Parents should call, don't drag down their lives, and don't be lazy.
Parents should respect and listen to their responsibilities.
Parents should answer the phone in time. Don't take too long to answer Parents have something to explain, they should start at once, don't delay, don't be lazy and refuse. Parents teach us the truth of being a man and doing things for our own good, and we should listen respectfully. When parents blame and admonish themselves for doing something wrong, they should accept it with an open mind and not argue irrationally to make their parents angry and sad.
Parents are the foundation of people. Filial piety must begin with emphasizing the root.
China's traditional society is based on China's traditional culture. China's traditional culture takes China's traditional ethics as its core and soul. Filial piety is the fundamental starting point of China's traditional ethics. Therefore, "ruling the world with filial piety" in ancient China is the fundamental thoroughfare of "cultivating one's morality, keeping one's family in order, governing the country and leveling the world". Starting from the individual and starting from the family is a peaceful society and a civilized and happy world.
In family life, children should respect and considerate their parents and take good care of them. Whenever parents call for orders, it must be their needs or instructions. "Children are filial and parents can rest assured. Family filial piety, state-owned loyal minister. " Only by cultivating pure and kind conduct within the family can we gain a foothold in many social affairs, be fearless and be a virtuous gentleman with a sense of responsibility and morality.
In this regard, the famous story of "mother-in-law tattoo" can be said to be a model. The story of Yue Quanzhuan is quite touching: after Yue Fei refused the courtship of Yang Yao, the Great Sage King of Huguang Dongting, Yue Fei's mother (called "Yue Anren" in the book) "thought about it" and ordered Yue Fei to put down a table of incense to pay homage to her ancestors. "Then call the child kneeling, daughter-in-law grinding ink. Yue Fei knelt down and said,' What is the mother's command?' An humanity:' It's great for a mother to see that you are not hired by traitors, content to be poor and not greedy for wealth! But I'm afraid that after I die, those unscrupulous people will seduce me. If my son lost his ambition and did something disloyal, wouldn't he lose his reputation for half his life? So, today, I want to tell the ancestors of heaven and earth that I want to tattoo the word "faithfully serve the country" on your backs. I hope you become a loyal minister. After my mother died, those who came and went would say,' What a peaceful man! My godson is going to be famous. He will serve his country faithfully and will be immortal! I smile in the grave! Yue Fei said,' The sage said,' If you have skin, your parents won't harm you. Mother's training is strict, and children can follow it, so don't tattoo it! An humanity:' Nonsense! If you do anything immoral in the future and get into a lawsuit, will you say to that official,' You are too healthy to be harmed by your parents'? Yue Fei said:' Mom is right, then let's tattoo the child!' Just take off half your clothes. An Ren picked up a pen, first wrote the words "loyal to serve the country" in the middle of Yue Fei's back, then picked up the embroidery needle in his hand and stabbed him in the back, only to see Yue Fei's flesh shrug. A humanitarian said, "Does my son hurt?" Yue Fei said:' If the mother has not been stabbed, how can she ask the child if it hurts? An Ren said with tears:' My son! You are afraid of being a soft mother, so it doesn't hurt. "Just bite a tooth. After stabbing, it will be coated with vinegar ink and will never fade ... "
Such a story is touching; Such a mother will live forever; Such a son is a model; Such a family style is the most precious way of loyalty and filial piety of our Chinese nation and a noble spirit. Whether we are parents or children, we should study hard, inherit and carry forward the masses!