.
There won't be many choices, whether in terms of ideas or resources.
When children grow up, it doesn't matter, there is no help, and everything can only be done by themselves.
I can only compete with many people for a bad job, and I can only keep a bad job, and my income is very average. You can only find a partner who is similar to yourself and has limited aspects.
Try hard, but still can't keep up with the speed of rising house prices, and run hard. Just like my parents, I can barely get enough food and clothing, and my life will not improve much at all.
One day, when I got married and had children, I was happy for a while, but more people just felt a lot of pressure. I want to be different from my parents, love my children and give everything for them, but I can't do it at all.
Although I don't like many characteristics of my parents, these characteristics have already been deeply imprinted on myself. I don't have much time and energy to treat my children well, and I can't change what Origin and Fate brought me.
Spending a lifetime can only be a special struggle and a special waste of time. It is not to be a self, a satisfied self, a competent child and a good parent at all.
Many people suggest that if you have no money and are too poor, you don't want children, just don't want them to live too hard and repeat their own destiny.
Life is not so easy and interesting after all.
Suggestions like this, if someone feels the same way and really doesn't want children that much, then you can not have children.
Although the conditions are not very good, I still want to have my own children, so that my blood can be passed on and I can feel the happiness of being a parent. If I have children, I can certainly welcome the arrival of a little life with my heart.
Everyone has the right to decide his own life and enjoy the same reproductive rights.
Don't care too much about others, don't always listen to what others say, the key is what you think and what you think.
Fate is always full of all kinds of accidents, and the future is never predictable. Life or not, in fact, there will be shortcomings, there will be a better side, but also a less good side.
Just make your own decision and take the consequences.