First, the most important thing in family education-character
Judging from your child's life, there is no essential difference between whether your child's grades are good or bad and whether he enters Peking University or an ordinary university. People who are related to people can really widen the distance between children all their lives, which is a matter of personality. The establishment of character comes from the power of example, and parents can't escape as role models for their children. What we ask our children to do is invalid because parents don't do it.
Second, cultivate children's love for life-mood education
We will find that in a class, some children are always first or second, and their IQ is really high. And our children, no matter how hard they try, are in the middle, even behind. What should parents do in this case?
Let children feel that living in the world is beautiful, and educate children that true happiness is earned by themselves.
There are differences between children, but as long as your children don't reach the level of idiots, they can do important things as long as they can walk into the classroom normally. Our parents must be able to urge their children to make progress, and under no circumstances should their self-esteem be harmed. You should make sure that your children are happy to win the first and last place, and make them feel that living in the world is beautiful. Cultivating their love for life is one of the most important tasks for parents.
Third, give appropriate encouragement to stimulate unlimited potential-encourage education.
Teachers' educational methods are very important, but parents' educational methods are more important, because children pay more attention to their parents' words and deeds.
People's growth is a lifelong matter, and it is definitely not determined by your grades in primary school or university. Grades are very important for children, but you can't think that children are worthless just because their grades are low. For children, high score is one of the criteria for success, but it should never be regarded as the only criterion. Otherwise, your child will be hurt countless times, because there is only one first place in any exam.
To sum up, the most important family education is character education, followed by mood education, and the third is encouraging education.