1. Direct communication: If the problem between you is not very serious, you can talk to this friend directly, express your thoughts and feelings and see if you can solve the problem.
2. Gradually alienate: If you feel that the communication with this friend is meaningless, you can gradually reduce the communication with him. Don't contact him actively, let him fade out of your life naturally.
3. Frankly refuse: If this friend often asks you to do things you don't like, or has a negative impact on your life and growth, you can tell him directly that you don't want to participate in these things, or you don't want to associate with him.
4. Find a new friend: If you think it is meaningless to associate with this friend, you can try to meet new friends and find some people with similar interests, thus enriching your social circle. In a word, it is not easy to get rid of friends you don't want to make. We need to find a suitable way to make our interpersonal relationship more healthy and positive while maintaining courtesy and respect.