Work is a tumor, neither cut nor cut, because it is both benign and malignant, just like beriberi, which can't be cured, so we have to take it out to relieve boredom and scratch it when we are bored. This article is a sentence about workplace personality that I specially prepared for readers. I hope you like it.
1, descendants of the Chinese people have both ability and political integrity, and have made great achievements. Chinese people have their grand plans in both civil and military fields.
In fact, going to work is the same as going to school, except that one is to earn money and the other is to spend money.
It's nothing to be promoted, but it's even sadder to know that my most trusted friend is behind the scenes. In fact, this is the most common fake white rabbit incident in the workplace. The white rabbit not only lives in the competition in the workplace, but also permeates every corner of life.
4. Frustration turned out to be a cornerstone of success, which can build a monument of hope, as long as you are in never back down; Sincerity is a key to communication, which can open people's closed hearts, as long as you persist.
When you receive each other's business card with both hands, you can read each other's name and position softly. If you have any questions about the other person's name, you can ask them skillfully. Don't put them in your pocket at once. You can put your business card in front of you according to your partner's position. It is best to remember each other's names and positions.
6. The workplace is not as shocking as the titles of some books. Most people just work hard and enjoy five insurances, one gold and free refreshments. When you get to the upper power center, you must intrigue and work step by step. Not everyone has the opportunity to be lofty. But nowadays, admitting that your job is not hard or tiring is as boring as saying that you have never been lovelorn.
7. Try to avoid office romance. Since you are here to work, you should concentrate on your work. Whether working together or chatting, it is beyond reproach that female colleagues appreciate and encourage each other. Being good at appreciating others is the greatest kindness to others and the most mature personality, but colleagues of the opposite sex must grasp a degree in the office. Avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
8. Whether you have just started a new job or have worked in the same job for many years, it is wise to write down the job description and responsibilities with a pen. You need to know your current role accurately, because once you fully master your job, you can get a promotion.
9. How to maintain interpersonal relationships in the workplace is very important, which is related to your development and cooperation in your future work. In the process of establishing workplace relations, it must be noted that we are from the heart and cannot establish workplace relations because of various interests. Pay attention to communication skills in workplace relations.
10, many people have experienced in the workplace that interpersonal relationships in the workplace are very subtle. If you want to live comfortably, you should also study both inside and outside. In addition to work performance, we need to pay attention to our own self-cultivation, constantly reflect on our own behavior at work, and make positive and effective psychological adjustments so that we can learn to think and grow at work and adapt to the ever-changing workplace environment.
1 1. Loneliness and loneliness are really different. Loneliness only means that there is no one around, and loneliness is a psychological state that you can't communicate with others or share your feelings. When we are surrounded by close people, we are not lonely, but we are not necessarily lonely.
12, we are probably used to other people's clothes, and we don't think there is any profound mystery in wearing them. But a person's clothes can reflect his usual living habits and styles, so you can also see a person's heart from the clothes.
13, with a goal, the inner strength will find the direction, and aimless efforts or wandering will eventually get lost. The priceless gold mine in your heart is no different from ordinary dust because it can't be mined. Your past and present situation are not important, but what you want to achieve in the future is the most important. You can only succeed if you have a goal. If you have no ideal for the future, you can't do anything great.
14, 1) Don't send emails over the top; 2) Don't talk about things unrelated to work in the email; 3) Don't forward emails that shouldn't be forwarded; 4) Keep the evidence of sending mail; 5) Private emails avoid corporate network monitoring; 6) Let e-mail help you establish a diligent image; 7) Don't forget the correct time to send and receive emails; 8) Don't forget the correct CC and BCC; 9) Don't let email completely replace telephone.
15, the concept of rubber man caused a strong buzz among urban people. If you find that your keen sense of touch has become dull, and you have lost too much expectation for promotion and salary, the appreciation and encouragement of your boss are always isolated from you, and you are indifferent to the excessive criticism of your colleagues, you will become one of them.
