A letter to middle-class children
Dear Smile (Xiong Jingning) Baby:
Hello!
In a blink of an eye, you are among the middle class. It's like yesterday when I first entered the small class. I remember on the first day of kindergarten, other children were crying, but like an adult, you took Shi Jie and Meng Tongxiang, children in the same neighborhood, to familiarize themselves with the environment and told them which was their crib, where they could drink water and where they could get their small towels. Mom is happy to see you like this outside the window, but a little sour-all the other children are pestering her. Isn't our handsome boy a little too independent? Is mom a little ambivalent? She just wants you to be independent, but she feels sour when she sees that you are too independent.
When I first heard you humming nursery rhymes taught by kindergarten teachers and telling interesting stories about kindergarten, my mother knew that our baby son had grown up. I can observe, express and imitate learning. Seeing your growth and changes, the whole family is happy for you. Listen to you call your teacher in the morning, go home and tell your mother the names of kindergarten children, talk about the skills you learned in kindergarten, the games you played, and go home and do gymnastics in kindergarten. Mom understands that our son likes kindergarten teachers and children more and more! I like kindergarten life more and more! !
When you first got your certificate from kindergarten, your parents were really proud of you, but you told them that your grandmother gave you the certificate. You don't understand the true meaning of this award. I don't know if that's your good performance at school, but the teacher wants you to be better and better encouraged and rewarded. It really makes your parents laugh and cry. You didn't know the significance of this certificate until you went to a commercial bank and got a prize pen and pencil sharpener with a certificate. You say mom, I'll take a test later. My parents are very warm and happy to hear this.
Our precious son is great. He asked his mother to send him to the kindergarten gate and walked to the classroom early. The first time I heard you say I didn't want to go to school, I just didn't want to go to school. Mom knows something must have happened to you. You are so proud to know the whole story from the teacher. When you took part in the class sports competition, the teacher inadvertently said that Xiong Jingning didn't seem to run as fast as Zhou Xinyu. Keep that in mind and never take part in this activity again. Later, no matter what the teacher said, you refused to participate, but when you saw other selected children training, your heart itched and you said you didn't want to go to school. Baby, remember what mom told you at that time? Mom said, honey, participation is very important. There are so many children in kindergarten that none of them is good at everything. You are good at this, but other children are good at other things. As long as there are activities, you should try to participate, and participation is happy, right? Win or lose, we participate, we experience, and we have no regrets, right? Later, under the guidance of teachers and parents, our baby happily participated in this activity and won the second prize. Baby, no matter how many awards you have won, or just participate in the award, parents are proud of you, because in their eyes, our baby is the best!
Every time I go to the parents' open day, my mother is really pleased and happy to see that our babies are actively raising their hands to speak. Our baby is getting older and older, and we know how to answer questions with our brains. They all get good grades in class, but according to the teacher, our baby always makes small moves or talks to other children when doing morning exercises. This habit is not good. If you want to change it, baby, mom believes you can change it, right? There is no habit of taking a lunch break in kindergarten. It doesn't matter if you can't sleep, but we can't affect other children's rest, can we, my dear son? Don't make any noise, close your eyes and think about small things quietly. Baby, it would be better if you get up every morning, rinse your mouth and wash your face, and then eat breakfast seriously.
Son, when you come back, tell your mother that children with round faces are cute and even teachers like them. Mom tells you that mom likes cute children, too. Baby, you have grown taller, stronger, more knowledge in your mind and better habits. These advances are inseparable from the teachers Yin and Xie who have taught you, and the teacher Zhang in the small class. You should thank them well, continue to listen to the teacher and learn your skills.
Baby, work hard, come on, mom and dad will grow up with you. Finally, I wish the baby healthy and happy every day!
Love your mother: Sun.
65438+Friday, February 3rd
A letter to the children in the middle class 2
Son:
Hello, mom went to your kindergarten for a parent-teacher conference last week. The teacher praised you and pointed out your shortcomings. First of all, mom still has a lot of expectations for your middle-class career. Let's talk about a few things that mom wants first, such as eating. Before the small class, you can only eat with a spoon. I hope the teacher will teach you to eat with chopsticks at the beginning of the middle class. After all, people in China should learn to eat with chopsticks. When you go to the bathroom, you only tell the teacher in small classes? I want to shit and pee? Will you learn to talk to the teacher in the middle class? I want to go to the bathroom to wipe my ass? . You know, you have your own privacy when you say this. Mathematics, the middle class began to teach addition and subtraction, right I never taught you at home. Later, I saw that you learned a little with Wukong's literacy. Anyway, mom wants to learn from kindergarten teachers. Can't you learn addition and subtraction within ten in elementary school? There is also the understanding of geometric figures. What concepts did the teacher introduce, such as quadrangle, triangle, square and trapezoid? And mind games. I wonder what game the teacher will play for you? Moreover, playing with children, mothers also know that bumps are inevitable, but they still have to learn to have a sense of self-protection.
