It is found that the best height difference between men and women is 12cm, which is the most harmonious difference whether holding hands, hugging or kissing. And getting along together after marriage, such a distance is more suitable for cultivating the mental health of both husband and wife. ...
Golden ratio of height: height difference 12cm.
People are reliable in clothes, fat and thin can increase or decrease, but their height is certain, especially for boys. 170cm has always been a fatal dividing line. But it's a pity to grow to an altitude of 200cm+ like Yao Giant. Most women can't touch his face and miss many beautiful scenery. It is found that the best height difference between men and women is 12cm, which is the most harmonious difference whether holding hands, hugging or kissing. Getting along with each other after marriage is more suitable for cultivating the mental health of both husband and wife.
Age golden ratio: 3 years old, poor maturity
Girls are always precocious than boys, so they should live in peace. Age is a big problem, especially the key is that psychological age should be similar. It is just right that men are three years older than women. When the girls are still in the ivory tower, the boys have already started to work, and they can exchange rice for those flashy romances. Girls have graduated, and men are quite stable, not to mention having a car and a house, at least having a place to live. It is natural to get married and start a family. As the saying goes, it is a male junior, holding a gold brick.
Golden ratio of monthly salary: 1.5 times monthly salary difference.
Eating separately before marriage and eating at the same table after marriage, salary slips and bank cards are transparent, and how to support the family is also a key issue. The survey shows that when the average salary of a husband is 65438+ 0.5 times that of a wife, the family will be able to operate freely. It is natural for men to provide houses and cars, and it is entirely up to women to eat, dress and be filial to the elderly. Anyway, taking care of the youngest and ensuring life is also the key to the wife's level.
The golden ratio of space: 1 the distance difference between bowls of soup.
This space refers to the distance from both parents' homes. Today's young people are new people. Even if I can't cook, I don't like cleaning the house, and I don't want to have an elder around all day. I always feel that the couple's life is being watched. But now they are all only children, and occasionally they have to take care of their parents for minor illnesses. Therefore, it is always bad to hide far away. The best distance is the distance of a bowl of soup, that is, the distance that the old man can drink while it is hot.
The golden ratio of soul: the privacy of half sugar is poor.
The most terrible state of marriage is strange strange bedfellows, which is what most couples will encounter. I hope to be bored all day when I first got together, but I lack discovery after marriage. If they want to go out with their friends again, it's a luxury. If there is no news for an hour, they will cause an uproar, have doubts and be suspected of being passionate polishers. There is a saying that marriage is like holding sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster the hourglass holds it. There is another song that is very good. I want to stick to the semi-sugar doctrine of love. Love is hard-won, and you need to leave some space to breathe. Semisugar doctrine, that's it, give each other some space, everyone has the right to privacy.