16, miss, admire, like, etc. , is a state of mind. You can't carve it vividly, but you can feel that a person likes you, or feel the sound of your heart beating when you are close to each other.
17. After all, the workplace is not a school, not a family. Some students should completely get rid of arrogance, avoid being self-centered, have certain communication skills and cooperative spirit, and be down-to-earth in every step.
18, for those who are not as good as you in the workplace, you should make them feel that you are actually not easy, and some places are far behind them. And you should avoid publicity and be humble. This arouses the psychological balance of the jealous, but it will give birth to some goodwill or sympathy for you.
19, don't think that you can make a living by your ability, unless you are more than twice as strong as your peers in this field and more than twice as strong as the average person in this field. If you don't have the ability to make people shine, your looks, relationships and even your walking posture may become important resources in your workplace life.
20. If someone gets a precious teapot, he must put it by the bed at night. I accidentally knocked over the lid of the teapot, which was very annoying. Now that the lid is broken, what's the use of leaving the pot body? So I grabbed the pot and threw it out of the window. Ming, I found the pot cover on the cotton shoes, intact. One foot crushed the lid of the pot. Door, I saw the teapot thrown out of the window last night, hanging on the branch intact-impulse is the devil, don't jump to conclusions, things may not be as bad as you think.
2 1, [6 philosophies in the workplace] 1 Doing something wrong and doing it right is a diligent loser; ② Failure to do the right thing correctly is a futile failure; (3) Doing something wrong is a complete failure; Doing nothing is a hopeless loser; ⑤ Doing the right thing correctly is the real winner; 6. Doing the right thing is a successful leader and doing the right thing is a successful manager.
22. The most precious thing in life is to have a good relationship, which is actually very simple. A compliment, a good deed, a smile and a little help can give us a good relationship in life. The pursuit of life is nothing more than happiness and happiness. The road to happiness is not the accumulation of years, nor the persistent pursuit, but cherishing everyone, everything and fate you meet; Be considerate and help others, and life will inevitably give back.
23. A person who can't find pleasure in life loses most of the meaning of life, and such a person actually gets less. Kind people are often selfish, dry and unpopular. On the contrary, there is a kind of people who often find unexpected pleasure in difficulties and sufferings, and their lives and hearts are quietly nourished by this pleasure.
24, many things are in our hands: for example, happiness, you are not happy, who will sympathize with your sadness; For example, strong, you are not strong, who will pity your cowardice; For example, if you work hard, who will accompany you if you don't work hard; For example, cherish, if you don't cherish, who will accompany you to squander your youth; For example, if you persist, who will advance and retreat with you if you don't persist ... Only by holding your destiny in your own hands can you find the flash of life.
25. There may be objective factors for not being reused. If you may encounter institutional constraints, or the timing is not good, there are still some people who meet bosses with strong desire for power and control and take your work as their own, leaving you helpless and so on. Faced with these objective factors, you can take a natural attitude and accept this helplessness in life, thus balancing your mentality.
Listen before you speak. Look before you leap. Be careful before spreading. Be thrifty before making money. Earn first, then spend. Before you make a commitment, a prerequisite. Put up with it before you do it. Try it before you quit. If you can take a step ahead in the workplace, then your career will reduce countless shortcomings!
27. Find your own position and make clear what you should and shouldn't do. When someone asks you for help, ask them to look at their plans and tell them that they are busy. Understand that the workplace is not absolutely recognized. No matter how well you do it, some people will feel uncomfortable. Instead of making yourself physically and mentally exhausted and not recognized, why not be a thorough bad guy?
28, people stand in the world, it is essential to deal with people. If you don't know how to understand other people's obscure ideas, you will hit a wall everywhere and can't move; Follow the rules and see opportunities everywhere, which will make you have a bright future. Baochai belongs to the latter. Baochai is a popular and popular figure among many characters in A Dream of Red Mansions. From Jia to Xiao Ya, both Lin Daiyu, who is classified as a positive figure, and Aunt Zhao, a negative figure, like her. In the big family of A Dream of Red Mansions, it is not easy and rare to get respect from the audience without being an enemy of one person.
