The Guide to Learning and Development for 3-6-year-olds points out that early childhood is an extremely rapid period for children's physical and functional development, and it is also an important stage for forming a sense of security and optimism.
What problems should parents pay attention to in children's mental health education?
1. Don't care too much about children: caring too much makes children too self-centered and thinks that everyone should respect him, and as a result, they become arrogant people.
2. Don't bribe children: Let children know the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age. If they don't fulfill their obligations, they can't enjoy their rights.
3. Encourage children to associate with peers: Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with peers, so as to learn how to get along with others.
4. Don't force children to do things they can't do: children's self-confidence mostly comes from success. Forcing them to do what they can't do will only hurt their self-confidence.
5. Don't be too strict with children, even beat and scold: Beating and scolding will make children have unhealthy psychology such as timidity and escape, and easily lead to abnormal behaviors such as resistance and lying.
6. Don't cheat and unnecessarily intimidate children: scaring children will lose the authority of parents in their children's hearts, and children will not be persuaded by all warnings in the future.
7. Don't criticize children in public: Don't criticize or laugh at children in public in front of friends, which will make children bear grudges and be shy, which will greatly damage their self-esteem.
8. Don't praise your child too much: If your child has achieved something, give him some praise. Too much praise will make children infected with the bad psychology of fishing for fame.
9. Don't get emotional with your child: it will make your child sensitive, suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid.
10. Help children analyze their environment: help children solve difficulties instead of replacing them, and teach them to analyze and solve problems.