Next, let's talk about some problems that teachers have responded to. First, your communication problem: Mom knows that you are slow and don't like to communicate with strangers. The teacher's reaction is that you don't like to raise your hand to answer questions and express it to others. Well, this character is innate, and I also know that children who don't like to show themselves are not liked by teachers. What should I do? If children know how to communicate with adults and express their ideas, they are not children, but adults, right? Just like your father and I, we are actually people who don't like to communicate with others. Dad is a technical geek. Although my mother does the work of teaching others, she doesn't like to associate with others, but you are still a child. My mother still wants you to cultivate your bold personality and dare to express yourself. Although your personality is born, the acquired environment will still affect you, so you still have to give yourself a chance to be brave!
Second, your attention is not focused. I've also noticed this problem deeply, son. In fact, it is a kind of thinking defect that makes you unable to concentrate, or we can understand it as a bad habit. You can't concentrate when the teacher is in class, or you can't concentrate for a long time. The teacher must call your name so that your thoughts can come back. Mom has always told you that you have too much energy when you are away, and you can't concentrate when you are really focused, so you don't. When my mother was a child in kindergarten, I clearly remember the teacher asking us? Sit up straight, put your hands behind the chair, don't talk or move? . Don't underestimate this habit. In fact, now that I think about it, it is a meditation in disguise. Son, whether attention can be concentrated to the greatest extent is a decisive factor that directly affects IQ! Maybe you are still in kindergarten and haven't had this experience yet, but my mother still wants to tell you that learning is definitely not a stress-free and compulsive thing, and learning can't be a relaxed and happy thing. Mom and dad learned it all the way when they were young. When you read this letter, you may really understand what mom said. Although learning is hard work, it can certainly be relaxed to some extent. You can let your father learn to read instead of dying.
Finally, because of writing this letter, my mother turned over the photos of you from birth to now. From your birth, you can climb, stand and walk, until you go to kindergarten, and you have new needs in each period. My mother believes that as long as our parents give you corresponding needs and warm love at every stage of your growth, don't worry about the rest, right? Mother finally said to herself: the seedlings will not grow long, and the children will grow up by themselves!
I wish my son a happy middle school career!
Love, mom and dad.
1Tuesday, October 7th 65438+
A letter to the children in the middle class
Dearest blossoming:
When mom and dad wrote this letter to you, you were still sleeping, and the sweet smile in your sleep was so intoxicating. So, let mom and dad guess what kind of dream you had? Did you just hit the dark fairy with a fairy? Or do you play games with Snow White and Dwarfs? Or eat strawberry lollipops?
How time flies! In April of 2008, the nurse sent you to your parents' arms, and your parents didn't know how to hug you. Gradually, you will laugh, climb, walk and talk. You will go to kindergarten. On the first day of kindergarten, when other children are crying for their parents, you will enter kindergarten happily. You like the family, teachers and children in kindergarten so much. In this big family, you are very happy to sing, dance, play games and learn skills.
Dear blossoming, you are smart, kind and sincere, and have always been the pride of mom and dad. In the past five years, your growth and progress have delighted us. Sometimes, mom and dad will think, do you have a beautiful garden in your heart, and at the right time, take out a bunch of flowers like magic to make us sit up and take notice of you?
When you put a decent job in front of us, I realized your ideas and opinions, and I am proud of you. It's good to have an idea, but it's even better to draw it. The blossoming paintings are all kept by mom and dad, because mom and dad feel extremely cherished.
When you can dance a tune completely, mom and dad are too excited to speak. Seeing you performing the dance you learned in kindergarten at home, my mother has been taking pictures and wants to keep every wonderful moment and beautiful moment. Mom and dad think they dance with beautiful posture and strong sense of rhythm. We are proud of you.
You can express the cause and effect, because others misunderstood, mom and dad are convinced again. While your logical thinking is constantly improving, you have your own ideas. Sometimes you understand everything when we're halfway through.