29. Life is a process, and so is success. Satisfied with small success will promote great success. Great people know the hard process of growing up, so after a small success, they can continue to open the next "sealed bag" of life.
30. Don't worry, the work efficiency may decrease after the long vacation. Just like exercise needs to warm up, you can finish some simple work first and step by step. After working for about 30 minutes, do some simple relaxation exercises at your desk.
3 1, when you find that the leader's decision is unreasonable, don't contradict to his face and embarrass the leader. In fact, a leader should be persuaded. No matter what he says in front of everyone, he must accept it first, show obedience and let the leader have face. Then, he should report to the leader alone, communicate and explain euphemistically, so that the leader can not only understand the unreasonable place, correct it himself, but also find out the correct solution. Doing so can not only adjust unreasonable decisions, but also draw closer the relationship between superiors and subordinates without hurting the self-esteem of leaders.
32. The boss does not assign tasks to subordinates. Although there are many legitimate reasons, it does not rule out that a few bosses deliberately put new people aside for fear that rising stars will overshadow themselves. At this time, people in the workplace should let each other know that they are fully capable of working independently and should not be idle.
33. It is necessary to frequently transfer the work place and work content, and constantly adapting to the new environment and new colleagues will cause great pressure in life. Without the working environment of peers, few people can bear the pressure and responsibility. Once something happens, they can only bear it alone, and the pressure is difficult to solve.
34. Women's self-examination ability is more developed than men's. Due to the bondage of tradition, women have a strong sense of inferiority in life, especially in professional life. Professional women tend to exaggerate their weaknesses and tend to think that they can do nothing, so it is easy to turn into depression.
Like every ordinary person, I also have weaknesses, such as indifference, selfishness and vanity. Morality just lets me see these weaknesses clearly, and then restrain or learn from the people around me. A person's thoughts are inseparable from his career. No way. It was one thing when I was a reporter, but it was another thing in real life. This is completely impossible.
36. In the workplace, we should do things with goals every day and have a place to learn, so that we can make progress, because besides making money, the workplace is also a place for us to improve ourselves, enrich ourselves and give play to our self-worth. If you have a smart boss, it is also an intangible asset in the workplace, because you can learn a lot of valuable advantages and experiences from him. Approach and learn as much as possible.
37. Not paying attention to the venting of occasions will make others very passive and embarrassed. The superior boss will also form a bad impression on you, and the boss has more reason to say how wrong you are. It's hard to change so many people's views on you, and the situation will get worse in the future.
As a manager of a company, we must pay attention to the quality of the people we promote, and at the same time, managers should strengthen their self-cultivation, keep a distance from those who flatter, and even fire those who only know how to flatter. Only in this way can managers create a good working environment, win the trust of employees and promote their future.
39. If managers' decisions are based on illusions, the result will naturally be failure. Therefore, in company management, managers need to have a pair of discerning eyes, identify illusions and see the essence of things clearly. Decision making is the lifeblood of a company. At a critical moment, a correct decision can bring the company back to life, while a wrong and unrealistic decision will bring the company to the brink of extinction. Therefore, many times, managers need to have far superior insight.
40. Team members are highly interdependent and enjoy the benefits. Every member is faced with the dilemma of whether to cooperate or not: if not, other members are working hard and they can enjoy the results of the team; But if all the team members think so, the team will accomplish nothing and everyone will be punished for it.
4 1, growing with the team is with ambition, desire and status; Enterprises are people in the final analysis, and management is borrowing power in the final analysis. Failed leaders solve everyone's problems by their own efforts, and successful leaders gather everyone's efforts to solve the problems of enterprises. The process of running an enterprise is a process of borrowing power. Only when more and more people are willing to lend their strength to you will the enterprise succeed.
