Letter to fifteen-year-old daughter Fan
Dear, slowly:
At this moment, I can always see you walking in front of me, trotting to kindergarten like a deer, but time flies. The little angel I once put in the bicycle basket has grown into a slim girl, like a pointed lotus flower, who is about to enter high school in the senior high school entrance examination, laying a solid foundation for her future life.
First of all, I want to thank you for your company for fifteen years. Because of you, we have a happy and complete family. Do you remember when the three of us went out for a walk when we were young? I always let you walk in the middle and say: We are happy Dorothy! ? Your laughter has brought endless joy to mom and dad and given us endless strength, because only when we become strong can we protect our baby and not let her get hurt at all. Once, I was afraid of darkness, dogs, bugs and all terrible things, but for you, I must learn to be strong and face it. Even if I fall, I will protect you from the wind and rain.
Secondly, I want to tell you to cherish the beautiful youth time, knowing that life is actually short, especially youth is a flash in the pan, so you must cherish time, put your mind where you should put it, arrange your time reasonably, be an orderly student, meet the senior high school entrance examination confidently, and don't hate when you use books. You know, growing up means shouldering responsibilities and bearing the hopes of family and teachers. An irresponsible person will not cherish time, but will only waste his life.
Third, learn to be grateful. I remember one day you asked me to sign my exercise book, which said thank you for everything your mother has done for you. The first sentence reads:? Mom, you have lost weight. I will take good care of you in the future. ? Moved to tears, the so-called moved, not for the bouquet of flowers received when I was proud, but for the comfort I heard when I was down and out. There is no shortage of warmth in life, but a heart that doesn't know how to feel warmth. Mom and dad don't expect anything from you. They just want you to think about the people closest to you. Your success in study is the best reward for us.
Last but not least, we hope you will grow up healthily and happily. A strong body can make you bear heavy studies, and a good attitude can make you face setbacks bravely. The senior high school entrance examination is an important turning point in your life, so you must treat it correctly. Seeing that you are too busy for Lian Xiao to laugh, Mom and Dad are very sad. They know that studying is hard and difficult, but Mom and Dad will always accompany you and cheer for you!
Spring blossoms every year, how can there be a beautiful rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? May you leave a bright future on the road of life!
Parents who love you the most.
June 2, 2065 438+02
A letter to my fifteen-year-old daughter Fan.
My dear daughter:
Mom hasn't talked to you like this for a long time.
Your situation has been worrying for some time. You lose your temper almost every day for no reason, angry with your father and me. We can understand this. We know that you have a lot of homework now and you are really tired. We love you, love you, but it doesn't mean we can indulge you. I will never allow you to do this often. If you indulge like this, it will only increase your resentment and reduce your endurance.
Daughter, tomorrow is your 15 birthday. Happy birthday to you first. When you were a child, you grew up and matured day by day, and your head has surpassed your mother. We both went out hand in hand, and everyone admired us. When listening to others praise you, your mother really feels sweeter than honey. Because they are right, my daughter is really excellent in all aspects, and your father and I are really proud of you.
But Excellence doesn't mean you don't have shortcomings. Recently, I feel that you are changing, becoming more and more indifferent and irritable, which makes me feel that my daughter is leaving us step by step. I know you are bothered by too much homework, sometimes by problems, and sometimes by education. In short, you are always upset for no reason, even yelling at your parents, and even breaking things in the worst case. What you did really made mom sad. We understand that this is a rebellious and restless youth, and we can forgive you sometimes, but you can't always do this. Adolescence is the most beautiful stage of life. Now you are like a flower to bloom. You should enjoy yourself and show your beauty. But if you spend every day of your youth in this mood, you will regret why you didn't cherish this wonderful time. If the flowers will not be red for two days, there will be no second youth in life. Your current troubles are due to your own personality and emotions, which can be changed. You should spend the best day with a good mood. So you won't regret it when you recall this time in the future. We have been there before, and we have walked here before. At that time, we were just like you now, but not as lucky as you. At that time, no one accompanied us to go shopping, no one chatted with us, no one understood the hearts of teenagers at that time, no one always prepared food and clothing for us, and no one paid attention to whether we were happy every day. Some just beat and scold when we are bored. But it is not easy for us to understand our parents. They can wear warm clothes and work day and night to support their families. Now they are old, and some even left us. What we hate and regret is that we gave them too little, even though we could give them enough happiness at that time. There is no regret medicine in the world. What we can do now is to be kind to the elderly, be kind to the children, repay what we owe to the elderly as much as possible, and let the children enjoy what they don't. As long as you are happy, we are happy.
