Just like men, they like gentle and virtuous women, and they don't like women who are grumpy and angry like shrews.
Women themselves want to cultivate their personality and temperament in the direction that men like and appreciate.
Nobody wants to be hurt, and neither do they. However, after being stimulated and hurt by the outside world, it is understandable and human nature to vent their inner depression, dissatisfaction and anger by growling or throwing things. However, not hurting others is the basic principle, and not affecting others is also the characteristic of mature women.
Some people will say that when I am upset and depressed, I can't control it at all. When I want to vent, I don't care too much about my surroundings.
So in that case, if you are looked down upon, you have to face it yourself. Why can others control their emotions in public relations? Why can't you do it yourself! Still can't do it well! Have you ever reflected on this yourself?
It's not that you can't vent, but that you should choose where and when to vent. Can you choose a reasonable way to vent without hurting yourself? Are there any specific considerations for these?
If you choose patience, you will be hurt by the outside world. We are human beings, ordinary people with feelings. We can't be hurt, we will be indifferent. We all have worldly desires, and we can't hide all our feelings like God.
So we must vent, we must choose a reasonable way to vent without hurting ourselves, and we can't swallow all our troubles and all our injuries, which will do great harm to our health.
However, how to vent so as not to be looked down upon is one of the problems that every mature adult with emotional intelligence should think about. Since you want to be looked down upon, you must cultivate your own strong heart and can't bear stimulation and injury.
You can choose fitness, exercise or housework to express your hurt and vent. There are so many ways and means, why choose the most unwise way to express or vent?