42. Pretend to be perfect: Interviewers often ask: What are your personality weaknesses? Have you ever suffered setbacks in your career? Some people will not hesitate to answer: no, in fact, this answer is often irresponsible to themselves. No one has no weaknesses, and no one has never suffered setbacks. Only by fully recognizing one's own weaknesses and correctly recognizing one's own setbacks can one mold a truly mature personality.
43, serious first, smart second; The result comes first, and the reason comes second-attitude and result. What boss doesn't look at his subordinates like this?
44. The president of Coca-Cola once said: Each of us is like a clown, playing with five balls. Five balls are your work, health, family, friends and soul. Only one of these five balls is made of rubber, which will rebound when it falls, and that is work. The other four balls are all made of glass. If they fall to the ground, they will break.
45, 1. Specialty: It is more important to work in your own professional field than to get a high salary and position temporarily. 2. gregarious: wolves belong to wolves, sheep enter the sheepfold, and don't be different in the ethnic group. 3. Marketing: Actively promote yourself, waiting for Bole to appear will make you miss the opportunity. 4. Enthusiasm: At least make yourself look enthusiastic. 5. Love: Find a way to love your job.
46. Cleverness in the workplace includes a special keenness and ability to accept new things. When you enter a new environment, someone explains something to you and immediately asks' how about this'? Being smart is also the ability to ask insightful questions and accept things in real time, and it is also the ability to remember.
47. If you don't want to be questioned about your ability to work, you'd better leave these dresses in places unrelated to work: relatively exposed transparent clothes, open-toed sandals, and pungent inferior perfume. This will affect your professional image.
48. The personality of women in the workplace is too hot. Such people often pay the price for their impulses, while those who are too quiet and introverted often suffer from dumb losses. Women in the workplace in the new era must combine fiery personality with quiet personality.
49. Because white-collar workers are under too much pressure to compete in the workplace, they often distrust their colleagues and are not confident in themselves. So when we are together, we don't want to open our hearts to each other, which directly leads to the bad interpersonal relationship of white-collar workers.
50. To achieve such a tacit understanding between partners, it must be a perfect "person" between each other. When we cooperate with others at work, we should not only try our best to understand others, but also tell your partner about our lifestyle, communication style and work characteristics, so as to reduce misunderstandings, improve efficiency, increase pleasure and achieve twice the result with half the effort.
5 1, treat the boss as a customer: the customer sells products there and the boss sells himself to you. What is the difference between good and bad in the workplace? It is even more inappropriate for a boss to judge by quality. Only fair or not. You work for him, contribute your time and energy, and he gives you resources and opportunities for personal development. The two sides exchange equally, as long as the transaction is fair.
52. Choosing an industry and deciding to enter is not the starting point of starting a business. Finding and seeing the long-term market of the industry is the prelude. If you find the right industry, you won't position your upcoming activities in the market. Your career prospects are bound to be slim, but you may be cheated at any time.
53. If no one believes in you, believe in yourself; If no one appreciates you, appreciate yourself; If no one blesses you, bless yourself. Self-confidence is the source of success, introspection is the ladder of growth, self-improvement is the prelude to progress, and pride is the prelude to the future! Touch your own sunshine with your heart and create your own century with love! Only by knowing yourself can the world know you.
54. The difference between excellent employees and mediocre employees is that excellent employees will only make the same mistake once, while mediocre employees will make the same mistake many times, even after repeated education.
55. Your colleagues' understanding of your report is 80% correct, so you don't need to correct it. Everyone has a different world view. If you use your own worldview to measure and evaluate others, the result is resilience. Starting from the overall situation, it is more important to unite a team than to correct every detail. Therefore, in order to seek common ground while reserving differences, we must first ensure the consistency of the team.
56. As the saying goes, confident people don't doubt others, but people also believe in others. He who doubts himself doesn't trust others, and others doubt him. Romain rolland once said, "Believe in yourself, and then others will believe in you." If you want to convince your boss that you are valuable, you must first treat yourself as a mine! Always believe that you are a mine, and you can summon the power of success.