Daughter, do you know what we value most? Are you really happy and healthy every day? When you are unhappy, your parents will not be happy. When you are unwell, your mother is more worried. I will do my best to make you better as soon as possible. I will tell you every day in your agitated voice, do this and that for you, and even put up with your anger at me and look at your pouting and gloomy face. Mom will be anxious and angry for your disobedience. I hope you can understand. Sometimes I really want to suffer for you, and even think that I will become a fairy and make you better. But sometimes no matter what I say, you would rather suffer than do as I say, which really hurts your brain.
Daughter, do you know how to live meaningfully? Do you know what the purpose of study is? I have taught you since I was a child that people should be happy every day, and if they are unhappy, they should create happiness. People are very tired when they are alive, but they should learn to find happiness in fatigue. Learning is to lay the foundation for going to society in the future. Knowledge is the foundation of all talents. Study is to make you a better person. It is true that as a student, learning is the primary task, but you can't do nothing, don't want to do anything, or even worry just for the sake of learning, which has violated the original intention of learning. Learning with pleasure and learning with application is the correct way to learn. What are you told to do now? You always use study as an excuse to escape from everything. These things are not beyond our reach. We just want to exercise your ability to deal with and solve problems and enhance your sense of responsibility. You must understand this. In this way, human feelings are indifferent, emotional intelligence is low, self-motivation is lost, ability is reduced, and bad habits of shirking will be formed. What's the use of learning like this? It's really better to step into the society earlier, at least it also exercises your adaptability. Daughter, you must understand that as long as people are alive, they must learn to take responsibility and fulfill their obligations. Learning is your most important obligation now, but other responsibilities you should bear do not mean that others should bear it for you. On the contrary, the mother thinks that a child who can bravely take responsibility and fulfill his obligations will have a bright future in the future. Because he is brave and enterprising. Otherwise, you can only indulge your cowardice and cover up your incompetence by avoiding it blindly. Children should not find any excuse to shirk their responsibilities. Dare to bear, dare to face and experience, even if it is suffering or even failure, which are all wonderful in your life. Only in this way can you step into the society smoothly and calmly, adapt to the society and bear the pressure and test from all aspects of society, and you will become more mature and confident. If everything is changed to us now, you will become inferior, timid and hesitant in the future, and you will accomplish nothing, and your previous efforts will be in vain.
Daughter, now that you have been replaced by your parents, you care too much. In fact, this is not a good thing, at least it inhibits your ability to play, and in some cases inhibits the improvement of imagination and creativity. If you are open-minded, you will take the initiative to do something within your power. Now that I think about it, I am really grateful to my parents for giving us so much free room to grow up. Freedom is good. It's the eagle that will fly into the blue sky sooner or later to fight the sky. It needs you to spread your tender wings, leave the warm arms of your parents and let yourself take off slowly. The world is as big as your heart, and as far as your heart is, you can fly. The small goal has been achieved, can the big goal be far behind? Son, let your heart fly, don't be afraid of wind and rain, don't be afraid of stormy waves, you can feel the joy of success in the battle.