You are very brave. It's your first time to learn to swim in the swimming pool. You didn't cry or make trouble. You listen to the coach carefully and learn the basic skills step by step. After 3 months, you swim freely in the water like a little frog. Besides, you have learned to take care of yourself, and you should take a shower and change clothes every time after swimming. You are really great!
Since September this year 1, you have been a child in a large kindergarten class, and this time next year, when it comes to entering the school gate, mom and dad have more expectations for blossoming:
First of all, I still hope that the flowers will be fragrant and the body will be great. With good health, I will have more physical strength and energy to study and play. Secondly, I hope that blossoming can develop good habits of life and study, do everything seriously, attentively and persistently, and never study? Kitten fishing? Half-hearted, nothing; Third, I hope blossoming can be more independent and brave. You know, even if mom and dad are not around sometimes, our love and care will be with you. Finally, blossoming, mom and dad hope you have a heart full of love and gratitude, love to raise your parents and family, love to raise your teachers, love the people and things worthy of love around you, cherish and love yourself, and be a healthy, confident and noble-minded child.
Of course, Dodo is only five years old. Mom and dad will accompany you in the future. Your interest, your study, your cognition, your growth and your emotions will all play a role with you.
Dear blossoming, mom and dad will always love you. It is the greatest happiness for mom and dad to have your sweet little cotton-padded jacket.
Love your mom and Dad
Night in July 1
A letter to middle-class children 4
Dear Le Jia, baby,
When I saw in the kindergarten growth handbook that I was going to write you a letter, it suddenly occurred to my parents that we were trusted by our teachers when we were young? A letter to the future? Dear baby, aren't you the future of mom and dad now?
Our daughter, I don't know when you can understand this letter and deeply appreciate the love of mom and dad. Maybe it's a few years later, maybe it's the day you get married, maybe you have a baby. It is really interesting to think that mom and dad will read this letter with you when you are an adult or even married, and recall the interesting things when you were a child together. Was the stationery yellow at that time?
Ok, let's get down to business. Since this is a letter to you, what should mom and dad say to you?
Summarize your current state first. Now Le Jia Baby is a little beauty who just turned 4 years old, with a height of 106cm and a weight of 35 kg. She is calm and a little shy. She is very noisy at home and especially likes to bully her father. You always say that you love your mother the most, but you also let your father eat fruit when he sleeps. Dad, get up quickly, or will you eat? Will you deliberately take out a mango? For my dad? .
You like kindergarten best. You claim to have five best friends. Eating in kindergarten is very good, and I have strong self-care ability, and I can also help my friends. I like listening to stories. I always go to bed after listening to stories at night. I will also take the initiative to tell stories to children in kindergarten or Gymboree class.
On the whole, mom and dad are very satisfied with Le Jia Bao Bei's current state. She is neither too noisy nor too introverted. She is a gentle child, basically obedient, although occasionally disobedient, for example, she always cheats every time her father brushes his teeth.
Dear Le Jia Baby, from the time your mother conceived in October to the time you came to our home, and now you are 4 years old, your parents are really full of joy when they watch you grow up and understand day by day.
For many reasons, grandparents can't help us take care of you. As new parents, we raised you with all our love and energy. You have brought us endless fun for four years. You filled our home with laughter and laughter. You made us realize the greatness of our parents' love. You are the baby of our family.
Lovely daughter, mom and dad still want to give you some hope. Although a bit old-fashioned, after all, you will grow up one day and can't live under the wings of your parents all the time.
First of all, mom and dad want you to be a broad-minded person. Being broad-minded will make you happy all your life, and your life will be more sunny. Mom and dad will try their best to create a relaxed and happy environment for you. I think this is the key condition for children to grow up healthily, especially to grow into a broad-minded person.
Secondly, after careful comparison, mom and dad still hope that you can be a responsible person first, because mom and dad don't want to make you too competitive, which will reduce your happiness and affect your mind, but they also hope that you can become a successful person, so responsibility is the most important thing. Because, we believe that people with a sense of responsibility will try their best to do things well, and people with such a mentality will be more likely to succeed.
Finally, mom and dad want you to be a kind and diligent person. Kindness will make your life more hopeful, and diligence will make you more successful.
Well, these are some hopes for future growth, and I also write a short-term hope for my parents. I hope our Le Jia baby will be more and more confident. The teacher said that Le Jia would be a little shy when performing.