2, life is endless, and at the end of it, we have to leave this world again. (Page 2)
The flowers and fruits watered by the gardener with blood and tears will be sent to the world for others to enjoy sooner or later. (Page 2)
3 ... Everything depends on your firm will and position ... Everything depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. (p9)
I don't agree to blame myself for not taking action. This is the basic style of being a man. Not just about someone or something. I once told you that only facts can prove your thoughts and only actions can show your heart. You can't be so careless with your friends. People who are fickle in nature are the most wronged and the least worthy to act fickle. Just like a person who is not naughty gets hurt in the end when playing naughty, it is a truth. (p 12)
You know all the principles of being a man, but you lose because you don't show the facts. I hope you will remember this for the rest of your life from now on. You have to explain everything to others! (p 12)
People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. (p 13)
A person's venting needs mental health, not making himself more and more depressed. (p 14)
6. About emotional problems ... Be restrained anyway and focus on the future and health. (p 15)
Seven ..... Use more reason and less emotion. Of course, you must rely on your strong confidence to control all troubles. This is not an easy thing, but it must be overcome.
8. When a person is lonely and his thoughts are concentrated, all feelings are real feelings. (p 19)
9. Don't let what you feel float on the surface of your feelings, but carefully analyze how the newly felt things are different from your original thoughts, emotions and expressions. This requires calm and strong intelligence to analyze clearly. (page 23)
Young people are most likely to give the impression of "ingratitude". In fact, he is staring at the front, eager to absorb new things, not necessarily "ungrateful"; But few people understand this psychology, ... (P23)
10, as long as it is true, it is a real lesson, whether it comes from parents or friends, or from acquaintances and strangers, you must accept it. (p29)
You must get rid of some easy-going temper ... if you are always in the crowd, you will lack the opportunity to reflect. Thoughts, feelings and feelings can't be well sorted out and summarized.
1 1, patience, depression, no matter who will meet from time to time, but it will soon pass. (Page 30)
Try not to care about success or failure, just try your best, and have a clear conscience. (p3 1)
12, people's life is floating in the climax-low tide, but only mediocre people, life is like a stagnant pool; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation to be fruitless and truly free. As long as the climax doesn't make you nervous and the low tide doesn't make you decadent, there is no problem. Too strong sunshine will scorch the grains; Too much rain will flood the crops. We just want a psychological balance, so that we won't get hurt ... gradually you will develop another mood to deal with the past; It is to be able to think without soul-stirring, to analyze the cause and effect from an objective standpoint, to make reference for the future and to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only when a person dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, rationally analyze and thoroughly understand, will he not be eroded by memories ... If a person regards these things as the ashes of his soul, he will certainly feel deeply, but don't hurt himself deeply, but cherish his heart as if he were facing an ancient battlefield. (p32~33)
13, the game is a heavy burden, but in any case, we should make some psychological preparations. As long as you try your best not to care about gains and losses, you will be calm and completely relaxed. Only in this way can you hope to achieve good results ... If you can often think of the famous saying "an article learns from the past, it will be much easier mentally." Only in this way can we avoid feeling overworked and tired. The most tormenting thing is not mental and physical labor, but trouble! (page 38)
Try to relax yourself and keep it up, so as to get good grades. Nervousness is harmful to everything. ..... With the concept of "I'll try my best", I immediately call myself lenient when I'm nervous, and treat your spirit like your hands and fingers, so I should always pay attention to relaxation. (page 39)
You can't be too busy on weekdays. People drag you out and you have to make up your homework, which is harmful to your energy. Let's stop talking about the number of times on the grounds of practicing the piano. If you are not nervous, don't be too busy; I'd rather be free and think quietly ... don't be sentimental, I'm sorry. It is a habit not to go out with people during office hours, and it won't offend people. The limited energy in life ... (page 39)
14, ... Art is your lifelong career, and art itself is already wonderful. You must not be too nervous when practicing the piano. Life is limited, energy is limited. We should take a long-term view and run a marathon. You are an impulsive person, so you should restrain yourself. (42 pages)
15, ... more depression of feelings, more emphasis on skills and more use of reason will definitely reduce fatigue. (p42)[ This is what Mr. Fu Lei should pay attention to when instructing Fu Cong to practice the piano, and how to reduce the fatigue of practicing the piano].