Daughter, parents are capable, but the biggest disadvantage is that they are too cautious, too worried about everything and have low self-confidence. This often makes us lose many opportunities. Mom just wants to tell you that it is right to be cautious in this respect, but when weighing the pros and cons, as long as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, we must make a decisive decision and seize the best opportunity. As long as your judgment is correct, don't regret what you have done. Success is often accompanied by failure. You should learn to bear failure, so failure is not shameful. You should learn to treat every failure. If you fail, find out the reason and start all over again, but you must never fail again and again for one reason. Daughter, today's society is complicated because of the complexity of people's hearts. Learning to deal with interpersonal relationships is the key to success. You should learn to make friends now. As long as you think you can make friends, treat them sincerely. Learn from friends and make up for your own shortcomings. Friends: We can communicate with each other, help each other and make progress together, but one thing is that good friends, as long as they violate the principles, must never do it, and we must not wronged ourselves for friends. Use your friend boldly when he should be used. Don't be shy, because these are mutual. When they are also useful to you, this is interpersonal relationship. This is very important. You must understand that learning this course well is much more useful than studying for three years. But that doesn't mean you should concentrate here. Mom just wants you to learn to be honest with others and communicate with your classmates more from now on.
Having said that, in short, good learning attitude and habits should be adhered to. Learning knowledge is used to arm the mind and create wealth with knowledge, not to stifle ability with knowledge. Only when a person truly understands the purpose of learning will he have the motivation to learn and will he not feel tired and bored. If he studies just for blind study, all he remembers is some dead things, which becomes a burden. Mom wants you to be a wealth creator of learning, and she doesn't want you to be a simple learning machine, and she doesn't want learning to be your burden.
Daughter, tomorrow you will be 15 years old and become a big girl. Another requirement of my mother is to pay attention to her image. This image is not only beautiful in appearance, but a comprehensive embodiment from the inside out. A good image can cheer people up and improve self-confidence. Imagine a person who doesn't even pay attention to his own image, he won't cherish himself, let alone pay attention to others. A good image will bring you good opportunities, a good mood and a better chance of winning than others. These words are not completely right, but there is some truth, but you have to understand that a good image does not mean that you deliberately dress yourself up, as long as you dress neatly and appropriately, which makes people look comfortable and pleasing to the eye. The key to a good image lies in self-cultivation, temperament, self-restraint, self-reliance, self-improvement, love, love for oneself, love for parents, love for relatives and love for friends. Only those who have great love in their hearts, coupled with their own wisdom and talent, will be steady and steady in society. Daughter, we believe you can do it.
Daughter, your birthday is coming, and we are looking forward to it. I'm sure you are, too. Mom has no gift for you, only this heart that loves you and these heartfelt words are for you. This is the simplest and most extensive love we give you. I hope you can accept and understand. Happy birthday, daughter. We hope you are happy and healthy every day. We hope that a fully grown daughter will appear in front of us, and then we will be really relieved. Daughter, be considerate of your parents' hearts and don't neglect your mother's. This is your minimum filial piety to us and the best feedback to us. This is more responsible for yourself. Daughter, we don't ask you to do anything for us, just ask you to grow up happily and healthily.
XXX
Date, year and month
Letter to fifteen-year-old daughter Fan Wensan
Dear baby Cao Yuan:
Baby, you are already asleep by this time. I know you fell asleep with a happy mood. Before going to bed, you kissed your mother as usual and said goodbye to her? Sweet dreams! ? Looking at your sweet smile in your sleep, my mother was filled with emotion: Baby, congratulations on your birthday 15, and congratulations on your growing up one year old again!
Baby, although I bought you a beautiful birthday present, my parents are busy with work all day and don't have much time to spend with you. My parents still have a lot to say to you on this special day. I hope these words are a special birthday present for you:
Baby, let's start with your name. Your name, Cao Yuan, has placed high hopes on parents: Cao Yuan is a homophonic grassland, and parents hope that their children can be as full of vitality and vitality as the grassland, with a broad mind and boundless vision.
