Everyone wants to live a long life, and they all want to live a little more, at least over 90 years old, which is the most suitable, so that they can see more different worlds. But what the old people don't understand is that longevity is not easy, and there are very few old people who can live long. When they get old, they will have various physical problems, and serious illnesses will flock out. When old people are sick, they will come out in droves. However, some long-lived old people are really happy and blessed in their later years. So, for the elderly who live long, how did they live so long? Do they have any secrets?
A 94-year-old uncle Chen bluntly said: "After retiring for many years, I realized that the most important first choice for health and longevity is not sociable. As long as you don't fit in, you will live a long and healthy life. " Why do you think so? Next, let's listen to Uncle Chen's health and longevity.
I'm 98 years old. I retired at the age of 55. I don't really remember what happened when I retired. I have forgotten many things, but I still remember some important things clearly. Some people have not forgotten them. My mind is still flexible and my body is healthy. Plus I'm old, and my monthly pension has increased to 9000.
Friends around me envy me for having such a high pension in my later years. In fact, everyone has such an opportunity, it depends on whether you can seize it. When I was young, I tried my best to make money, so I groped my way to this point step by step. If I want to have such a life, I still need a lot of efforts. You should make more money when you are young, instead of thinking about how to have fun.
Except for my high pension in my later years, everyone envies me for living long, because I am 98 years old. For many people, living to my age is very old. People my age are long gone, and most people live to the highest age in their eighties. There are really few people who live to my age. Besides, I have lived a long time and I am still in good health. Now I can take care of myself.
Friends around me often ask me why I can live to be so old. In fact, I want to say that if you want to live a long life, there is only one requirement, that is, don't get too close to people. As long as you don't get along with others, then you will live a long and healthy life like me. Why do I say that? Next, I'll tell you about my long life.
When I first retired, I couldn't stand living alone. Besides, I am always lively. Many people like to be friends with me, and I have made many brothers. After we retired, I went to play with them as soon as I had time. Even if we do nothing but sit there and chat, I feel very happy. Maybe it's because a few of us have come all the way.
Every day we either go fishing or play chess, or play Tai Chi, have afternoon tea and brag. Really, a few years before I retired, I thought this kind of life was to my liking, but day after day, I really felt bored, and gradually found that this kind of life was not what I wanted, and even felt that this kind of life was not interesting at all. As for why we are bored, I also think we are.
In the past, we never gossiped about others, blamed anyone or even reversed right and wrong, but gradually, I had two good brothers who had a good life before. I often hear them speak ill of others and often say that a couple has a bad relationship. Later, when people found out, they came to them and scolded them. However, they are still stubborn and even more indifferent to their suggestions than before. When it comes to other people's wives, there are other men outside, and I have told many people. I told them many times not to speak ill of others often, but they didn't listen to me at all. Then I didn't want to talk to them, so I left with them and stopped playing with them.
However, until one day, when I went out, the hero mentioned by my two friends came up to me angrily and threatened to beat me up. I looked puzzled and didn't know what had happened. However, the man said, my two brothers said that I told them all this, so they told others. I really didn't know that they blamed me, but I still regarded them as good brothers. If so, then don't be brothers.
I made it clear to him that it was none of my business. I have never said a word of no to anyone. Besides, I don't like gossip, and I don't know him very well. How can I speak ill of him? He still wouldn't listen. Fortunately, at this time, a quiet person in the village stood up and made it clear to him, otherwise he would not let me go.
Not only this situation, but also others, that is, some dog friends around me used to pay for themselves every time they went out to eat and drink. I never cared about it. I think everyone is a friend, and it makes no difference who goes out. Anyway, I'm not short of money, but who would have thought they were used to it? Even if I didn't want to go out for supper and fell asleep, they told me to go out. I don't care. After eating and drinking enough, they all went out one by one because they knew I would pay the bill. I feel terrible after such a long time. Why do I have to pay every time, and no one wants to give me money every time I pay?
I was really angry at that time, and it happened several times later. They really treat me like a big head, which is really irritating. I told them that if I didn't AA, I wouldn't be called out in the future. After I said this, some of my friends said to me, "Of all these people, you are the richest. If I had money, I would have done it long ago. Needless to say, I let you out every time. "
Hearing this, my heart is not uncomfortable. I always thought they were my brothers, so I didn't care. I didn't expect them to think of me like this. Over the years, several people took advantage of me. I never asked them to invite me, and it didn't cost them a penny. They don't cherish me, even if they don't appreciate me, it's really chilling to say such hurtful things.
Through these things, I also understand that such dog friends are not worthy of my deep friendship. Even true friends can't get together often, just come out and sit occasionally. If he is together every day, sooner or later, there will be contradictions and it will also make him suffer. Although I was very happy at first, later life made me feel wronged, and living alone was even worse.
After being unsociable, my life is much happier, more comfortable and without any troubles. I grow vegetables at home every day, buy a bird and play with it when I am bored. Otherwise, practice calligraphy, buy sports equipment online and come back to exercise at home. I haven't been out much. When you are hungry, you can cook by yourself. Every day is full, full.
Since I didn't fit in, my health is better than before, and I am happy every day. I never wronged myself when I was old, nor did I go to my children's home to support the elderly. On the contrary, I have hired a nanny to wait on myself. I'm more comfortable with a nanny, I eat and drink well, and I don't have to worry about anything.
Therefore, if you want to live as you please in your old age, you should stay away from your dog friends. Being unsociable is also one of the first choices for health and longevity.
Therefore, in this life, people can't live without friends. The earth doesn't turn without people. Don't take others too seriously. Maybe in your eyes, friends are very important, but in others' eyes, you are just a passer-by, so there is no need to be so serious. Being kind to yourself is the most real thing. The secret of old people's health and longevity is unsociable. As long as you don't fit in, everything you want will come.