57. Most problems in the workplace are not caused by external forces, but by their own reasons. Many people who could have made great achievements ended in failure because of self-expansion. No matter how good a person is, once he gets carried away, he will become a pretentious and annoying guy.
58. Many people in the workplace have had this mentality. No matter how hard I try, I can't get a good development in this unit. Psychologically, this is called learned helplessness, which means that you feel powerless to change your situation from your own experience. Some people will blame the outside world for their inability to change their situation, instead of looking for reasons from themselves, thus falling into a vicious circle.
59. Colleagues work with you and confidants talk to you. Colleagues are scrambling to scoop rice with you in a pot, knowing that they came to your side when you were helpless and quietly left when you were brilliant. Therefore, when there is a personal crisis in your life, such as lovelorn and divorce, it is best not to talk to anyone casually in the office; When there is a crisis in your work, such as the work is not smooth, you have a problem with your boss and colleagues. Don't show your breasts to others in the office. To solve problems in life or work, you might as well find a few intimate friends after work and find a place to get drunk and get it off your chest.
60. Not everyone should be nice to you. You should be grateful for your enthusiasm. It's normal to be cold to you. Accepting these things safely enough is part of the job. Treat everything calmly.
6 1. Everyone has many roles in life and workplace, and different roles may have different definitions in others' eyes. I want to say, please don't be bound by other people's definitions or labels, and be the brightest self.
62. As the old saying goes, it is good for everyone and bad for anyone. Newcomers entering the workplace are enthusiastic about their predecessors, which is a manifestation of open mind. But if this enthusiasm makes no difference to everyone, it will not only make you tired, but also lead to ingratitude.
In the process of communication, we should pay attention to our own details and make ourselves more perfect. Maybe we can't change all our minor faults, but we should try our best to grasp the details and try our best to improve ourselves.
64. In the process of communicating with people at ordinary times, we should fully understand each other in order to take the initiative in the process of communicating with people and make communication handy.
65. Think+do = (possibly) get. It is better to stand up than to sit and think. The road to success is at your feet.
66. I pour out my heart and lungs to people and things. Finally, I only touched myself. No one can decide your happiness except yourself. Try everything, because you never know what will change your life.
67. The same body effect, also known as the single body effect, means that students classify teachers as the same type of people and are bosom friends. Students trust and accept the words of "their own" more. There is a famous saying in management psychology: "If you want people to believe that you are right and act according to your opinion, you need people to like you first, otherwise, your attempt will fail." Therefore, teachers should first learn to treat students as their own, be their intimate friends and be equal to them, so as to improve their influence.
68. I really want to go back to college. I'm not dissatisfied with my present job. Some questions may enlighten me in class.
69. Arrive after work and hope to report; Laugh, work is thrown back; Invite friends and chat happily; Good luck around, happy jumping around; Worry-free, happy after work!
70. I am afraid that you will not learn, and I am afraid that you will not learn; Study hard and ask more questions, learn from each other's strengths and be positive; Think of those who are unwilling, inferior to others, brave in innovation and determined to succeed!
7 1. Even ancient political leaders, even the emperor of a country, should pretend to be kind and selfless, so that more simple people can be fooled.
72. I have to eat! How to revive without eating? I want to fight the boss!
73. The establishment of man's great achievements lies not in knowing, but in being able to do it.
74. A person's greatest enemy is himself. There are no unfinished tasks, only those who lose confidence.
75. The word impossible (French is a word) can only be found in a fool's dictionary. Author: Napoleon
76. Those who sow with tears will reap the source with a smile. : positive energy in the workplace
77. "Impossible" only exists in the dictionary of fools.
78. Success is the process of repeating a simple thing, repeating it carefully and repeating it to the end.
79. Eyes can look at the sky, but feet must be down-to-earth. No matter how big your dreams and wishes are, the reality is that you have to do simple or even boring work every day.
80. Why is such a closed situation flooding the whole society? Isn't it because many people can't find the meaning and value of living and lose the direction of life? I think what this era needs most is to fundamentally question why people are alive.