Baby, you are 15 years old today! After this summer vacation, you will leave the small family you accompany every day, enter the ideal high school and start your campus collective life. High school is a critical period for the formation of a person's outlook on life, values and world outlook. At this stage, the ideas, concepts and knowledge you accept, the friends you associate with, and your own attitude towards life, life and study will have a great and far-reaching impact on your life, directly affecting your growth and your future.
The most important thing for a person's growth is physical health and mental health. First of all, good health. I hope you, baby, can pay more attention to your health and take an active part in various physical exercises for your future. I hope my baby can grow taller quickly and become a slim and beautiful girl in the next three years.
Secondly, mental health. What we want to tell you is that we are proud of you. You are smart, kind, compassionate, caring, enterprising, ready to help others, and have good moral character like gold. We are proud to have your daughter, and you should be as proud of yourself as we are.
High school will be the most important time in your life, and you will find the true meaning of learning in high school. You used to ask? What's the use of this course? This is a good question, but I hope you understand that the real meaning of education is what remains after you forget everything you have learned. ? I mean, the most important thing is not your specific knowledge, but your ability to learn new things and solve new problems. This is the real meaning of learning-this will be the stage when you change from passive learning to autonomous learning, and then you will become an excellent autonomous learner. Therefore, even if what you learn is not urgently needed in life, you should take every lesson you learn seriously. Even if you forget some knowledge points you have learned, your learning ability will benefit you for life.
In the intense study process, you still have to keep and follow your passion and interest, and cultivate your various hobbies, such as calligraphy, such as photography, swimming, such as Go. These hobbies may take up a lot of valuable study time in a short time, but they will bring a lot of vitality to our dull life, bring a lot of bright colors to our life, and will become a wonderful ornament in our life. These hobbies will come one day when the opportunity comes.
Do your best in your homework, but don't put too much pressure on yourself. Your father and I have no requirements for your grades. As long as you can graduate smoothly in these three years and learn something, we will be very happy. Even if you didn't do well in the college entrance examination when you graduated and didn't get into an ideal university, we will never blame you, so don't put pressure on yourself. Don't worry, the most important thing is that you are studying. The only measure you need is your efforts. Achievements are just boring figures boasted by vain people and feared by lazy people. You are neither vain nor lazy.
It is also very important for you to make some friends and live a happy life during your three-year study life in high school. In the past, you have been living a small family life with your parents and sisters. After entering high school, you will begin to live a group life. The students are all the only children in the family. Everyone has different growing environment, different personality and temper, and students don't understand each other. All these require you to have a tolerant and loving heart, a helpful heart, a grateful heart, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, and make good friends at school. Friends in high school are often the best friends in life, because you can get close to your friends. In addition, if you grow up together and become independent together, naturally you will be closely tied together and become close friends. You should choose some sincere friends and get close to them, regardless of their hobbies, achievements, appearance and even personality. You are a sincere person, and anyone will like to be your friend, so be confident, outgoing and proactive. If you like someone, tell her that even if she refuses, you have nothing to lose. Treat people with the greatest kindness, without prejudice and tolerance. No one is perfect, as long as you are sincere, trust them and be friendly to them. They will give you the same return.
Baby, you are 15 years old today. When you grow up, you should gradually learn to be responsible for yourself. In the past, no matter what you did, your parents gave you a lot of help. In the future, we will always stand by your side, but from now on, you must learn to steer by yourself. Your ability to choose means that you will live the life you want. Life is too short to live the life others want you to live. It is a great feeling to be in control of your life. Try it, you will love it! Mom and Dad believe in you!
Just now I told your father that I was writing this letter and asked him what he wanted to say to you. He thought for a moment and said: I hope she will grow up healthily and happily! ? Simple but full of sincere concern-this has always been the characteristic of your beloved father. This short sentence contains a lot of dad's hopes and wishes. Are you smart enough for your children to understand?
Love your parents.
Late at night on July 9, 20 10
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