Parents' methods of educating their children at home should first maintain the unified educational concept and methods with kindergartens and cultivate children's good behavior habits.
For example, insist on going to bed early and getting up early, and don't disrupt the schedule because of holidays; Don't be spoiled in life, encourage children to take care of themselves and let them wear pants, shoes and socks that can't take off their clothes. What is the child's voice? Please help me and let me do it myself? Adults should have enough patience and confidence, wait for children to finish what they can do, give them the expected time, and avoid delay or dependence; Parents should set an example and encourage their children to communicate with others, not only with acquaintances, but also with strangers in public places such as parks and supermarkets, so as to be familiar with the community environment. Parents and children of children
Second, prepare a room environment that is convenient for children to live and practice.
For example, in addition to putting toys and books low, there should be hangers suitable for children's height operation for children to hang sandals or choose their own clothes; Prepare some real but inexpensive tableware for children to take when they need it and put it back after use; Let children participate in family affairs such as serving meals, setting the table, sweeping the floor and cleaning the room. Parent-child network
Third, we should adapt to children's sensitive education.
At a certain stage, children will be particularly interested in certain things or actions, such as being sensitive to small things at the age of one and a half, exploding in language at the age of two, and enjoying touching anything with their hands before the age of three. After the age of three, she gradually entered various sensitive periods such as observation, expression, counting, literacy, reading, writing, communication and culture. Parents can provide learning conditions according to their children's interests. It should be noted that, first, don't force children to learn, especially to remember abstract things; Second, we should start with the specific visual content; The third is to let children operate as much as possible, because? Hands are the best teacher for children? . Adapting to sensitive education will get twice the result with half the effort, right? Teachers have a heart, but scholars have no heart? If we violate the principle of sensitive period and pull out seedlings according to the subjective wishes of adults to promote or inhibit children's growth needs, it will cause all kinds of harm to children and even affect the later adult stage.
Three preparations for parents to educate their children at home
First, create a good early education atmosphere for children. Although children do not have the ability to analyze and judge, they have strong imitation ability, and they will imitate the actions of adults around them. Therefore, when educating children, adults had better be cautious and set a good example for children. This is the key to early education.
Second, let children learn the experience in life, and let them know the things around them, adapt to the living environment and develop their intelligence through various forms of small games. Let it play with children more, let children? Moral, intellectual, physical and artistic work? Comprehensive early education.
Third: prepare some early education smart toys suitable for children. There are many early education toys in the market, most of which are simply auditory early education toys that can realize dialogue, identify body positions and interact with people, while ignoring the visual early education function. A good early education toy should have the following factors:
1. No harm to children's eyes, no light radiation;
2. Strong fall resistance and exquisite and round design;
3. The content is healthy and rich, with various forms, which can play videos, music, pictures and interact with each other. Really realize entertaining.
4. Easy to operate and carry.
Moral education is an education to cultivate children's correct outlook on life and values, good moral quality and correct thinking methods. This stage should start from childhood and family, which is a long-term accumulation process, and family atmosphere is also one of the important factors. Parents should be practical and set an example in real life. When choosing books and cartoons for children, we should also be cautious and choose meaningful and positive things. Like story lights? Classic story hall? The series stories of library's Chinese culture accomplishment and the selection of China's traditional fables can help children absorb the essence of tradition, cultivate extraordinary temperament and lay the foundation for a noble life! What else is there? China National Studies Museum? Disciples' Rules and Three-Character Classics at school let children learn these two things from an early age.
Intellectual education is to give children systematic early education and develop their intelligence. First, language enlightenment, and then literacy, literacy is an important way to develop children's intelligence. At home, parents can make small things around them into words or patterns related to their children's lives, so that children can learn to recognize them. When a child begins to read, he can also put some words for her to recognize. In addition, you should watch some simple picture books and story books with your baby, and of course you can also watch healthy cartoons with your child under the story light, such as Disciple Rules, idiom stories and fables, which can make children interested in China ethics and imitate them, and cultivate their cultural literacy one by one. Story lights can also let children do built-in interactive education and training questions to stimulate their potential and improve their intelligence.
Physical exercise strengthens children's physique and cultivates their willpower. Guide children to take a walk in nature and exercise. Conditional families pay attention to this kind of training from the birth of their children, such as learning to swim in the neonatal period and learning to skate at the age of 1 1/2. Parents are improving their children's physical training, so that children can develop a bold and brave character while having a strong body.
