Perhaps, after two people have spent most of their lives together, they may not fully understand each other. How many people are moved by a little thing because of a temporary fever, so go looking for the person in front of you, that's what you want.
Just like Liang Lu in in the name of people, Qi Tongwei knelt on the university campus and proposed to her in public, which tore her heart out and made her kneel down again in despair.
Also like MC Jin, when she saw Dakang Li staying up all night and coming to her with a bag of her favorite oysters, she was suddenly moved and chose him among many suitors.
If Liang Lu didn't separate Qi Tongwei from Yang Chen, she wouldn't be heartbroken because of a failed relationship, and she wouldn't provoke Qi Tongwei because of revenge on her predecessor. With her conditions, there is no need for such a nominal marriage at all. She only has the status of a maid-in-waiting.
Qi Tongwei told Gao that if he had been with him, he might not have come this far. Gao said, even if there is no intervention, you and you can't go to the end, because you don't belong to the same class. Maybe they will come together because they appreciate each other, and they will definitely break up because of different beliefs. This is one thing.
If Qi Tongwei's bedside person is not, but a woman with a similar background and will not look down on him, just like Gao, she will rely on him, appreciate him and love him under his arm, but she will eventually go to the wall step by step because of greed.
MC Jin is a woman who lives in a fairy tale and longs for love. She thinks that Dakang Li is Do Min Joon, and can hold up an umbrella for her. When she needs him, she can go to heaven and earth for her, lean on his shoulder like a little woman, accompany her to watch idol dramas and help her solve all problems. It never occurred to me that he became more and more monotonous, inhuman and cold. He is a good politician and a good leading cadre, but he is not a qualified husband and father.
So in the interrogation room, MC Jin was in tears and repented. If she hadn't been moved by the oysters in Dakang Li, she might have chosen Darren Wang. In that case, she will lead another life, and there will be no tragedy today.
Is this really going to happen? Or, what you can't get is the best?
When a relationship fails, we often blame each other or even boil down to one reason: this person is not good and that person is not right. Reuse the original ending and give yourself unlimited imagination, as if another choice is the correct answer, at least not worse than now.
People often judge a lover by suitability, but where is the appropriate standard? No one can say for sure. I know that personality is incompatible. Two people argued for three days. After countless quarrels, I finally can't stand it. With a broken heart, I parted ways. Of course, I have also seen that two people who are equally competitive, stubborn and impatient can live a quiet life hand in hand because one side is willing to compromise, tolerate the other side and walk softly, while the other side will be grateful and become better and better.
According to women's understanding of romance, Dakang Li is really a boring person, like a Capricorn workaholic, but he is willing to dig oysters for the person he likes all night.
After MC Jin was arrested, Dakang Li held photo stream in MC Jin in tears and handed the remote control to her sister, saying, find out your sister-in-law's favorite TV series before, and I want to watch it, too. In this scene, we can see that Dakang Li also has a soft side in his heart. Unlike MC Jin, he is too selfish and hard-hearted.
Did you dig out his soft part? Lovers need to be cultivated, and good feelings need to be maintained. In countless misunderstandings and quarrels, communication is getting less and less and the distance is getting farther and farther. When you no longer need each other, or even regard each other as a burden, it is already the end of marriage.
The night before the divorce, Dakang Li pointed to the land in front of him, as proud as a child who won the competition. When he shared his ideals and achievements, he saw MC Jin's impatient expression. She didn't even give him a listening look. He was embarrassed and his eyes were a little lonely. Don't say that. I don't want to talk about it. I know you don't like it On the contrary, at this time, MC Jin is still asking for a divorce, hoping that Dakang Li can promise her, stay together well, leave well, and complain about her dissatisfaction over the years.
I know that many men seldom talk to their wives about their work after returning home, not all because men are deep, don't like to show themselves, and like to carry everything by themselves. Everyone is eager to express and needs a hole in the tree. Isn't it because even if they say it, women may not understand it, and they may not be able to give any reasonable advice? They may even say they don't like listening, they are impatient, they don't understand, they are disgusted, and they can't even do this well?
Instead of this, it is better to put it in your stomach.
On the other hand, women use double standards to ask their husbands to accompany them to watch bubble dramas, go shopping and participate in activities they are interested in. If the other person has no time or is unwilling to accompany you, they will immediately say: You don't love me at all!
However, when you don't want to cultivate the same hobbies with him, and when he talks to you about things, but you are impatient, have you ever asked yourself this question? Do you love him?
Although Darren Wang has many advantages, as a friend, he has a good personality and temper, and he also has time to chat with her and help explain. That's because, as an outsider, of course, he can stand between her and Dakang Li objectively and rationally.
If there had been no accident, Darren Wang would not have gone into business and become an entrepreneur. Like Dakang Li, he embarked on a career path, supported his family on a meager salary, and would have to leave early and return late because of his career. There is no way to support MC Jin's daughter to study abroad, let alone give her a villa.
If Darren Wang is also outspoken and unwilling to abuse power for personal gain to arrange work for her relatives in MC Jin, because she can't take care of all her emotions and go shopping with her to watch Korean dramas, will the result be the same?
Anything could happen. You can't say that a small stone can change anyone's fate, but people's change is not only related to the environment, but also to themselves. A new partner doesn't necessarily mean everything will be fine. Instead of entrusting fate to people you don't know, happiness is in your own hands. People change with each other, so does fate. If you still refuse to grow up, it will be difficult to get the happiness you want no matter how many times love has been transferred.
Peace and joy, don't forget peace of mind.