1, please don't speak ill of each other in front of the children.
Your dislike of the other half will change his or her image in the eyes of children, and for children, both father and mother are the first people to contact in their lives. The bad impression left on them will also make children lack sense of security, self-confidence and love, and lack trust in others, leading to obstacles in interpersonal communication.
Don't always complain and swear in front of children.
Parents' behavior has a subtle influence on their children. Parents must be civilized in front of their children, whether between parents or with outsiders, whether in language or in action. If parents often complain about swearing, it will make their children do the same, complaining and dissatisfied with people and things around them, and even swearing at will, which will undoubtedly have a bad influence on his later life.
Don't blame each other, quarrel or even fight in front of children.
In addition, parents often blame each other in front of their children, and the weight in their children's hearts is not the same. Children may be more inclined to the other side, or neither of them, which directly leads to the feeling of being isolated. Slowly, the child's personality will gradually become introverted, inferior and so on. If parents fight during a quarrel, it may also make their children violent.
Conclusion: Family is the first classroom for children to grow up, and parents are their first teachers. Parents' words and deeds, behaviors and manners are imperceptibly affecting children. A good personality and good habits will benefit children for life. Excellent parents will pay attention to every move in front of their children and try not to let their negative behavior habits affect them. Parents with poor performance basically pay little attention to the influence on their children, and often make some behaviors and actions that affect their children's future in front of them.