(1) Create a democratic and harmonious family environment.
Family environment, parents' upbringing, attitudes and ways play a great role in the development of children's healthy personality. A democratic and harmonious family atmosphere helps children to have a positive attitude towards life, and they can consciously participate in family activities. Love, care and understanding between parents; Parents' consideration, respect and care for their elders; Parents' strict love for their children is moderate, demanding and loving, which can enable children to correctly understand and evaluate themselves and form positive emotions such as self-esteem, self-confidence, autonomy, self-control, kindness and responsibility. However, if children live in an unharmonious and unhealthy family environment, they will feel insecure, distrust people, and some even have aggressive behavior or violent tendencies.
(2) Respect children, protect their self-esteem and enhance their self-confidence.
Although the child is small, he is also an independent individual with his own wishes, requirements, interests and hobbies. Parents should learn to gain insight into their children's inner world, communicate with their children in a tone of consultation, guidance and encouragement, and think from their children's point of view instead of imposing their will on them. Now the children's study and living conditions are better, but the psychological pressure and study burden are heavier. That's because some parents force their children to attend various training classes regardless of their wishes and interests, which stifles their playful nature. These are not conducive to the healthy growth of children's personality. Parents should affirm and encourage their children's progress bit by bit, increase their self-confidence and protect their self-esteem.
(C) to cultivate the independence of children's lives
At present, most children are only children. Every child is the little sun at home, and the conditions of eating, drinking and having fun are the best at home. However, due to the overprotection of parents, they think that children only need to concentrate on their studies, and other things are arranged by their parents, which leads to children's "mouth to mouth, clothes to reach out" and no ability to take care of themselves, especially children in cities, who are spoiled everywhere. If children depend entirely on adults in life, it will not only directly affect their health, but also be detrimental to the formation of children's labor habits and civilized behavior.
(4) Pay attention to cultivating children's communication skills, lively and cheerful personality and love.
Communication ability is very important to a person's life. Today's children have no brothers or sisters and are the center of the family. Therefore, it is easy to develop shortcomings such as willfulness and self-centeredness, and is not good at communicating with peers. As parents, let children contact other children more, observe more and interfere less, and let children learn to adapt, accumulate experience and learn to communicate.
I think: a lively and cheerful personality is beneficial to children's life, and children will encounter some setbacks in their study and life. At this time, parents should not use the language of accusation and criticism, but use the tone of encouragement to guide and keep their children lively and cheerful. Especially for children's playful nature, don't blindly suppress it. Let children keep their innocent and lively nature and have a happy and carefree childhood.
We can teach children to learn knowledge and skills in 20 years or 20 years, but it is impossible to teach them to become a person with good moral character and healthy personality. Only having a healthy body and personality is the greatest happiness in a person's life, and we, as educators or parents, are one of the creators of this happiness. Only long-term unremitting efforts can make children have this happiness.