Kung fu is not used enough; You will never get good grades if you don't suffer enough! (page 43)
16. People who play tricks all day are artists, not artists. A person can't jump out of this level, nor can he dream of art all his life! Art is the purpose, and skill is the means; Those who always pay attention to the means will inevitably forget its purpose. (47 pages)
17, ... Don't push yourself when you are already very tired. Keep more vitality, and you will still have an advantage in the long run. (page 54)
18, the size and level of achievements are beyond our control, half by manpower and half by talent, but as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks and blows, whether in personnel, life, technology or study. From now on, you can fight alone. (page 56)
19, the greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that intuitive feeling ... (page 60)
Thinking about the difficulties of the past will give you more courage to overcome them in the future, so as not to lose confidence! Life is an endless marathon ... (P6 1)
..... Young people tend to overestimate their own strength. (p6 1)
..... Today, you have passed this complacency, but I will always be a disciple of China Confucianism. When you meet something extremely prosperous, you will feel particularly solemn, particularly afraid and particularly alert. (p6 1)
..... In fact, perfection does not exist at all, and the whole life, food street and universe are far from perfection. This is the ideal of philosophers and politicians. The pursuit of our life, the pursuit of generations in history, is nothing more than perfection, but it will never be pursued. Because people's ideals and fantasies are endless, perfection is like the moon in the water and the flower in the mirror, which is always within reach. But at a certain stage, it is also good to get the overall "integrity" or comparative "integrity". (page 62)
If a person wants to do something, he must think it over carefully in advance. Especially when you want to change course, abandon the old road and take a new road, you must balance your own reason and weigh the old road and the new road on two plates very accurately. (page 69)
No one is more painful than the unknown and uncertainty! (p7 1)
2 1, a person is too easy to be satisfied, of course, it is not perfect to be too dissatisfied and cause many unrealistic fantasies! (page 76)
22, ... In the future, you have to be on guard against others. Don't be so naive, always be a "gentleman's heart". In the past ... you always thought young people were pure ... young people were not much purer than middle-aged people. Everything should be observed slowly. These old sayings are really reasonable. (p8 1)
23. An enthusiastic person, especially a young person, will inevitably go too far; As long as you are kind-hearted, upright and broad-minded, you can correct your judgment in time and don't stick to your own opinions, that's good. (
As long as a person is sincere, he can always impress people; Even if people don't understand, they will understand later. (
People's psychology is: gifts that are rarely received are valued; Often get, not only do not pay attention to, but think it is the right to enjoy, not only ungrateful, but easy to produce resentment. ( )
24. When sticking to the truth, we must pay attention to the way, attitude, tone and tone of speech. The more reason you have to do it, the more relaxed your attitude and the softer your voice will be. Upholding the truth is an arduous struggle and an educational work. Need good methods, ways, means and patience. Never use fire, it is misleading.
After a setback, we must improve our thinking and style of work in the future. (
25. The higher a person climbs, the more conscientious he is in all aspects of life.
26, a person is too smooth, it is easy to get carried away unconsciously ... A feeling of pride often floats in my heart, and it is immediately suppressed when it is suddenly discovered. ..... It can be seen that a person can't relax his struggle for a moment. (27, reporters are always in this style, putting their own words in others' mouths.
28. Although life is so cruel, we should strive to improve ourselves and give others less pain and more happiness. (
29, emotional problems, we must grasp, be firm, from the big picture, we must take care of the overall situation, do not simply show temporary goodwill, we must be extremely calm, we must take care of the happiness of several people, short-sighted and soft-hearted will often cause unnecessary pain for a long time.
30 ..... After all, the personal world is limited, and people's praise for you can only inspire you; Different opinions can make you progress and broaden your horizons: I hope to think with a calm and open mind.
3 1 No matter men or women, only by focusing their interests on career, study and art, and trying to put aside their ego (ego), can they be happy and feel that their lives are meaningful.)
32. The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is to set an example; Never ask others what you can't do; If you want to make mistakes, criticize yourself first and correct yourself first. (33, ... humorous and happy like a child, unhappy like a romantic poet. Sometimes very easygoing, easy to get along with; Sometimes he is stubborn and refuses to give in. At this point, I want to be fair. He is not always wrong. In fact, he is kind and gentle, sincere and compassionate, and has an open-minded and modest personality. (
34, people need to constantly jump out of the cage of self, in order to have new feelings, new methods, more correct self-criticism.
35. The sublime things in life may become vulgar once they come from mediocrity. ( )
36. Young people are often carefree and overconfident in their opinions, so they can't consider all possible unhappiness in advance. 37 ... purity is a valuable quality, but ignorance can easily turn into stupidity and bring trouble. (
38. Most ethnic groups in China are calm, indifferent and simple, and they are easier to satisfy than westerners. On the other hand, although Buddhism has a great influence, the theory of heaven and earth is only a Hinayana (pure land Sect) in Buddhism, which is designed for people with less knowledge. True Buddhist teachings don't believe in heaven and hell; But to seek enlightenment and intellectual leap; Consciousness is the illusion of knowing the world, and crossing is the transcendence of pain and trouble. Although it is a birth concept, it does not inspire people to pursue happiness enthusiastically or to escape from the horror of hell; Leadership is persuading people to seek wisdom.
Wisdom makes people realize naturally, but faith makes people walk into the path of paranoia and fanaticism.
People can't make progress without depression and contradiction. Contradictions will force you to solve them ... take a step forward ... peace without contradictions is just a lofty ideal, and it is not a good phenomenon to realize it. -the peace and tranquility that self-cultivation kung fu can achieve is only very short-lived, such as waves and peaks, which are fleeting. Or the ideal peace is rippling, contradictory but not too sharp, and the spiritual cultivation that can be solved at any time is by no means like water. What is there to envy about a stagnant pool of water? I think if you are depressed, don't fall into pessimism, and you can solve contradictions (at least in theory), then depression and contradictions are not terrible. What needs to be avoided is mental and physical disorder caused by depression, or cynicism and the attitude of dance academy. From another point of view, the most hurtful thing (for yourself and others) is the anguish and contradiction starting from passion. Any depression caused by inferiority or self-drowning. It's not good for society, but also fatal for yourself. ..... We are not afraid of constant depression and contradiction, but we must not let this depression and contradiction interfere with our happy mood.
39. If the limit is exceeded, there is absolutely no overindulgence and no consequences! Everything should conform to the golden mean. ...
40. Among the gods, the goddess of luck is the most willful and vicious, and often attacks people, which makes people unprepared.