Then we must communicate! If either party avoids the problem, there will be more and more contradictions in love. Why do girls turn over old scores is because the previous problems have not been really solved, and they will become small bumps in their hearts. Every time there is a contradiction, boys try to stabilize their emotions first, and then stabilize their girlfriends. Don't be reasonable when quarreling. If you don't listen, the effect may be opposite. After the girls are emotionally stable, analyze their own problems first. At this time, girls will also reflect on themselves. After you analyze yourself, girls will feel that they have gone too far. Most girls are very reflective in love. Trust me! Girls must bravely express their thoughts and dissatisfaction. Don't be afraid that it will affect their feelings. You can bear it yourself. Never. The boy you really like is happy for you to play straight, but beat around the bush. When you can't stand it, it will explode. Boys will even blame you for not saying it earlier. Learn to listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, and express your own thoughts and feelings at the same time, so that each other can understand your needs and expectations. In communication, we should avoid emotional words and actions and try to remain calm and rational.
3. The rest are basic exercises. For example, we should respect each other. Don't poke at each other's weaknesses when quarreling. Try to fight as little as possible at home, and give yourself and your boyfriend enough face outside. If the economic conditions are similar, I personally support AA to make some consumption, but it depends on the consumption view of two people. In short, we should respect each other's feelings and decisions, establish good communication, establish a healthy love relationship, correctly handle the relationship between study and love, and know how to seek help and support.
Finally, I wish everyone a healthy and sweet love.