Aesthetic education is an education to cultivate children's aesthetic ability, develop children's ability to appreciate and create beauty, and cultivate children's noble sentiments and civilized quality. For example, after living and studying with children for a day, you might as well enjoy beautiful music with them. You can take your children to a musical, or listen to the music in the story-relaxing concert hall at home. Chinese and foreign nursery rhymes can stimulate children's interest in music, let them feel beauty in music and improve their aesthetic ability. You will find that the concert makes children's expressions, movements and appearances reveal elegant temperament. In addition, children can learn painting modeling, which plays a great role in stimulating the development of the right brain, enhancing imagination and thinking in images, and improving aesthetic ability.
Labor education is to cultivate children's labor concepts and skills. Seize the beginning of labor, starting with the labor that children are interested in. Children are particularly curious. They want to try everything and imitate the works of adults. For example, children can teach their parents how to wash clothes and make soap bubbles, and let them wash handkerchiefs, socks and so on.
Parents' methods of educating their children at home 1. Create a good atmosphere for children's growth.
The influence of family environment on children is very important. Family is the first place for children to live and study. The structure and atmosphere of the family, the overall quality of family members, the moral standards and words and deeds of family members determine the moral quality and behavior habits of children in their future lives. Generally speaking, families in it runs in the family have different educational attitudes, educational methods and educational contents towards their children. Usually, grandparents will take great care of their children's diet and daily life, while parents will pay more attention to their children's intellectual development. In the cultivation of moral quality, grandparents and fathers will also be different because of historical concepts, cultural quality and moral standards. This requires parents to be as coordinated as possible when treating their children, and to cultivate children's good moral quality as the starting point, so that children can grow up healthily and synchronously. Family atmosphere also affects children, and a warm and harmonious family is easy to cultivate children's modesty, friendliness, courtesy and self-confidence. Noisy, estrangement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, divorce of parents, etc. , will lead to loneliness, resentment, suspicion, stubbornness, rudeness and other bad personality and aggressive behavior.
2. Strengthen the cultivation of children's self-confidence.
Cultivating children's psychological quality of believing in their own strength has an excellent influence on their life development. If a person lacks self-confidence, can't see his own ability, thinks that he can't do anything, is always inferior to others, and has low motivation for achievement, he will be passive, and what he can do well will give up halfway. Over time, it will hinder the child's physical and mental development. Therefore, the cultivation of children's self-confidence must be combined with the cultivation of children's various abilities and interests, so that children's self-confidence can be built on a solid foundation. People often say? Failure is the mother of success? But for children, it may be? Success is the mother of success? Give children more opportunities, more encouragement, more praise and less criticism. When some parents reprimand their children, they often say everything: You see how good their children are, how smart their children are, and how stupid you are. Parents can say anything when they are angry, but they don't know that your angry words may affect their children's life growth. So parents should avoid using it when their children are growing up? Fool? 、? Useless stuff? 、? Idiot? Such insulting language. Children's growth begins with mistakes, and the process of recognizing mistakes is also the process of children's growth. Every child has his own advantages and disadvantages. He should be good at discovering the advantages of children and helping them overcome their shortcomings.
3. Develop children's language ability
During this period, parents should take time to communicate with their children as much as possible, and they can talk about anything, such as telling stories about their childhood, which children like to listen to very much. Listening more and consciously letting children learn to listen are very beneficial to their future development. Talk more, let the children tell the story in kindergarten, what happened with them, tell a little joke, play a little game, or let the children retell the story, tell who the people in the story are and what they are doing. Speaking more is mainly to cultivate children's language expression ability and lay a good language foundation for entering primary school.
4. Exercise children's life skills
Children's life skills include packing school bags, managing things, going to kindergarten and falling asleep on time, and the ability to communicate and solve problems independently. If children have minor conflicts with their peers, parents should never come forward. They should guide their children to solve problems by themselves, encourage them to communicate with other children, exercise their ability to communicate with their peers, and lay a foundation for establishing good interpersonal relationships. The purpose of training children's life skills is to let them learn to manage themselves gradually, so that they can live a busy life in an orderly way after entering primary school.